Tell me your love story Jow Forums

I've always been a retarded romanticist kid who thought virginity also was required for men. Parents told me to only get a gf after getting a job, autistically obeyed. Met cute girl in 2nd year in uni whom i never dated not even confessed, not even hanged out but she was next to me on the list so she was there for most assignments. She got a boyfriend in 4th year, i was in denial and still obsessed with her. Dysthymia becomes depression, had suicidal thoughts most of the time although i knew the whole affair was stupid. Went to a psych and took antidepressants for a year. Luckily last year was literal enslavement so i didn't have any time to think about her, despite all of this her life didn't change and still is happy with said boyfriend whom she'll probably marry.

And i'm still here. Still a kissless virgin, posting in this board, with a bleak outlook on the future, about to graduate, no lectures this year either, pretty much no reason to stay close to a female in a familiar environment. Don't drink, never partied, so i don't even have friends who can introduce me to others. This shithole is underdeveloped as fuck, so there's nowhere to go for fun either.

Some people are just not meant to be in relationships.

I make passionate love to mothers of young adult men who browse a certain subforum for the discussion of international culture

she got tired of me

>and I beat her
Pierre what the fuck

I assume you mean like gf/wife love story?
>be me
>high school
>sportsdude but I also do nerd shit so Idk what to call myself
>sophomore year
>in math
>girl to my right is doodling little designs in her notebook
>blonde hair, taller
>she seems cute
>its obvious shes not paying attention
>keep this information in the back of my mind
>Friday rolls around, test time
>its obvious shes having issues with the test
>planned for this, wrote a little cheat sheet on a piece of paper
>pass it to her
>class ends
>she thanks me
>talk with her a bit while walking to next period
>we become friends, talk with eachother often in class
>we're both Catholics
>realize I like, like her
>decide fuck it only one shot at life
>text her asking if she wanted to go watch our football team play (it was homecoming)
>she said yes
>cue lots of dating, ups and downs and whatnot
>highschool ends
>~8 months of being away from eachother because we live fairly far apart and meeting up was rare
>she wants to take a break
>devastates me
>spend ~2 months "on break"
>neither of us date other people tho
>mother is driving us home from shopping
>car accident
>my mother's fault because she was on her phone
>get out
>recognize the car
>its girlfriend's mom's SUV

Cont.

My first thought the first time I saw her was she was gonna be my GF

Instead I was her roommate for 3 years in uni and we had our own bf/gfs but there was always interest.

She wanted me once but I was dating some big fat chick and I just couldn't cheat on her. Looking back I wish I did.

At that she started bringing home guys more often. I only knew because she would blare house music.

Haven't seen her in 5 years and I still think of her everyday.

All I can say is follow your heart lads. Listen to your gut when it comes to love. If you don't you will regret it forever.

*mo3amed

>panic, run over to the car and pull out girlfriend
>she's out, broken arm and a bunch of cuts
>gf's mom is fine
>don't touch gf because I remembered you weren't supposed to move car accident victims
>ambulance people won't let me in the meat wagon with her
>as soon as we get home my dad takes me to hospital so I can be with her
>wait at least 12 hours in the hospital before someone tells me what to do
>visit her
>it was just a concussion and a fractured arm
>tell her with tears in my eyes that I'll never leave her side again
>shes out in no time
>rent an apartment and we move in together
>never "officially" say we're back together but it's super obvious
>proposed to her at the top of the Ferris wheel at Disneyland march 2018
>she said yes

We've been married for a while now and we're thinking about having a kid

I raise my future wife since she was little
6 years more and we can get married If she does not have a change of heart

She cucked me so much she actually felt sorry for me and ended the relationship for herself

based can sexpats get this

>a roastie

met gf at work while she was dating someone. knew we extremely similar interests/personalities so when he dumped her, i said we should date and she agreed.

>be in relationship with girl (she thinks we're only friends though)
>never make a move because i'm afraid of rejection
>relationship over
and repeat

Shit is not JUST a fucking CONCUSION m8.

What?

welp,
started dating in high school, then break up, then get back together again
lost v-card to each other, started living together, having debts together...

now i'm hiding from creditors

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Mine isn't a happy one.

[1/2]
I fell in love in highschool. Butterflies and all that. Went absolutely crazy on her.
Confessed a year later, we were chatting for some time then. Just came up to her in the hall, and said "I think I'm in love with you". Kind of threw her off the rails.
We got together, I've lost my virginity with her shortly after. Embarassing excitement, just remembering how I acted makes me cringe.
Besides having crazy animal sex we would act like a perfect couple. Would tell each other everything, I sometimes stormed to her apartment at 2-3 am when she texted sad stuff, just to cheer her up. Would read made up fairytails to her on the phone. She also did everything to comfort me and be happy together. Love was mutual, so was support and care. Six years passed.

[2/2]
I dunno what was wrong exactly, but we eventually drifted apart. We always had these weird situations where I touched the wrong strings and she would close herself off from communications and cry, and I just didn't know what to do. I've been going through some tough shit at the time, dropped the uni, worked shitty jobs, her life wasn't much better either, with progressing genetic disease and piling up studies. Two years ago I was reqruited in the army. She only came once, to tell me she will wait for my return, but not as a girlfriend, only as a friend.
I still can't recover. Perfectly fine life otherwise, but every now and then brain just decides to throw me into this pit of good memories that don't comfort, only enforce the feeling of guilt and regret. Tried pills, dropped them. Tried coming together with a couple of girls, brain just kept repeating "this isn't her", so that didn't work either. The only thing that actually helps is getting drunk and going into fights over some stupid argument. Usually I lose, and get my shit handed to me, because I'm a skinny dude, but the sheer adrenaline of fighting someone and landing a punch flushes all thoughts away, and it helps somewhat.
I think I wasted my only shot at true love, and theres no bringing it back.

It's a shit story, probably a typical one, but I don't have any others to tell you. So it goes.

I met her in a psych ward when I was 15. I lost my virginity to her half a year later while watching Frozen

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Never underestimate concussions. You're lucky if she's hasn't had any seizures until now, but someday she may have.

Started to talk to a girl I really liked. We didn't talk a lot but my she was very friendly so I thought we are friends. One day she started to ignore me and I stopped texting her. It happened a half a year ago and I saw her recently and brought it happened. She just said she never did it.
I am happy it happened because at least I know that she didn't care about me from the start and don't have to waste my time on her anymore

>dated a girl for 3 months
>she dumped me because "it didn't feel the same anymore as in the beginning
>kept talking to her on a daily basis for 2 months
>one night tell her I met another girl, that I've been on a few dates with her and that she's really nice
>she tells me she's happy for me
>she stops talking to me
>after 2 weeks I ask her what's wrong and why I'm not hearing anything from her anymore
>she tells me to leave her alone
>4 months go by
>never heard from her yet she checked 57 of the 75 instagram stories I posted during those 4 months despite the fact that she doesn't follow me on instagram (aka she had to search for and go to my profile in order to see them)
>she started dating a guy for 2 month during those 4 months but it didn't work out
>dude is somehow mad at me and wants to fight me because apparantly she talked a lot about
>texted her 2 weeks ago
>now I've been hearing her on a daily basis again
girls are weird
she didn't want me, then somehow is upset with me when I date someone else, then stalks my instagram and now talks to me on a daily basis again like everything is normal

I flirt with most women I know. I pretend they're into me but I'll never actually ask one out because I know they're just being playful and doing it plataonically.

I don't understand bro. Was she just not willing to wait for you to come back from military?

I've never been in a relationship so I've only got this
>meet some slut at a house party
>she grabs my hand and takes me to the bedroom
>make out
>tells me to stop teasing her and to put it in
>no condom
>tells me to put it in anyways
>tell her i'm not gonna but that i would eat her out instead if she wants me to
>disappointed but says ok
>put two fingers inside straight away
>screams, pushes me away and tells me to get out
I still think about her sometimes

you're doing it right
the less you want something the more likely it'll happen and viceversa

No, more like she used an opportunity to break the bond. Just as I was attached to her, she was attached to me.
It was like an addiction. I remember her specifically saying "I can't even be angry at you in person, how are you doing this?"

Fuck, my heart still stops if I see a girl that's dressed similarly to how she used to dress, even though she now lives in another city and barely visits mine.

holy shit can people really see that you watched their instagram stories?

Ah, I understand now. I know how you feel. When I see girls that remind me of 'her', which doesn't happen often, I feel like I got stabbed in the chest. You think you have a chance with her again in future?

Would gladly share one of my fails at love, but the system keeps cataloging my post as spam, dunno why

Is she still single?
Go to her apartment or home or whatever one night and ask to come in and just confess your feelings with her, say you know things have gotten distant between you two but you still love her
If she feels the same she'll let you know, if not, take it as a sign to move on

try changing one problematic word (or don't type dot com addresses)

Alright, i think i got it.

Years ago, i almost made it out with a girl (around 2014, same age, 165cm qt3.14, blonde, blue eyes, slim, 50% outgoing personality 50% emo; back in those times, it was a perfect match for me)

>be me
>spending my summer holidays on the village my father used to live on
(he moved to the Canary Islands, he's alive)
>met this girl around a month ago thanks to another friend there
>been talking for a couple weeks, hanging out... we have many hobbies in common
>as always, many of the teenagers in the village hang out in the park
>2am, the girl, her friend and i decide to split from the group and i escort them back to their house
>talking and shit, quite the enjoyable time
>phone dies, since they have no charger, she offers me her mobile to call my home, stating that im gonna stay a bit longer, decline
>4am, the friend is sleepy and begins to close her eyes
>she begins giving me a back massage, it all begins to heat up
and just when i think that it might just happen...

>*heavy banging at the door*
>i open the door
>its my father, 5am in the morning, he's been looking for me, preocupied, since i gave no life signals
>tells me to bid them farewell and get pulled by the arm and into the car

No further oportunities came later. As far as im concerned, that girl later began "hanging up" with older men (20 somethings and even 30s).

I feel both ashamed that i did not made out with her, and at the same time that i dodged a bullet there.

Nowadays, im near 20, have never kissed anyone nor done anything sexual. Quite sociable but not very engaging, zero communication skills (can amass knowledge, but cannot transmit it to someone else), zero future expentancies in that regard.

I fucked her, fell in love, then we've never seen each other for ever.

very slavic

you russians are way too emotional
every time I read a russian novels I get taken aback by some of the shit the characters constantly obsess about

Yea
Have you never posted a story before?
curious how he kept track of specifically 57 of them though

t. NPC

I am Cuman

Not really love, but there's this girl who I don't know if she's interested in me or not. I'm retarded when it comes to these type of things. whenever I talk to her she seems happy and actually wants to talk to me, but she never initiates the conversation and I'm the one who always has to start things. she doesn't even try even when I'm by myself, so why should I be the one trying, right?

같은 시간에 (Just for a minute)
같은 공간에 (Stay for a minute)
그 짧았던 순간 모든 게
너와 날 위해 멈춰있던 그 순간
왜 그게 기적인 걸 몰랐을까
오래된 story와 그 날에 멈춘 나
사랑한 시간보다 더
오래 이별하는 중인걸
은하수 너머에 아득히 먼 곳에
하얀 우리의 기억을 건너는 나
꿈속이라도 괜찮으니까
우리 다시 만나 (One of these nights)
우리 다시 만나 (One of these nights)

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No, I only made a fake account once to see what it's about, used it for a while to spy on people with public profiles that I know and that's it

>not beating womemes
Bruce, pls.

No. Last time we talked, I specifically asked if she wants me to go fuck myself(close enough translation). She said yes, and pointed out she only one good memory from the entirety of our relationship. Hit me hard wuth that one, considering all the vivid memories. Holding hands, reading novels on her bed when she got sick, all this cute stuff.
I sort of went psychotic afterwards, not in front of her, obviously, but a close friend of mine acted as my caretaker for a week, making sure I don't jump in front of cars or burn my hand again. Sad times.
She is in some kind of relationship in another city, probably quite happily so. Why would I bring my mental ass to her? She spicifically said there are no chances.
There is no moving on either, my brain apparently wants me to go commit die or smth, because the images never stop. I might go a week without them, then boom, five minutes of freethinking bring all the shit back.
I'm kind of getting used to this state of constant turmoil, even managed to get a girlfriend lately. Don't love her, don't even like her that much, but it's better than having an empty place next to you at night.
I am emotional in general. It's not a national trait, however.

You must be pretty ugly to devote yourself to one woman then have even that fall through.

You need to heal yourelf if you want more action. Men are supposed to like multiple women at once. Not whore themselves out to one woman. Get a grip of yourself, make yourself healthier, and then go make a fake tinder profile and practice talking to girls.

Take what you learn into the real world and make yourself happy.

Concept doesn't apply.

aah my bad
you from Szeged?

Budapest, but my father's from the Great Plains

This
Idolizing women is a big mistake
I always tell girls that I am an alpha male, I make them admit that they are attracted to my pheromones and that if we were to marry and have kids, they would have to do all the cooking and cleaning and that I would get to name all the boys

>I specifically asked if she wants me to go fuck myself(close enough translation). She said yes, and pointed out she only one good memory from the entirety of our relationship.
That is cruel. She sounds cold from what you've posted, but you can't help who you fall in love with. As corny as it may sound, you think you can love again? I'm in a similar situation and I just feel nothing for other girls.

i see i see
everyday something new to learn

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ofc you can see who watched your stories

I have a special app that tracks how often people that don't follow me watch my instagram

The only semi serious relationship I ever had was in highschool so I can't say that I've ever been in love. Maybe one day I will when I get a job, a car and a life. But I've seen friends and family love and throw their lives for the people they love, sometimes I don't get it but that's just love I suppose. Makes you do stupid things.

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>Studied in an international school.
>Fell in love with a Korean girl. She was called 'Miru Rho'
>Whatsapped dude in my class that I'd fuck her.
>Dude actually pretends to be my friend and is actually a bully. He and other guys take my conversation out of context and say I was obsessed with the girl and that I was taking photos of her and harassing her to the director.
>The girl's dad gets word of this and wants me to get expelled.
>My mom goes to the school and says they're fucking insane and will sue them if they lay a finger on me.
>Girl and her dad leave Brazil to SK anyway.

Good thing nothing happened to me. You Koreans are bat shit crazy.

She is cold. I always loved this about her. Everything, obviously, but this - the most. Reserved, smart, fragile. Also had these gigantic grey/blue eyes, I just couldn't contain myself at her sight. Loved to comfort her and how she would wrap herself around me at night, because I'm always warm.

No, don't think so. It's a one-time thing, the circuits fire and melt into a permanent state. Maybe could get with a woman who resembles her. Definitely could still have sex - tested it, it works. Love again? No.
Could be different for you, can't say for sure. I have a friend with a similar story, he fucks bitches and drinks like he's fucking 17, even though he just turned 25. Still loves his first girl, but she doesn't want him. Man somehow manages to enjoy life nontheless.

Stop being melodramatic and get over it faggot

I've either been rejected or, in one case, ended up in a disastrous sort-of friendship

I'm still KV at 24 and I know I have to keep trying, but I can start to see many good women slip away. They really do get locked down in their early 20s

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Yeah, I have a tendency to this. Sorry. I'll stop posting now.

It was perfect. I worked for a summer in a small fishing village, 115 people total. I met her because my boss' wife asked me to drop off some library books, and that's where she worked. She was 16, I was 19 and about two weeks after we met, I went over to her house. On the wall, amongst the CDs, was Death Grips. I couldn't really help myself, so I pulled it off the shelf and asked her about it. She played coy and then I said, "I really only knew of this CD through um the internet." And there was a short pause. She turned back and asked me "Do you go on Jow Forums?"

Needless to say, if things had worked out I wouldn't be wasting my time typing this up. I got fired and had to go home, and almost immediately I found out my parents were getting divorced. I wasn't thinking straight and dumped her. I was young and good-looking, time to move on. Now, it's 5 years later, I'm bald and more alone than ever, she has a fucking limp-wristed clown for a boyfriend and refuses to speak to me. The lesson I took in all this? Intimacy is the only thing worth living for. Consider how much time you've spent on this website and the microscopic fraction of the population who can relate. Don't squander a diamond in the rough. Anyone who you can relate to like that is worth more than your own life.

Maybe I should ask myself how many things I have in my life that take up as much time and headspace as this website. Not that many. No wonder I can't relate to most people.

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she left me for a nigga with lighter skin

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Why are we still here? Just to shitpost?
Every night, I can see her face, her smile... Even the little wrinkles. You feel it too, don't you?

i feel it sometimes
but feelings are something you can control with either strong will or alcohol
so cheers!

All you niggas need to stop crying about girls you hooked up with during your teens
It would have been a trainwreck at some point anyways because that kind of stuff never works out
Be happy that it ended sooner than it could have

No one here has a healthy social life because we are all terrified of intimacy. I close my eyes, I see her face and I feel your pain. That pain isn't incapacitating, here's what is: the fear of rejection we all carry. If we weren't afraid to find out what people thought of our true selves, we wouldn't be here.

True. I just wish I could talk to her.

wtf i don't remember making this post

>Fell in love with a girl because she liked meme grips and Jow Forums

Ooh nono do whyte peepo really do this?

>just be happy bro dont be sad man everything is in your hand dude bro just chill like get yourself together man dude bro

I met my husband on r9k. Hes tall, handsome, charming, funny and loving. I am not memeing either. I'm literally not. Went to a party last night and he was the sexiest guy there bar none. Feels so so so good. I am queen of the fembots. Nobody can bring me down. Not even you

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH HELP HELP HELP I NEVER HAD A FUCKING GF AND I RUINED EVERY CHANCE I HAD! FUCK AHAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

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Can you tell me something about your great great grandfather?
No, because no one cares
In 300 years no one will know your name
Just shoot for something, even if you don't get a yes who cares

:(

I appeciate you. Levity helps but most people aren't funny. I have this fantasy that AUS and the UK are like endless banter chambers. Most people here aren't content with just doing things for a laugh.

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>I loved a girl
>She didn't love me
the end

>be 14 year old retarded autist
>fall madly in love
>girl initially likes me
>happiest point
>suddenly things at home go to absolute shit
>girl rejects me at this moment
>my psychotic dad kills himself
>girl avoids me
>severe psychological shit ensues
>develop limerence
>unable to like other girls
>major depression
>develop schizoid disorder
>10 years later still in love
She’ll be mine any day now, bros

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GIVE ME REASONS WE SHOULD BE COMPLETE

>This shithole is underdeveloped as fuck, so there's nowhere to go for fun either.
Had you said dangerous it would make more sense but anywhere in El Salvador you can go for fun, to the volcano, to the beach, to the mountain, to the malls as shitty as they are, or even cross the border to go somewhere in Guatemala for a couple days, maybe trip to Leon in Nicaragua.
I feel for you though, but as long as you make yourself somebody who can be desired by women you can find another girl and even one who is like you.

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this one time i dated a girl
and i told her secrets
and then she told everyone my secrets
and i just barely got over it several years later
now i have an impassable barrier and a desire for intimacy that can't ever be fulfilled

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...

such is life... in Russia :(

your posts read like a novel, very beautifully

I will kill her, her husband and their children some day.

classic serbian love story

Based Mat e ja

>fall in love
>maybe get sex or maybe not
>get ghosted or unfriended

guys, i think a girl might like me

I am writing shit novels for a living, so yeah, thanks, I guess

I'm a 27-year-old kissless, hugless, handholdless virgin.

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Dated a girl for half a year, she broke up with me after magically losing all interest in me, gave me the whole spiel about how things just weren't the same anymore. Got depressed and stopped going outside so much, reverted to my old shut-in lifestyle. About a month after the break up, my ex's best friend confesses that she's been in love with me for a long time and was waiting for us to break up so she could have a go with me, but she was also already in a relationship, and basically told me that she's polyamorous and was also in love with another guy. Politely declined her offer and continue to be single and shut-in to this day, although now I don't feel so bad about it.