ITT: Ask The Opposite Gender Anything

>Constantly rejected by average/under average girls
>Hit it off with attractive ones

The fuck?

Need help:

>girl at work
>always flirty with me
>always finding reasons to call me over to her department
>waves at me when she sees me at night (she works 2nd, I work third)
>has a pet name for me
>always smiles and gets close to me
>will go out of her way to walk in the area when I'm working when she doesn't need to go that way

Doesn't do this with any other employee, older guy I work with points this out to me, caveat is she's married but she has cheated on her husband with another coworker in the past. She's really fucking gorgeous and I'm a fucking autist so how do I pursue this thing so I can get some good pussy because I've had multiple people tell me she wants me and we've always had interesting chemistry and like I said, I am the ONLY one she treats like this.

This dude I'm talking about won't ever let the conversation be redirected, not until he gets to say everything he wants to say. We tried it more than once, he always brushes it off and goes back to his shoes or asians. When we try to change the topic and overtalk him, he gets mad and sits sullen and mute for the rest of the gathering. So we just let him talk and occupy ourselves with other stuff.

Not a girl, but thinking that piercings/tattoos look cool is an expression of personality, and when you choose to get a piercing or a tattoo you are making an aesthetic choice that evokes a literal image of you in other people's minds. How do you interpret that as anything other than an expression of personality? It's like when a crazy girl dies her hair pink and you look at her and instantly surmise that she is fucking nuts.

She keeps making sure our fingers touch when she hands me stuff. I'm pretty sure it's intentional anyway. Ok, once or twice is by accident but every time?

Should I reciprocate? Am I seeing things that don't real?

Why do women care so much about a man's status? Men could not care less about a woman's status.

First of all, money.

Second of all, women are incredibly competitive with each other and many of them want to compete, but not actually achieve anything themselves because fuck that lol I'll get a man to do it for me. So they want a man of higher social standing than their friend's men.

Also money.

I don't have an answer but I have a friend at work like this.

Today she called the office about half an hour after she left "to check if an email sent". She knows full well I'm the one who'd answer the phone. Took her six minutes to leave the office too because she kept """"forgetting"""" things and stopping to talk to me along the way.

Also she's married. Kek.

An aesthetic choice is not a personality. A septum doesn't express anything else than "I like septums" or that she wants to belong to some peet group. That is not what constitutes a personality, me liking the color blue doesn't describe my personality either.

That's a detail I wouldn't even notice, never the less purposely make sure I'm doing. You're reading too much into nothing