Has anyone heard of the ''virgin standard''? Do you think such thing exists?
My friend and I were talking and he mentioned something like''Do you remember when you were a virgin and you had a ridiculously high standard about girls''?
Im a virgin in my mid 20s myself. Of course I told all my friends I lost it on prom night. I dont look like one either, im tall, I workout, im not awkward around women. I know I can get it if I try but I dont want my first time to be a meaningless one night stand. But lets say im surrounded by alot of attractive girls i'll quickly find flaws in them and pick very few that maybe fit my unfiltered liking, thats if I dont lower my standards first. Is it just me or does it have something to do with me still being a virgin?
It does indeed exist, that's why there is alcohol to help you lose it.
Blake Anderson
But why? Why numb a natural instinct thats supposed to guide me. Its going against myself. Plus alcohol doesnt really make people more attractive to me
There's a middle ground. Don't go for the ugly fatties just because you want to score, but don't rule out anyone that isn't a model. If a girl is really into you, it somehow makes them even more attractive. The models are usually autisticly retarded when it comes to sex while the plain ones are freaks in the sack. At least this is what I tell myself.
Anthony Johnson
Dont listen to the others. Be proud of who you are. Its a rare thing these days and once u lose it theres no going back.
Its true. I know a few girls and they told me the same. They would know if they are not that attractive and they try to make up for it in bed. One such girl hooked every guy she was with precicely because of this and they will keep calling her years after the break up.
Carson Reed
>Why numb a natural instinct thats supposed to guide me. Because it doesn't guide you to pucci. Let your benis override your brain and once sex isn't big deal anymore let brain take the helm again. Otherwise you risk porno fucking with your brain.
Chase Martinez
I think this is a thing only because virgins only notice the looks don't realize that personality is more important
Kayden Perry
Yeah we're basically the same except I'm only twenty. I'm also just overly afraid of contracting an STD. Leaning towards saving myself for marriage now but, there's still a part of me that says I should just get it over with.
Daniel Hill
Are you ever try dating? >But lets say im surrounded by alot of attractive girls i'll quickly find flaws in them Are you wearing fedora?
Alexander Howard
Your natural instinct was built from a time when you would see 1000 women during your entire life
It's operating in a modern setting where you can masturbate to that amount in one night
Austin Martinez
I used to fuck trolls, though I worked my way up. It's all about making them feel bad and bringing them down to your level. If your level is low enough. I'm no picnic either
Dominic Sullivan
I find at least 2/3 of the girls in my university very attractive the bigger problem is that I don't feel anything special toward any of them, so I do nothing not a virgin, though
Carter Lopez
I have virgin standards, because ill only regret sleeping with an ugly girl.
I only date women that I would marry
Zachary Brooks
you sound like a faggot
Lincoln Clark
Alcohol really numbs my libido. I'm not sure if I could even get a stiffy if I was too fucked honestly
Xavier Walker
sta ti znas o tome
gde su ex-ju niti?
Juan Hill
Had that once when I was super drunk and hooked up with a Korean girl. Grabbed her ass constantly in the nightclub and she loved it, when we got back to the hostel we stayed at we couldn't fuck in the rooms since people were sleeping so we had to go to the bathrooms. I didn't have a problem with getting hard but I wasn't able to cum. She got really upset about it thinking her appearance was the problem. Looked exactly like the right one but them with DD and a hairy pussy that put me off initially.
Thank God for that since I didn't have a condom at the time.
Elijah Foster
I did date a girl for a long time but she said she was strictly saving for marriage so we never got to it beside the occassional handie.
Jonathan Long
Based.
Charles Bennett
still better than my turbo virgin syndrome i can't date/fuck non virgins cuz my mind can't process the fact that someone has already put a dick where im gonna put mine or kissed the mouth im gonna kiss >legit turbo virgin syndrome
Ethan Perez
pedo
Jaxon Ortiz
Yeah, I remember having ridiculous high standards before actually having sex, I gues for looking at model tier women without actually doing shit.
Benjamin Allen
how am i a pedo fagit
Dylan Watson
I lost my virginity to a 10/10 girl so my standard is still way too high t. No sex for 3 years
Wyatt Mitchell
This
Jaxson Carter
standards generally increase with increased partner count and experience. there are plenty of exceptions though
Colton Cook
do people really see others around them in a sexual way?
Brandon Lewis
You're doing great just don't get cold feet when you find someone that fits the standard and if it doesn't work out don't instantly lower the bar.
t. Same circumstances but 'failed' i.e. married a nice 7/10, but probably could do get a 9/10 on my second run at life
Wyatt Ramirez
oh boi. sex is just putting a penis into a vagina. no magic involved. it's not like you have to marry a girl you've fucked or something. these days have gone.
this is the sole reason human race still exists
Blake Miller
Lol what a fucking loser
When i was virgin my standards were much lower though
Matthew Morales
Similar but when a girl shows interest in me I get suspicious about her motives and instantly feel like she must be crazy or retarded or just uglier than I thought initially. How could a normal girl see a fucking loser like me as even remotely suitable for any kind of romantic activity? I also interpret everything as a sign that she is losing interest or fucking a dozen other guys and just stringing me along.
So I drag my feet and do nothing. Got as far as having a moderately attractive girl in my bed at night watching movies in college, but I couldn't figure out how to initiate some sort of sexual contact. She didn't seem to give any positive or negative feedback to anything I was doing so I got bored and eventually told her to leave. She had been very explicitly showing interest before that too.
>Of course I told all my friends I lost it on prom night
We know, virgin boy. Non-virgin can smell it from a distance. Just get drunk, go to a gypsy prostitute for 5 euro to get it over it and then try with real women. You are far too old to go raw on real women at this point, you need practice.
Alexander Harris
When I was virgin my standard was basically anything with a pulse and a pussy. What bullshit.
