ITT: Ask The Opposite Gender Anything

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Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like ?
>What do girls/guys think about
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, .

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Chicas,

Out of line to fuck other girls whilst you're dating one you haven't defined your relationship with?

Thats putting it the worst way possible.

would you care if she fucked other guys?

Yes. I‘d feel like he‘s just doing s numbers game and isn‘t actually interested in me as a person. Plus it is disgusting to have casual sex, it would instantly disqualify you as a potential mate, since you have a concept of intimacy and sexuality that doesn‘t match up with mine. And the favt that you‘re so thirsty that you can‘t keep it into your oants for a while till our relationship has progressed to the poont if us sleeping together is alarming to say the least. Huge red flag, would never date and tell all my friends to not go out with again.

Anyone else just fade out when women start talking? Like in all seriousness. We have this group assignment in university, 4 guys, 2 girls, and ever single time they start talking and giving heir views, I really have to make an effort to listen and not pass out. I also have to try and hold my shit when I peak at the other guys because it always look like they want to kill themselves when the chicks open their mouth.

You just have around boring cunts. Some of my friends (guys and girls) are just like that, they open their mouth and put you in instant coma. I'm friends with a guy who can drone on and on about his vidya, hot asian babes he wants to fuck and new shoes he wants to buy. His voice is so monotone and his topics are so flat that whenever he starts one of his diatribes we all pull out our phones and just zone out.

As boring as they are, this is a failing on your part for not directing the conversation where you want it to go. Try it, sometime. When you get good at it, you can always control every conversation you'll ever be in.

Why don't girls want to be loved? I feel like a lot of them think affection means they aren't independent/being patronized/controlled/needy or some shit.

What do girls mean when they say that a piercing/tattoo expresses her personality? Like, what is a labret or septum piercing exactly expressing? I have no problems with piercings, this stuff always made me wonder. Men just admit that they have them because they think it looks cool.

They want to be worshipped by incels and Chad and they worship Chad. Chad doesn't worship anyone, he just fucks your oneitis and gets on with his purpose. She gets frustrated with him for not worshipping her pussy 24/7 so she proceeds to go out and accuse some random incel with social anxiety who barely enjoys himself at the club for rape.

I know this sounds extreme and exaggerated, etc, but it's not that far from the truth 2bh. It's the way of nature, the way of life.

>Constantly rejected by average/under average girls
>Hit it off with attractive ones

The fuck?

Need help:

>girl at work
>always flirty with me
>always finding reasons to call me over to her department
>waves at me when she sees me at night (she works 2nd, I work third)
>has a pet name for me
>always smiles and gets close to me
>will go out of her way to walk in the area when I'm working when she doesn't need to go that way

Doesn't do this with any other employee, older guy I work with points this out to me, caveat is she's married but she has cheated on her husband with another coworker in the past. She's really fucking gorgeous and I'm a fucking autist so how do I pursue this thing so I can get some good pussy because I've had multiple people tell me she wants me and we've always had interesting chemistry and like I said, I am the ONLY one she treats like this.

This dude I'm talking about won't ever let the conversation be redirected, not until he gets to say everything he wants to say. We tried it more than once, he always brushes it off and goes back to his shoes or asians. When we try to change the topic and overtalk him, he gets mad and sits sullen and mute for the rest of the gathering. So we just let him talk and occupy ourselves with other stuff.

Not a girl, but thinking that piercings/tattoos look cool is an expression of personality, and when you choose to get a piercing or a tattoo you are making an aesthetic choice that evokes a literal image of you in other people's minds. How do you interpret that as anything other than an expression of personality? It's like when a crazy girl dies her hair pink and you look at her and instantly surmise that she is fucking nuts.

She keeps making sure our fingers touch when she hands me stuff. I'm pretty sure it's intentional anyway. Ok, once or twice is by accident but every time?

Should I reciprocate? Am I seeing things that don't real?

Why do women care so much about a man's status? Men could not care less about a woman's status.

First of all, money.

Second of all, women are incredibly competitive with each other and many of them want to compete, but not actually achieve anything themselves because fuck that lol I'll get a man to do it for me. So they want a man of higher social standing than their friend's men.

Also money.

I don't have an answer but I have a friend at work like this.

Today she called the office about half an hour after she left "to check if an email sent". She knows full well I'm the one who'd answer the phone. Took her six minutes to leave the office too because she kept """"forgetting"""" things and stopping to talk to me along the way.

Also she's married. Kek.

An aesthetic choice is not a personality. A septum doesn't express anything else than "I like septums" or that she wants to belong to some peet group. That is not what constitutes a personality, me liking the color blue doesn't describe my personality either.

That's a detail I wouldn't even notice, never the less purposely make sure I'm doing. You're reading too much into nothing

I don't. My bfs status has been pretty shitty for a while now. I like him because he's interesting and sweet when it counts. Maybe you should stop making assumptions about all women

Describe his status/life.

What's the best way to contact a girl I vaguely know but who doesn't know me?

She hangs around with a group of friends with some connections to a group of friends I hang around with, but I only ever see her very rarely, and usually in a bar when we're both drunk, and I don't give a good impression while drunk. There's this one guy I know better that she's friendzoned (for the lack of a better word) who I might ask to set us up, but I'm not sure if that's the best way to go around.

No, I'm not the one asking for advice here. I'm not writing a small essay on this shitty phone. I'm here to give you people advice.

Men, what would you think if your date told you she's published erotica on Amazon for money?

I'm thinking of trying my hand at it for a little extra cash, but as you can see, I'm very attentive to the way I'm perceived. It'd be a collection of short stories only, because it's ridiculous to act like people care about plot in such a genre. I'm also, for the record, a virgin.

Kek.
So status does matter a lot.

I'm a guy.

I'd probably encourage her. It's a good little source of income, it's creative, and I'm pretty into porn and erotica myself so I'd probably just intrinsically think it's cool.

I wanted to say that I care, most of all, about man's intelligence. But one's intelligence usually translates into a favourable social/financial status...

I quite honestly don't care much about money, but I would want my bf/spouse to have a job, even if not a lucrative one. I prefer educated guys who know how to behave around people. I don't know what kind of status you have in mind, exactly. I think no girls wants a deadbeat stupid NEET, so if a smart guy with a job, hobbies and socialising skills counts for you as a man of status, I can tell you that girls care about that because it's just more fun to be with someone like that. If a man of status is for you a filthy rich CEO of a recognised company - girls who go after money, fame and spotlight care for guys like this because its in their nature.

>virgin writing erotica
This is the tricky bit. You can't really know how real sex works/feels just from porn, if you try to write it the way it is in porn you'll just end up embarassing yourself.

Could be that you're the only guy that has the balls to approach them so it's a breath of fresh air

You can try to deflect all you want. I'm here giving you guys advice you asked for. I'm content with my bf, you're the one who is having issues to the point of asking for advice on 4 chan. Im not writing an essay on a phone keboard just to appease some stranger who refuses to listen to advice they asked for. This is 100% your loss here.

Feel free to write erotica, but as a virgin you def. won't be able to write something that's good enough to make money off it. I doubt guys would care and even if they did, you don't have to tell them about it.

Yeah, women give a lot of shitty advice.

I wouldn't give dog's arse that you write erotica, but like some anons said, your being a virgin means that your erotic fiction will be on a fanfiction.net level. Maybe try writing books for kids or ^now you have a gf^ scenarios for autistic khvs?

you feel wrong

>Should I reciprocate?
definitely.
and if she lets the thing go further, just proceed until you get a gf.

Well that post was not only off topic, but it was a sad attempt at being derogatory and sexist all wrapped up in one bundle, how sweet of you user. Can you at least try to keep on topic? Maybe actually add something to the convo instead of trying to troll people? Too difficult? Then I'd suggest stfu

Girls:
>sex or reproduction comes up every time we talk
>she goes out of her way to mother me
>shopping and eating together
>sleeping together often
>cuddling and holding hands sometimes
>multiple instances of her kissing me on the cheek or saying "I love you"
>made out a few times , actual penetration/sex a few times
>lets me feel her up or see her naked occasionally
>joked around about having a kid together if we can't find anybody else
>planned vacations together
>phone conversations until 3 in the morning
>gives me gifts and drives me places
>constant sexual tension that we refuse to acknowledge even while we seem to be building it on purpose


>she gets all weird if I bring up sex between us and says not to talk about it
>she's weird about kissing and kicks me out of bed sometimes
>somehow very doubtful that she likes or is attracted to me at all
I'm confused. Part of me thinks I'm retarded not to interpret the above as being attracted to me. Another part thinks I'm reading too much into it and interpreting attraction on her part when it's probably one-sided on my part. And sometimes she seems to be fed up with me altogether. Please interpret for me; I'm literally autistic and lost here.

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She's mad at me and we don't talk anymore. I'm mad too but I hate that we don't talk. It's my fault but I did it for a reason.

Long story short, she insulted me and said something that pissed me off. I stopped talking to her then she got mad and stopped talking to me and the couple of times we did try talking were weird so now we just aren't doing anything but it all seems to come from a place of anger rather than indifference.
Could I possibly reconsile with a girl in this situation or is it over?

does she understand why are you mad?
what is her view of things?

Welp, that was conflicting. Thanks for your views though.

She knew what she was doing, she used to insult me playfully but this time was just over the line. There was nothing you could do with it

I don't know for sure because we aren't communicating. She would make an effort to talk to me when I was initially pissed but now we're just both mad. I know neither of us is going to apologize. As much as I'd like to I know I wasn't in the wrong so it won't help much

So there was this one girl I studied with and hanged out a lot during my Bachelor 3 years ago. It was never romantic from neither side but we got along really well.

She dropped out then and for reasons I failed to keep contact with her. I'm would be interested about contacting her, but I have no social media, just her mail (her old phone number isn't active anymore). Would she think I have romantic intentions? How do I make clear I have none without being a total creep?

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Loool, really triggered this one.

Not if I knew it was just casual sex. My anxiety is losing her as first impressions suggests she's really a special human being.

This is an absolutely diabolical thing to say but there's this girl who really would be the most beautiful girl I'd have ever slept with and it seems like she's really up for letting that happen for some reason.

Of course, there's no reason to believe she'd ever find out if I decided she wouldn't but, like I said, this girl seems super special and I don't want to destroy our relationship before it even starts. Maybe I'll ask her, definitively, if she's even looking for something serious though I sometimes worry some girls will lie when faced with that question in order not to scare a guy off.

I'll definitely think about it.

wrong and right are purely relative.
if you're unable to change your views and are willing to stubbornly defend what is 'right' you are definitely going to lose your significant other. It's your thing to judge whether it's worth it or not.

as you mentioned, she did it playfully.
I understand that it's not the best way of 'playing' with anyone and I agree that she shouldn't be doing that to you, but unless you drew the clear lines beforehand, she might have not realize that there was anything you could consider wrong in her actions.
Myself, I had a gf who did exactly that. Once I explained how much it hurts, she never did it again.

All in all, I consider it damn childish to lose contact with somebody over a little insult. I advise initiating a serious conversation with her and forgetting 'rights' and 'wrongs' of the situation.
unless, of course,you actually don't even like her

>Would she think I have romantic intentions?
why would she?
just write her the true reason why you want to meet her again and that's it

Didn't want to get into much detail because stories don't get replies

She and I went out to run an errand that didn't go well and she belittled me and told me I was "bad luck" among other things. When the problem was solved she told me she would've rather asked someone else for help with the errand. She avoided me for a week after that and I got the idea that she didn't really like me at all so I backed off.

She tries talking to me in the weeks after that but I'm stubborn and she doesn't want to address what happened, she talks like it never happened like we can just pick off from where we were. I can't shake the idea that she doesn't like my company so I let things die and now it's weird. She's very avoidant so now I'm reluctant to try anything
maybe there's no way out of this, it's childish but wow I don't know what to do with someone who won't talk about it

I think this is in part a regional thing. From what I read online, this is fairly common/accepted in the US. It seems to be not nearly as common here in western Europe.

Personally, sex is a very intimate thing to me and I've never been with someone I didn't have real feelings for. If I really liked a man and it came out that in the earliest stages of dating he slept with an ex or whatever because the situation played out like that, I wouldn't instantly write him off, especially if I was also unsure back in that initial phase. But if he had kept fucking as much as he could right up until I told him he couldn't because we were now exclusive... I wouldn't be able to have faith in his fidelity, and even bracketing that I'd find it very hard to believe we're compatible in outlooks on love and sex. I'm not looking to drag someone away from other women like a ball and chain. I want someone who actively wants to be exclusive and doesn't experience that as a huge sacrifice.

People only get angry about things they care about. She cares about you. Use that to your advantage

You can't dictate what conclusions she jumps to, it depends entirely on her own personality. More importantly, it's on her if she thinks you must want to fuck just for reaching out. Just try to be casual, if you are taken mention your relationship when writing a bit about how you're doing, then ask if she feels like catching up sometime.

how long are you together?

I'm sorry user, it sounds like she's attracted to you but doesn't like you enough for a serious relationship. However on top of the sexual benefits she enjoys your companionship, your attention, your tenderness etc so she essentially keeps you around as an almost-boyfriend she has no commitment to. She might do you favors, but that's very different from needing to be there whenever you need her to vs on her own volition. She could be a commitment phobe or straight up manipulative and loving the having her cake and eating it too. That's hard to tell just from this.

What can I do for us to just start talking again, I'd like to address the whole situation but I need to segue into it first

Weren't officially together, we were mostly talking and would spend some time with each other. She was weird sometimes but there were moments that were great

When is it the right time to her you're interested in furthering the relationship? We've been seeing each other for the last couple of months and we've been on about 5 or so dates.

it changes a lot, user. A whole lot.

I'd go to her and be extremely honest. something along the lines of 'I didn't like what you said to me because x, but I like you for y z q. I had to take some time to sort the things out in my head and after that time I realized I don't want to break the contact with you over something so minute. I am sorry for whatever I did to you while being mad at you'
at this point, if she cares about you, she'll likely apologize as well and you can kiss and whatever.

you don't tell her. you just do it. Changing things of this sort via words is really awkward

Several reasons. Status doesn't have to mean that someone's particularly special, but looking at general patterns he's likely to be of above average intelligence, level of skill etc.
Bracketing that, we live in a shallow world where simply being the wife of a [status guy] brings an identity, acknowledgment in the eyes of others.
Thirdly there's practical benefits like money and/or a certain adventurous/glamorous lifestyle being accessible.

Having said that, men in their own way also care about status. How many men don't dream about having a hot girlfriend, not just to love but also to show off and have their friends look at them with new eyes because they could land her? How many men don't care about their girl's colorful past, kid(s) or her pudginess, not (just) because they personally have strong feelings on it but because it makes them a sod in the eyes of other men?

It's true that men don't care about the kind of conventional, career woman or celebrity kind status. But that has upsides and downsides. It's a beautiful thing that men (imo) tend to see the beauty and value in just a sweet, sensible girl next door more than women do the equivalent. (You can attach an evolutionary motive to that if you want.) But there's also another side of the coin. Men also tend to want to be the smart, high earning one themselves, and not have a partner who outshines them in that regard. And from the female side, it can also be sincerely discouraging how relatively little men stress intelligence, ambition etc as things they value or find sexy in women, compared to how erotic women find these qualities in men.

I'm planning on going to grad school not in the city and would think it awkward to invite her out there for some weekends when she's not my girlfriend or anything. I guess it's more of a promise to myself that despite moving, I'm still serious about her.

Several reasons. Status doesn't have to mean that someone's particularly special, but looking at general patterns he's likely to be of above average intelligence, level of skill etc.
Bracketing that, we live in a shallow world where simply being the wife of a [status guy] brings an identity, acknowledgment in the eyes of others.
Thirdly there's practical benefits like money and/or a certain adventurous/glamorous lifestyle being accessible.

Having said that, men in their own way also care about status. Many men dream of having a hot girlfriend, not just to love but also to show off and have their friends look at them with new eyes because they could land her. Many men are self-conscious about their girl's colorful past, kid(s) or her pudginess, not (just) because they personally have strong feelings on it but because it makes them a sod in the eyes of other men?

It's true that men don't care about the kind of conventional, career woman or celebrity kind status. But that has upsides and downsides. It's a beautiful thing that men (imo) tend to see the beauty and value in just a sweet, sensible girl next door more than women do the equivalent. (You can attach an evolutionary motive to that if you want.) But there's also another side of the coin. Men also tend to want to be the smart, high earning one themselves, and not have a partner who outshines them in that regard. In that case it's less not caring about her lack of status, as much as actively not wanting her to have it because it makes them look better in comparison. And from the female side, it can also be sincerely discouraging how relatively little men stress intelligence, ambition etc as things they value or find sexy in women, compared to how erotic women find these qualities in men.

How do I get a gf who's crafty like ice is cold, but won't steal everything I own when I wake up late in the afternoon?

if you wont fuck her prior to that she won't be yours anyway.
even if you do, LDRs are scams and usually end once another person appears

I gotta find a way to be able to tell her all of this, shes very avoidant now and wants nothing to do with me. Don't want to make it seem like I'm cornering her into it either

write her a letter
even better if the letter is physical, but an email will suffice

Yesterday I was in the library doing some math as you do. I was in a room with one other girl and it was quiet as a library is. She was quietly muttering to herself and acting a little weird but nothing alarming at first. I looked over at her and she kept leaning back in her chair. I kept hearing sighing noises and her muttering and stuff and I thought she was crying. I tried to ignore it and focus on my math until I noticed, as I could see under her table, that she was leaned back with her hands down her pants rubbing her crotch. Not gonna lie I kind of got hard when I realized what was happening, but it sketched me the fuck out and I left pretty much immediately. Why would a girl do that in such an obvious way. You have to be psycho to rub yourself off in public. I just feel gross.

If she hadn't been making any noises etc, I'd have said exhibitionism, and she got off to the experience and memory, potentially in addition to telling a boyfriend/lover that she did this.

With the lack of subtlety though, I'm going to say she was likely pretty fucking high.

Do women even like men? Why do you like men?

It happened at like 4pm. I don't think she was high, but I suppose that is a possibility.

you have the right to dislike it, but I wouldn't call it a psycho behavior at all

Fuck yes. The men I like the best, I like because of their individual qualities, so not really different from women. I appreciate their intellect, humor, kindness, goofiness, vulnerability, will power, you name it. I love the combination of the rampant, overt sexuality and the loss of decorum and intimacy in the bedroom. The way men can catch you off guard with a blunt comment as much as they can with something endearing or warm. But overall, all the men I loved the most I loved for being exceptional people and not for inherent masculine traits.

If you're talking physically, it's hard to describe because you're rationalizing an attraction that's just there. I'm not even that attracted to the conventional ideals (e.g. muscle), but there's something in masculine traits (bodyhair, being more prone to sweat, their bigger statures, the playfulness - whistling, tapping on shit, joking - the contrast between soft skin or fat and the lean, more angular lines of a male body, the facial hair) that speaks to my reptile brain. Something gritty, comforting, earthy that pulls me in.

I am also attracted to women (to a lesser extent) but I don't like girls who look like pretty little dolls, either. They don't call good sex "dirty" for nothing.

Whatever you say psycho.

in case you wondered, this is exactly why you have to spend time here with us instead of fucking some pretty girl right now

>It happened at like 4pm. I don't think she was high
Doesn't matter. Sure there's a crowd of more responsible drug users who take something once or twice a year at a nighttime event when they have the next day off. But there's also a considerable minority who's just off the rails and then the fact that it's 4 pm is entirely arbitrary.

Both the complete lack of shame and muttering to herself scream drugs to me.

She had her laptop out and was writing shit down like she was studying too.

What in the world is not crazy about making a show out of masturbating in a public library in broad daylight?

Doesn't matter, who knows what she was doing or thought she was doing.

Could also be a psychotic breakdown, or in theory I guess she really just had zero fucks to give about her reputation or potential consequences - this is just incredibly unlikely to me.

Perhaps. Like theres a part of me that's like "Shouldn't I have confronted her, it might have gone sexual" but at the same time that is also a disgusting thing to do. Almost as gross as what she was doing. Anyways, I think I'd rather stay a virgin than let myself become a degenerate.

We're both Christian so we're really not looking to do that, so it might make the LDR a bit more managable, but idk, I'm really digging this girl atm.

so you want to just remain penfriends with some girl for a couple of years and require you both not to get involved with anybody else at that time.
what's the point, dude

sounds normal to me.
first of all, she wasn't making a show, it just got out her control.
and it's definitely not a surprise to me that she got horny. I can't count times when I fapped in public when I got horny.

There's such a thing in self control. I also know what the feeling is like but that's why you either go home or you go into a bathroom and not make other unwilling people an audience to your masturbation session, whether they want to or not. This is basic decency.

>she wasn't making a show
Talking, sighing and masturbating in public in a place where people are supposed to study does constitute making a show to me, inadvertently or not.

It's also a crime depending on where she lives.

I suppose, it was just mind breaking that "my league" was always turning it's back to me.

Hey males. If rape was legal, would you commit it ?

probably not
i dont really enjoy fucking women that arent enjoying themselves

I really don't know. Maybe I'd do it once but, of its even half as horrible as women say it is, it'd probably scar me for life.

I think I would try it once, but I probably wouldn't like it.
it's one of those fantasies that seem good in your imagination, but are shitty irl

I don't know exactly what I'm supposed to be doing on apps like Bumble. Should I be asking people out as soon as possible? Should I be chatting with them for like a week beforehand? Both methods seem to lead to getting ghosted, even when the initial conversation goes well. What is a woman expecting out of a guy on there? What are some ways someone can leave a good impression just through text?

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Rape disgusts me insofar as it is a traumatic and evil act towards a woman. But it also constitutes some of the deepest darkest fantasies for a lot of women. A lot of my own arousal is based in causing extreme physical and mental arousal in women so if I could make her live out her deepest darkest sexual fantasies in front of my eyes so that she enjoys it, then I would probably do it.

Do you think you could ever enjoy getting raped?

You would have done it in a heartbeat, shut the fuck up.

>But it also constitutes some of the deepest darkest fantasies for a lot of women.
There's a big difference with this as a fantasy vs reality and that's that as a fantasy, ultimately she controls every detail about what's happening. Sure it's about loss of control and being overpowered, but she's the one who decides exactly what, when, where, who.
In real life that loss of control is real which means there's usually extreme fear, anger etc that is not induced by a fantasy setting.

I feel this is something that escapes many people who try to conceptualize sexual assault and haven't experienced it. They think of the concept of being touched sexually, which is almost always an at least neutral if not pleasant thing if they do it right. But sexual assault by definition means the person doing it doesn't give a fuck about your boundaries. Imagine someone doing something minor you don't like, like they touch your arm to emphasize things and they have clammy hands and you're not feeling it so you casually say "haha could you not do that".
Then they suddenly look you square in the face, and slowly and deliberately move forward and grab your arm while maintaining eye contact.

That's what it's like. It's not "being touched" or "having bad sex". It's the feeling that you don't matter. Or even worse; that your pain, humiliation, frustration or fear is a source of sadistic joy to someone else.
That's the element the willed fantasy or the consensual rapeplay does not feature.

These kinds of guys are the real rapists.

I don't want to approach girls and I live in a line of job where it's all dudes so the only time I see women is when I go to the bars in the evening.

Should I go up to girls at bars or just keep waiting for that one lucky occasion a girl happens by? I feel like I might need someone in my life but I don't know if I rate happiness like that. Scream.

Is it impossible to go for a third option and branch out your network? Small get togethers that include female friends/sisters of male friends, taking dancing lessons, attending a reading circle...

Nothing wrong with approaching girls in bars but it's a numbers game and fairly discouraging, your odds for serious relationship potential are much higher if you pre-select on likely compatibility (because you like the same people, or share or least some interests). And just waiting isn't really a great strategy, nothing wrong with it if you enjoy being single but otherwise, you're likely going to look back in a few years and regret not putting in more effort. The older you get the more women in your dating range will be looking to get seriously quickly, if they aren't taken yet.

Girls, do you have pity for virgins or just digust?

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I have no female friends and I feel like too much of a degen to do fancy people things like that. Guess I can try volunteering and shit during the weekends. My thing is that is hate to come on a girl and turns out she's married though and having one eye literally makes it kinda hard to tell.

>mfw walking up to a grill and 360ing when a ring catches sunlight

None of my friends have female friends or family members. It's gotten to the point where these motherfuckers are asking their mothers to hook me up.

Neither one is an inherent thing. I've definitely felt pity or disgust for individual virgins online, but in itself it's not something that evokes much emotion in me. I was a virgin myself until relatively late and know both men and women in the same position. All for different reasons (issues with intimacy, issues with finding a partner, principles) but not because they were fundamentally unloveable or whatever. It's also a fantasy of mine to introduce a guy into sex, though in practice I'm so selective with partners that I doubt it'll ever become reality.

Females:

Do you feel attracted to INFJs? Could you see yourself with one? What about your friends?

What is INFJs?

>introduce a guy to sex
Sup ;)