overweight. Looking through fb seems she gained all of it recently
Overweight girl
You should date her
Being overweight is like a 1000 times better than obese so don't sweat it
And hey if things don't work out oh well
Dating a great big fat girl can be a pretty rough deal. Some of them have hygiene issues, bad smells, trouble doing things, plus it can just be unsightly. On the other hand, a girl with a healthy appetite for food often has a healthy sexual appetite as well. I personally like a little cushion for the pushin', but can't stand big drapes of fat folds cascading down her carcass. Also, back boobs are a total deal breaker - you know the big globs of fat on the back where the tits would be if they were on the back, so they look like boobs on the back? Yeah, fuck that.
If the superficial traits of your choice in partners is "social suicide", get better friends.
Until you start prioritizing your feelings and desires over the expectations of a bunch of sheep, you'll never get real respect from anyone that actually counts
My advice would be to date her. Having a gf who is attracted to you and grateful to receive your dick is literally the most important quality she can have. I have dated many girls, I have cheated and been cheated on, been in shitty relationships and good. I'm telling you, fuck money, looks, class, popularity, intelligence, power, fame, influence, taste...nothing else is at all important next to her desire for you. THAT'S what will get you a loyal, honest, fun partner. Without that, it doesn't matter how impressed all the shallow idiots are with your gf, you're headed for heartbreak and drama, and as soon as it hits, all those people you avoided social suiciding from will be nowhere to be found.
>having a overweight gf would be a social suicide for me
Are you 12?
If you want to encourage her into healthier options, cook for her and take her to places than involve being active like long walks.
This is such a childish attitude. I'm a chubby chaser and slim myself so I've gotten weird looks at times. No one else is dating the person you date. If you like someone so much that you are willing to commit to them, give all your love and affection to them, then you owe it to them to be proud that they also want you and not be shameful because your own damn taste is not the most conventional.
Just keep fucking around with her until SHE drops exclusivity then tell her her weight is a deal breaker and if she'd like you can help her with it.
Having standards ain't anything to sweat about OP. Be honest when necessary and set boundaries with what you want out of your partner and they'll show their true colors. If they say no,that's alright and just leave it at that. More often than not the less of a noise you make about it the more likely they are to supremely regret it.
If you're able to get hard and bang her despite her weight problem than it's not an issue
>social suicide
what social suicide, you're posting on Jow Forums like the rest of us.
My gf is a little overweight but I love her thighs and tummy. She has a 10/10 face too (imo).
But if she were totally fat I don't know if I would find her attractive. I wouldn't be with someone I don't find attractive desu.
Why? If you don't want to date a fatty, don't date a fatty. But if you want to date a fatty, don't cry about other people judging you as if that matters.