Trezor or Ledger

I don't know why it sounds so ridicolous to you. Many exchanges already exit scammed, who's to say hardware wallet manifacturers can't pull something like that.

Coldcard

i think hw are mostly retarded but trezor seems better overall ledger is more gimmicky its security model is not as solid on the other hand its side chanel hardened

Checked.
I'm not saying they can't but it seems unlikely to me. and if those companies did pull something like that I can't see how crypto would ever have a chance of being trusted by enough people for it to grow into what it truly should be.

You think software wallets are fine?

Th cost of black dick,

What a garbage run-on sentence.