Of all her underlings she asks me for "favors" (orders) the most. Even a fellow underling admitted I'm the go to guy (no benefits to it). Out of all her underlings I'm the most reliable, hard working, and fastest to getting to management ordered tasks.
1. When my manager knew I was overloaded but asked me if I can help do her work since she'll be gone until next week. Is she freaking serious!?
2. When she said she was afraid of asking a coworker for a favor since she already asked and owed her one. I called her out on it as I had done 70+ favors for her at that point, she apparently doesn't count me. Expects me to act like we're best friends and gets upset when I'm short and business talk only with her.
3. She was talking and handling paperwork with a girl underling. After she finishes, my manager turns and asks me to help her (manager) carry the heavy boxes. Why not ask the fat underling who she was just talking to especially since it is her WORK (plus the fatty has bigger biceps then me)!?
Of all the places I've worked I'm strongly considering not giving a 2 weeks notice at all. What advice does biz have for me?
I constantly tell my roastie higher ups that I’m busy and can’t be bothered.
Michael Miller
She thinks you're a beta limpwrist. Theres really no undoing it now, you stand up for yourself and suddenly you're an asshole. You fucked up
Gavin Price
sounds like it's just power moves dude. especially if it's in front of another roastie. my roastie manager is nice desu.
Owen Barnes
Unironic bush master the place. They’ll know exactly what up when u show up in full black, trench, bandolier shit looking in their eyes when they first see you will be worth having to an hero. Go for it user I got your back.
Logan Walker
You're a fag who works harder than everyone else for literally no reason, they know that you'll agree to anything they ask you to do without putting up a fight so naturally they come to you since it's the easiest option.
Basically you've proven that you'll get the job done no questions asked and in a timely fashion, which means you're now doing all the bitchwork they want done as fast as possible with no questions asked (Everything)
Christopher Bailey
this you can only change jobs op.
Lucas Green
Unlikely I'll be a hard worker at next job.
Funny thing is I'm sarcastic at work and told my roastie manager I only have a week left as I turned in my 2 weeks notice a week prior to HR. The look on her face haha. She knows that if I leave she will lose out on a hardworker. She said my joke wasn't funny. If I left her workload would be like when she was a stressed and anxious mess. She however is still a low self esteem roastie who acts more brave around me.
Adam Jackson
Read this: ribbonfarm.com/2009/10/07/the-gervais-principle-or-the-office-according-to-the-office/ You're 'clueless'. You got a raw deal but work hard. Best workers are never promoted because they're indispensable where they are. There are two roads: 1. join the 'losers' - which means you realize you have raw deal and apply the minimum effort possible to keep a job 2. join 'sociopaths' which means being slightly underperforming, showing initiative and looking to exploit the 'clueless' and competing with other 'sociopaths'. I don't know your situation, but it could be something like having a good idea to make your workplace more efficient. Polish that idea and prepare a pitch, then go straight to a boss two-three levels up with this. Absolutely don't tell your immediate boss as they're going to take all credit, or turn you down and start being afraid for her job. At worst you're going to get rebuffed. I have no idea if looking for promotions in your job is worth it.
Mason Flores
the only answer is to put on a chastity belt and give her the key and refer to her as mistress
sorry to break it to you dude but you are her propery now :/
William Richardson
I've said no before but she says I still have to even when I say I'm busy or doing something urgent.
Also I called her out on calling me nice for doing her favors. Told her whats the point of saying no since she'll demand I do it anyways.
A superior that me and her report to, favors me. The one before her also favored me but retired. She's claimed at least one of the current one's ideas and gave it to me as an order even though this superior told me like a few days or week before. A new person will soon be our superior who both of us know. This person clearly favors me, should be easy to take advantage. As my current one I used and got a better seating arrangement that my manager was upset in doing.
Lucas Watson
Do you even want to shoot all these faggots? What’s wrong with you OP have you any balls? I would have literally fisted that bitches throat to death.
Christian Ortiz
so ask for more money and leave if you don't get it
Brody Wright
stop masturbating you fucking faggot
Lincoln Gray
Any other advice?
Noah Sullivan
Tell them shorting literally is the new paradigm now. I’m going to spread this on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube everything everywhere. Everywhere and everyone, Short short short short short short!!!!! Short to -$0 !!! Until not even 1 penny is left and then the BTC ceo will owe me money :) Did you not hear that everyone is shorting now? Omg like shorting is brilliant! BTC will ofc go down forever. You didn’t think that it would stop going down did you? Didn’t you hear? $5k by end of minute, $4k by end of hour, $1k end of day, and triple digits back to sub $100 end of week!! Shorting is the best way to success!! I’m writing a book on shorting. Shorters, bears and bitmex foreverrrrrr and everrrrre!!!
>I'm the go to guy (no benefits to it). Out of all her underlings I'm the most reliable, hard working, and fastest to getting to management ordered tasks. Yeah you are basically the fireman who's on service 24/7
Jose Johnson
What would you do in such a position?
Look at op's post. She basically wants to be chummy with him but at the same time orders him around. If he even gets distant she gets upset. Sounds really annoying to deal with that roastie.
Oliver Adams
You're basically married user. She thinks u her husband
Jacob Torres
>What advice does biz have for me?
mail her boss ad tell them you are a good employee but just sick of doing her work for her, don't rant on provide specific examples and dates
Cooper Myers
Op here id likely is different now.
Thank you for this, a lot of this makes sense.
I got a good idea from some coworker who seems to want me to succeed, he retires soon (may have even thought of that idea before he told me).
I went to my supervisor about it but she dismissed it. Who knows if she suggested it to her manager. I know shes taken credit from at least one employee before. There was one time where she talked about how she was doing something differently because it would work better and how I should do it like that as well. She didn't realize that approx. a week before that a superior told me that info (this superior prefers me over my supervisor). Yet she acts like it was her own idea. A week later me and her are at this womans desk and she brings up that idea again and my supervisors says "Oh yeah I told user about it" pfft yet she acts like she came up with it prior to this.
Jace Price
If I was married I wouldn't let my wife push me around like this. If I knew my supervisor as a friend outside work and she asked for favors I'd quickly tell her to do it herself and if she continued time after time even after I said no multiple times I'd abandon the friendship.
Matthew Myers
She either sees you as a cuck or likes you.
Jordan Fisher
What!? Explain yourselves. Why do you think op's supervisor likes him?
Cooper Clark
Mmmmm I bet she fingers herself imagining how badly she DOMINATES you in the workforce. >Your so nice user >whats the point of saying no your just going to force me >thats right bitch now eat me out God I'm getting hard just writing this.
Caleb Gray
>working in an office environment >working with women at all >not working in a construction trade environment in remote locations such as oil rigs and get on a few beers after work with the boys.
Ya dun goofed OP
Gabriel Rivera
Look OP you have to understand women, women dont know what the fuck they are doing and all they do is take credit from hard working men like yourself. I know it because i was a hardworker when i left my old job they had to hire 3 people to replace me as i did all the computer shit, management and the physical labour. When you're young and eager people WILL take advantage of you and take your credit, work smart and not hard,
Hunter Ward
Shorting is the only way to make money in Crypto now. Shorting literally is the new paradigm of crypto. I’m spread this on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube everything everywhere. Everywhere and everyone, Short short short short short short!!!!! Short to -$0 !!! Until not even 1 penny is left and then the BTC ceo will owe me money :) Did you not hear that everyone is shorting now? Omg like shorting is brilliant! BTC will ofc go down forever. You didn’t think that it would stop going down did you? Didn’t you hear? $5k by end of minute, $4k by end of hour, $1k end of day, and triple digits back to sub $100 end of week!! Shorting is the best way to success!! I’m writing a book on shorting. Shorters, bears and bitmex foreverrrrrr and everrrrre!!!
Nicholas Wood
Say you'll do her work. Then don't do it.
Jordan Morales
Read the 48 laws of power OP. You're playing the game all wrong.
James Kelly
god damn it OP save up a few K and get the fuck out of there. INvest it into some sort of shit on a stick, it doesnt matter. By used phones or bikes and flip until you make it.
The only point of being a wagecuck is to get the fuck out ASAP
also working in an office-big mistake
also caring about what women think-another mistake
Now your best move is just to stop caring and do whatever she wants you to do. Why are you even talking to her like she;s your friend? Women are not mens friends
ignore THOT
REPEAT
ignore THOT . Be a good boi and do whatever she asks
Ryan Anderson
She literally wants your dick, I promise
Matthew Lopez
My bro you gotta figure some things out first before to get up and go.
It sounds like you are a hard worker and know how to manage your time and be productive, this is an incredible trait that your retarded manager doesn’t comprehend. Is this job worth focusing your efforts on? If not, don’t give a two weeks notice but go in the next day and own your shit. Say no, I’m busy, I can’t carry your shit or whatever she wants from you. She may notice you mean business and change her tune.
Easton Nguyen
Holy fuck you’re a cuck
Tyler Perez
It makes no sense if she would like him she would actually give him less work because "aww he is always doing so much he needs a break"
Colton Robinson
next time she asks you for a favor, tell her you need her to do a favor, too. make up some shit. after that, do the same EVERY TIME she comes asking for favors. also, if she's hot, subtly suggest her to do some "personal" favors for you. the idea is to either annoy her, get her go away or become your bitch.
Ayden Barnes
oh, and btw: read about the pavlov experiments with dogs, then think about it. protip: humans are animals, too.
