>Be 25 >Unemployed >Always living at your parents home >I have three jobs oportunities, one of them in my city and the others in another city not too far (less than 100km, three hours by bus). These three jobs offer the same salary so money isnt the point >Don't know if I should accept one of those jobs in another city, move from my parents house and start a new life alone. I believe that it will be hard but an important experience for my personal development but I'm very affraid. >My parents want me still living with them. The good thing is I can save a good amount of money every month
What would you do? What are the benefits of living alone far from your family, friends and everyone you know?
Work wherever is closest as they all pay about the same Only spend money on bills, rent or utilities Bank the rest In a year you'll easily have a nice car and be set up comfortably to move wherever you want with as little financial hiccups as possible
If it doesnt work out, move back into home, or move back close to home. You'll have the freedom once you're set up.
Robert Walker
I already have a car and some amount of money. The problem is I fear I will become some kind of retarded that can't live without the parents. Ok, I still can live alone in the same city but the city where I live is pretty shitty, that others cities are pretty good places to live.
Jordan Cook
Get the closest one, help your parents with some money and save up everything you can.
Luke Miller
>The problem is I fear I will become some kind of retarded that can't live without the parents.
Dont even worry about that dude. All the boomers here tell everyone that they moved out when they were 17 and that it was worse thing they ever did. Now the parents are convincing kids to stay at home longer just so they can save more and because living expenses are rising.
Worry about moving out fully when you're loaded.
Kevin Gray
Stay at home and save up. Leaving home before marriage is a kike trick
Cameron Roberts
If you can get laid while staying home, stay home and save to buy a house. If not, move away for sex
Wyatt Davis
>If not, move away for sex This man is kike who's attempting to manipulate you with dirty shit
Julian Hughes
I just moved out alone 2 weeks ago and you learn so everything you need alone. Just remember that when you're living alone if you don't like something, you can change it! Also ama about recently moving alone ;;;
Evan Gonzalez
Are you enjoying to live alone?
Kevin Green
It get better the longer I stay out. Having your rules and getting all this responsibility was hard at first but ultimately I feel like it turns you from a boy to a man. Yes, I enjoy it. The financial part is hard because I can't manage to save much but the freedom you get really makes you grow as a person.
Aaron White
Good. I bet there are a lot of good points on living alone. My problem now is more emotional dependency than material issues.
Oliver Diaz
What would you happen if you moved alone?
Zachary Mitchell
>My parents want me still living with them. If that's the case you should probably stay
James Allen
My parents are old (they almost 65) with some health issues. I know I will feel guilty if some of them passes away and I'm not around to help.
Jose Evans
How big is your parents house? Like if they have a huge mansion and you've got a lot of privacy it's one thing. If the 3 of you are sharing a 2 bedroom apartment with a common wall it's another.
Do you have enough space there to have a girl over, for example? To experiment with drugs?
Juan Rivera
Do you feel like you should stop your personal growth in favor of your parents? You are not that young in the end. Do you feel like you have to put everyone under your responsibility?
Jack Evans
I have my own bedroom and that's enough to jerk off.
Josiah Edwards
That's the point. I feel I should take some responsibility for them because everything I'm is because of their support. I don't want to be unthankful.
Aaron Hill
I think if you like your family and are happy living with them, there isnt actually any reason to move! You arent just using them, they want you to stay because they love you. (awww) And its true that as they get older you can help them with household things instead of them struggling with the physical parts. But definitely having a job & contributing financially is one part of shifting to a more even adult role in the house, instead of them seeing you as a child. Good luck with being hired!!
user I am proud of you for making the jump!! Moving out is 100% trading comfort for freedom, & im glad that its proving wonderful for you right now.
Christopher Brooks
What made you bite the bullet? What did you take with you? Living in car?
Joshua Rodriguez
Get the job closest, this is a no brainer
Leo Thomas
getting a job that doesn't require me to interract with people and allows me to live alone without parents and relatives or friends also if you're a grown up "family" now refer to your future wife and children, not you parents, you fucking manchild GROW THE FUCK UP R O W
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Owen Turner
Moving out doesn't make you ungrateful. One of the things that parents want to see is their kids growing up. It's heartwarming. uwu I rented a room and I live there. I took my PC and I don't really need anything else there. Kitchenware and everything else I just buy when I need it.
Hunter Johnson
"Families" can and do sometimes consist of three to four generations of a lineage living together in one home but you kike-minded globalist insects never have or will remember that, will you?
Andrew Lopez
Depends what future are you thinking. Are you planning to go to school of how long do you plan to live by yourself?
Matthew Morales
>be 30 >parents bitch about me not working >work two jobs 80 hour a week taking home 4k a month after taxes >parents bitch at me for working too hard and want me quit my job and stay home