Nursing Homes

Why do so many white people have such terrible family relations that they send their parents to nursing homes?

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unironically jews

So you or your wife will stay with a bed ridden family member who will have to be manually lifted to get dressed or go to the bathroom?

boomers

Yeah, you are supposed to take care of your family. Why do you think otherwise?

My mother is in a nursing home.

I left my family to take care of her for 4 years when she was diagnosed with alzheimers, working like a dog, traveling back and forth Hired a nurse to stay with her when I was not there.

It got so bad that she would refuse to shower for months, smoke in bed and almost start a fire every other day and kept rotting milk in her room that she would consume if left to her own devices.

Fucking sucks, but she is in a home now

Yet look at Asians..

they're going out on fishing boats and climbing tree's to get fruit even when they're 80.. why is this?

When you're father is like pic related, it makes sense. Boomers have poor planning skills. They are in charge because they said so until one day they are old and no one is there for them. Waahhh Boomer tears.

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I took care of my grandfather until he passed a few weeks ago, he was 92 and it was the most difficult and also rewarding thing I’ve done

Paramedic here. go to nursing homes every day. they are all shitholes. However, many of these patients are such invalids and require such extensive care and medicines that no children or their families would be able to take care of them on them if they wanted too.

Keep in mind only 5% of geriatrics are ever institutionalized in this country

America use to be 99% white. So it’s shouldn’t be surprising that homes are 99% white.

Because the ones that cant do that die with hunger.

I disowned my mother,

thats not true.

japs namsayn

White people have this crazy belief that you are responsible for your own life and if you dont want to live in a nursing home you should plan amd save when you can....instead of burdening your children and wasting good years of their life.

My aunty got power of attorney of my grandmother and dumped her in a nursing home when she went deaf. She was fine apart from having to get hearing aids.

While she was in the home she mortgaged 90% of my grandmothers house and spent 18 months buying shit and being a degenerate with her husband.

Wouldn't even buy my grandmother hearing aids. Completely fucked my dads family up and my grandmother wound up dying alone and admitting to everyone "I trusted the wrong child"

I can almost guarantee that there are 1000s of other stories like mine and its all because greedy Gen Xers are trying to steal their elders money before wills are made when they die.

>Taking care of your parents is "wasting the good years of life"
wtf is wrong with you?

When you can't care for yourself, that's nature's way of telling you that it's time to die.

Because everyone have to work to support themselves after boomers destroyed the economy. They have no time to take care of them.

disappear that bitch into the NT and let nature reclaim its mistake. if your story is real, i truly hope she dies a slow painful death with the only singular thought of her disgusting actions.

Because Boomers
They know what they did....

same thing happened with my nanna. it gets to the point where you need to save yourself too as full time care of a sick elderly person will crack any man. i know how you feels fren

I would/will never have my children care for me like a baby. The day i cant take care of myself is the day I die. You lazy fuck.

My parents wanted to send my grandmother to one of these rotten rape camps. I sold the company I'd been building for the better part of a decade, moved almost a thousand miles from my friends, just to live in her mildewy basement and helped keep her in the home she'd occupied for almost 60 years until the day she passed comfortably in her sleep. And I'd do it again without question.

My grandfather is an asshole and he’s 96 and still somehow healthy. It seems like only the good die young.

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>The absolute state of American family values

Its is real. Don't worry she got a fate worse then she imagined when the majority of my fathers side of the family cut her off upon learning the truth.
She got cancer a few years ago and had to have her breasts removed and she always used her looks to get her way.

She wasted nearly 500,000$ in 18 months and had virtually nothing to show for it at the end and even came to my dad for financial help after it all. I haven't seen her since my grandmothers funeral 10 years ago.

Yeah...take care of yourself...terrible fucking idea.

You dumb fucks thimk having no memory and not being able to feed yourself is living. Fuck that!

>Instead of trusting my family, il trust the state and low wage 3rd world "carers"

good luck bud.

I have to send her off it is at the point of it being medical negligence if I dont, she has brain damage and cant feel her abdomen so she cant willfully urinate.

She got hospitalized with renal failure, I was only able to care for her for 2 years and now she is bedfast

I use to work at a nursing home, racially I think they're pretty representative of the population.

Don't go to a nursing home, kill yourself first

Or you can take care of yourself, save, and plan for your elderly years. My god you people are fucking worthless. Bunch of fucking democrats getting everyone else to do your basic shit for you.

My sister in her 40s has parkinsons, can no longer talk or move and we all still look after her at home and have carers come in to help.

Dumping loved ones in a home is inhuman. I wouldn't even do it to a dog let alone a human being.

They do finacial audits every month now

How do you care for yourself when you can barely move? Money will only get you so far.

So we can stay economically productive and pay for you gibs, Tyrone.

Why care for our own sick and elderly when we can pay mr shekelberg to sit them in front of daytime tv and sit in their own shit while the dumb white goyim are out earning tax money.

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Because they're Boomers and they deserve it.

Then I die. Ill take my chances on the other side.

See. Are you very bitter against your parents? Is that why you refuse to care for them.

She needs 24hr care m8, but it helps that family actually work in the local home

I worked as a cook in a nursing home for five years. The kinda shit I saw would be unbelievable from both nurses and CNAs, maintenance, right down to food service.

Dont ever get admitted to a home guys, I'd sooner kill myself.

This was back in NZ and im not sure what you are getting at?

She had power of attorney over my grandmother and could sign documents on her behalf. She went to the bank and asked to mortgage the house on my grandmothers behalf.

It was just a scheme to cut my father out of his half of her house. She basically stole his money.

Nah mate. My dad is adamant that when he cant care for himself any more...pull the plug. I agree...

thank you for the follow-up. sad story. most of you are very young - please plan out your future.

You guys don't have at-home care?

you can't drop that and not give us some stories

based user opting for the smith&wesson retirement plan

So does my sister. Altho we are starting to see that she will eventually need to go into a home because its getting impossible to feed her.

Yeah...i also worked in the kitchen.its not ideal...again I dont see how people call that living

Nursing homes are notorious for shitty conditions, neglected care, and often times, abuse.

They audit all finacial activities every month, you can serve time if caught doing shady shit like that here

We do but she is not eligible, she has no movement in her legs and is very poorly co-coordinated in her arms. Needs full care atm

Hopefully it never comes to that....but shit....

This is why Im working towards buying some land. Gonna build my retirement house and sustainable farm. When I get rough Ill dig my own grave.

Ndis is a mistake why now

hospitals are no different

White "females" belong in the garbage.

What do they do when they turn 81?

>smoking
i would let her die. im not responsible for my parents bad decisions jesus christ

This. There's a whole (((industry))) devoted to keeping people alive unnaturally past their time, while siphoning off everything they own

Wish it was the same in NZ. My sister is in a similar situation now as well over in Aus. Her husband bailed on her when she got Parkinson's and we had to step up to look after her.

Except he knows she has a 6 figure pay out coming from the government and he is now talking to lawyers about how he can get his hands on it.

Im ashamed at how fucked up Westerners have become and its all greed.

+1

All these stories of elderly people needing round the clock care. Christ just kill yourself if you're that much of burden.

Now if its my wife.....I will take care of her forever.

Children too.

Lead by example granpa

I'll start with the CNAs and Nurses first, then I'll move on.

The CNAs in my nursing home were all Cape Verdeans and Portugese to begin with but I dont blame it on a race issue I just think CNAs and Nurses are shitty people in general. There was a massive amount of neglect going on. You'd get people lying on the floor for hours before CNAs would come handle it. They've gotten calls several times about patients sitting a bed of their own feces and urine for the better part of the day. Nobody gives a shit. CNAs would spend all their time talking at the big desk in the middle of their wing. Often times they would call down to the kitchen to call for meals of their own and disguise it as a patient special order. Often times I'd get calls for about 15-20 grilled cheeses a night. There were times I'd send a couple of my co workers up to get trucks (Where the food trays were delivered) and there'd still be trays sitting there not given to the patients.

No one does paper work, a patient may die and thei meal ticket will still be in the systems getting printed for weeks on end cause no one will change it. Food allergies oftentimes dont get updated, the home would come down hard on us for this,

Most degenerate thing i have ever seen is this , worst than lgbt trends , people think it's normal to leave their parents beheind ! In islam if you do this you will go to hell no matter what

Why is it a mistake? She is dying and they are offering to give her money. It should go to her children, not her faggot of a husband who ran the minute things got to hard.

Maintenance was awful cause the janitors were fucked up gulf war veterans and the two actual handymen were this father/son combo that shit it up all day playing golf instead of fixing things. Often times much in the kitchen was in disrepair for months on end. The maintenance guys never got in trouble cause they'd do construction work within the home for free. They set the floor for our dishroom and it was so bad one whole side of the room didnt drain properly.

The worst from them was they were doing electrical work and half assing it in our dementia care wing. This caused a fire and while we were able to safely evacuate everyone. led to closing down that wing entirely. There was never any real work done.

the same thing.

I can still work. I can contribute to society. If I ever become a cripple and can't care for myself I will kill myself asap.

Keep changing your grandmother's diapers and tell yourself it was all worth it.

NDIS, transition from the old disability service has taken a month for us its prolonged the whole process

So really managememt is shit for having all these terrible employees.

She is actualy my mum, and yes it was she is only 48 and still gets to see her granchildren

There's indication to some genetic component to longevity, but it's mostly due to good eating habits.
Which has a genetic component as well, but a lifetime of not knowing the ingredients on the label of a frozen pizza wouldn't do any good to anyone.

Backflips.

Boomers aren’t in retirement homes yet, mostly Greatest/Lost Generation who are usually more wiser and intelligent than boomers.

Food service was exactly as bad as you'd expect. No one wore hair nets/gloves/beard nets. Why should they? Much of the staff was teenagers or fuck up adults. I had a cook who was an ex alcoholic who didnt wear gloves. He'd be prepping food with open sores/cuts on his hands. No one cared, the managers either didnt know what was going or or didnt care.

The only good thing to come from that shit job was the fact that there was so much ignorance ot the issues I started just outright stealing food from the kitchen to bring home. Towards the end of my time there I was doing my grocery shopping cause the cameras didnt work due to maintenance never repairing them. Every day i'd go out to my car with milk crates filled with food and shit and just put it in to take home. nothing ever happened.

You can say that yeah but how many nursing homes do you think has good management? How many places in this day in age has good management?

This nursing home was in a good part of town too. We werent the most highly rated but we were in decent demand. Keep that in mind if you ever think about putting a family memeber under care. It's not worth it

Your sister and anyone like her with incurable diseases and conditions should be rounded up and then be euthanized. They are useless and a drain on society. This is what Hitler would have wanted.

The fact that you are an insufferable, (probably Christcuck), mewling, faggot, and barely a man at all who is driven by emotion like a woman, has no bearing on the truth of my original statement. You need to have your doctor give you testosterone shots.

>whine and bitch about people not doing their job
>start stealing from the place

why don't you pay for in-home nurse you ungrateful faggot.

Yeah we had to get a lawyer to handle my sisters situation.

Kek says the 170kg neckbeard

Theres a massive difference between stealing food and abusing a human being, bro.

>Pay for in-home nurse
You don't even need to do that. Medicare covers in-home care. Social security+ any pension/retirement would cover living expenses. Most white Americans just want nothing to do with their parents desu.

That is one of the dumbest statements I've ever heard. The Greatest Generation ignored HUGE swathes of the population telling them to stay out of WW2, and they didn't listen. Those rural retards ignored all common sense, and destroyed Europe to satiate their bloodlust. And then in the economic boom of post-war America, they reached endless riches that they then used to fuel the massive degeneracy and rise of their Boomer children. You think those fucking hippies were able to sit around all day smoking dope for free? No, their idiot parents funded all of it.

Now the white race is going extinct. So, fuck the Greatest Gen and fuck the vets. I love the abuse videos that keep cropping up online. They deserve every hell they are receiving.

I can tell no one cares for you and you suffer from narcissism.

I want you to remember those words when you die alone.

So you saw what was going on and didn't even care to report it? No, you just exploited the situation.

My grandparents are better off than my parents despite my grandma never working and my grandfather retiring almost a decade ago. I don't know how they do it.

My sister (an NP) cares for my grandma currently. My dad is grandmas ward and he cuts my sis a deal on rent. Grandmas mind went when my uncle died. She still functions but has no short trem memory. Her situation sucks because at first glance she still 100% good. But without care she would be dead in a week. As noble as taking care of an elderly family member is....it sucks. Its a burden.

Nursing homes as they are now are only a development of the last few decades. They're just another example of the way Boomers and their Silent forebears wrecked the world. Take Grandma and stick her in a nursing home where she gets talked down to and mistreated by fat black women until she falls, breaks a hip and dies when that fat black woman doesn't help her.

Who cares? Just get them out of the way so we can continue to live our laiseez faire "do what feels good" lifestyles!

So much this. When I reach that point in life, I’m taking a bus ride out into the middle of a desert and I’m gonna walk off into the distance until my body gives out and I’ll just let the critters have what’s left of me. I will refuse to be a burden on my kids and grandkids when I become an old coot.

There's less food for the residents.

I worked as a CNA at a Nursing home. It was the most depressing job I've had so far.

unironically yes, they did the same for you for years. you should have a stay at home wife as well, she does all the lifting.

Unless science comes through soon...these shells are gonna break on us. When that time comes hopefully we are ready.

These places are so sad.

Also, if you think about it, a lot of these people end up in them because they were so fuckin shitty to their children that no one wanted to take care of them when they got old.

Honestly at that point just kill her. We need to inact the Logan's Run Act and when people get old and start getting to that point off they go. The thought of ending up an Alzheimer's and dementia riddled mess who makes everyone around me miserable and who can barely even dress themselves both scares and disgusts me and when it happens I hope someone has the sense to blow my brains out.

My mom cares for my grandma, my uncle (her brother) Doesn't give a shit about his mom at all, he even wanted to kick grandma out of her home so he could give the house to one of his daughters that live off welfare, he even threatened with taking my mom and my grandma to court over it. If it weren't because my mom/dad and my bro and I are around he would have sent her to a home and forgotten about her ages ago.

you could also feed yourself to a python

Like when I get old treat me like you would someone infected by a zombie bite. Keep an eye on me and when I've started to turn shotgun me in the face. Don't allow me to become a monster.