I hated studying more than anything, and because I don't socialize/party/participate, my college years weren't anything remarkable. If anything, it was just torture because of the endless studying. I just want to tell you OP that it's definitely worth it. Your options will be severely limited if you quit and drop out now, so just hang in there and endure, knowing that you still have the rest of your life ahead of you to benefit from the torture that you're willing to put yourself through today. Everyone's results will differ, but my work life is waaay easier than my college life now that the nonstop studying is over.
Whats point in going on
Parker Cox
Michael Foster
Sorry when I wrote available I meant to type approachable. Even if you don't like the people around you stop making it about them. It's about you making yourself likeable to them. Even if you don't relate to them find a way to make yourself relatable to them. It doesn't matter if you don't enjoy spending time with people, find a way to change your perspective of it and view it as constructive.
Stop seeing things in absolutes. Saying you will always be alone is obviously lying to yourself if you know for example that it takes two years to get a good body from exercising regularly. Even if that's too long use the fact that women aren't as visual as men to motivate you. I've known a lot of ugly fucks with outstanding women because they know how to make themselves attractive by their demeanor, behavior, status, etc. If you work on those things you will likely get a girlfriend before going to the gym truly pays off, though going to the gym will always help you as well.
Anyway sorry my response is less and less structured, kind of tired rn.
Aaron White
i dont want to fucking settle. And btw, ive asked out 8 asian girls because i had yellow fever at one point in my life and was rejected and ghosted by each and every one of them. I didnt do it to fucking settle, i genuinely found asian girls attractive. but now, i dont have yelow fever so much because i think white girls are cute too. This whole asian girls are easy is some fucking taunting by the chads.
And im fucking 20. Im more than confident when i say i want to see the world burn. not that im some autist who do a shooting. just, fuck the world. I began to see why scammers and robbers exist. i feel no compassion for anyone.
thanks for the words.
do you know what specifically i have looking forward to once i get out of college? i need specifics, because im so fried..
Nathan Ortiz
i see. i get what youre saying by being more approachable. but i hate being submissive. Everytime i open up to people, i feel like im begging for them to hang out with me.
And i dont know how to look approachable without looking like a total fucking loser
i see guys who are alone. they just stand around staring at people; not even looking at their phones. and they look like the biggest freaks ever. i dont want to look like that, i want to look like im always active.
Levi Williams
20 is still too young. Give it until 25 at least.
Ian Fisher
Nice FUD
Jonathan Bell
Disgusting face
Aiden Myers
You're clearly severely depressed and suffering from social anxiety and depression relating to your appearance, which is impeding your enjoyment while socializing.
Talk to your parents about it, then talk to a therapist about it, you need help user, nothing will make this feel better except therapy, it's a chemical imbalance in your brain that makes you unhappy and irritable constantly while isolating you from everyone else.
Luis Phillips
You don't have to open up to people, just try to be pleasant and make them like you. Not because you need validation but because being admired, liked, or appreciated are all advantages to you, especially when it comes to attracting women. Women are highly concerned with how good you are at dealing with people, and if they see you as having some status, even if it's only noticing you receiving respect from other me, theyll be more attracted to you
Dylan Morales
you don't have to smile at something, smiling is more like an attitude. i smile all the time cause life is meaningless and i dont give a fuck kind of thing.
dont take shit too seriously bruvs, most idiots can get gf s just because they arent in their head as much as you are. its funny but its true,
nobody asks people out anymore, u just hangout and if u like hanging out together u just hang out more until one day shit gets intimate.
be compassionate about shit you like, you dont have to be compassionate about anything else. infact girls dig that u got a mind of ur own
like i said, dont take urself too srsly. dont be worried about how u look or how u seem. that shits beta mentality. just chill and enjoy the moment, do shit that u enjoy etc. really simple when u think about it