I have a huge dilemma Jow Forums, help me solve it

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And do you think that in a transactional male-female relationship, the male is obliged to fulfill his part? Meaning to sacrifice his freedom, take social responsibility and give commitment in return for sex and affection?

You are just unconsciously being driven by your primal fears and desires. Why is it important that she is a virgin? Because the fantasy of purity I suppose. Do you realize that it is just an old evolutional program guaranteeing that the child you are raising would be yours? Do you realize that with the advancement of technology (birth pill and DNA test), this part of you became completely obsolete, yet it is still running you and driving your actions?

if you desire the kids and the stake in society, yes.

>I am at the level where if I approach a woman on the street, I have about a 30% chance of getting her out on a date and then having sex with her if I put in the required effort.
I've read a couple of PUA books in the past but wasn't very convinced by any of them, and also a bunch of their content was conflicting to each other. Which specific material would you recommend to someone wanting to learn these skills?

> because humans aren't robots and her having fucked around will influence both of you psychologically
> because telegony could very well be a real thing
> because starting a family makes you desire a sensation of familarity and bonding (which isn't the case if she fucks or has fucked around)
> because you are using technology as an excuse to pursue and nurture vices (weaknesses) instead of virtues (strengths)
> because wanting to have sex is itself based on primal and fears and desires

yes, there is a fuckton of misinformation out there thats for sure. what is even worse that these misinformation can fuck you up for years if you are not careful and start applying the wrong information.

you do not need much material to get to a level where you can generate abundance whenever you want.

try to get an invite on theplace.bz, and get these:
60 years of challenge - escalation is attractive
Rob Judge/Zack Bauer- The Four Elements of Game
rsd todd is also legit, but i would recommend staying away from other rsd guys
and also the sedona method is great for overcoming social anxiety/inner blocks. you can find it on tpb proxies if you type "hale dwoskin"

> because humans aren't robots and her having fucked around will influence both of you psychologically

I think a women who is a virgin at 30 years old, is much scarier psychologically than a women who has fucked around moderately

> because starting a family makes you desire a sensation of familarity and bonding (which isn't the case if she fucks or has fucked around)

Maybe for you it isnt the case, but for an emotionally healthy male this is a non-issue. Unless your gf had sex with 50+ men, which suggests psychological problems on her part and is a redflag

> because you are using technology as an excuse to pursue and nurture vices (weaknesses) instead of virtues (strengths)

You might be right on this one.

> because wanting to have sex is itself based on primal and fears and desires

I do not agree that the basic need for sex (and food and sleep) is on the same level in any way as your quite extreme need for purity, so this comparison does not make much sense

Interesting thread thanks OP.
I’m only 22 and have started taking phenibut and been approaching throughout the day at my uni. It’s definitely a valuable skill to have. I’m aiming to marry at 28-32 to a non-degenerate female I share the same interests with - it’s just so disheartening seeing the female mind these days. I get much more stimulation for the most part from my true bros.

I can't even begin to imagine being the kind of omega level social reject who needs to read guides on getting laid. Unless you are an acid burn victim, literally all you have to do is lift, not dress like an autist, and pay attention to your personal hygiene. So basically - act like an adult male and not a fat incel manchild and women will make up their own reasons to sleep with you.
Jesus christ this site makes me cringe sometimes.

I just realized that I am quite undecided about how I want my future to look like regarding this. I do not know whether I want kids and a family or just live the playboy life. I most definitely should contemplate on this and choose one, and then this dilemma should resolve itself.

Cheers. There are indeed many basic bitches out there, but also many great ones. I think it's definitely possible to find a woman to marry who you can have a great life together with (even tho divorce rates are in the 60%s, that means 40% of them succeed), just do not let love and infatuation blind you to redflags when you think you found a special one, because that is one road to disaster.