How do I get a sane gf who just wants a good relationship...

>don't want a slut
>don't want a prude
>its like these girls are just listening to ideas about female empowerment
Seems like you're the one with a problem bro. You're only 19 so just date casually, figure out you're dating preferences and don't rush anything.

Wishful thinking in most cases. A chick I've known from highschool and who was basically the trial-fuck for any almost-grownup guy within 50 miles has led a happy life living the party life before eventually settling for guy #385379 and living the family life with kids and white picket fence. And that's how it goes for most whores as long as they don't get accumulate 5 children on the way.

And yes, there's a middle ground, but these are unicorns. Good luck.

I've legitimately tried though, I'm pretty good looking and funny (obviously kind of a sperg as I'm here but I have lots of people who like me) and I've talked to a lot of different girls but even the ones who seemed into me didnt want to start anything and just clammed up.

Bud I was 19 11 years ago before she liberalism swept the nation and before Facebook made everyone form echo Chambers. When the internet was a thing exclusively for nerds and shut ins.

It hasn't changed.

Some girls want to have fun when they're young and not be tied down, some girls want something permanent.

There has been no change in how many want what. All that's changed is how many of the extreme living the exact opposite lifestyle you want get shoved in your face on Facebook so you get all rage and like share and participate. That's it.

Also you're in college. The women there are thinking about their careers and futures, and kind of put off by the whole baby thing, and the perceived expectation that men want them to stay at home, which again, true for some men, not true for others, and most have dated or had friends date men who are totally like that.

They aren't looking for a relationship, and they're still humans that enjoy sex. Guess what they're gonna do?

I realize all that, all I want is a casual relationship with a mildly interesting qt who will hangout with me and fuck in my dorm a few days a week.

That's essentially a girlfriend..

And you don't have control over your feelings. That shits chemical, and forms over bonding mutual experience and sexual contact.

I think the girls you're propositioning are more aware of that than you are. It's not as simple as just deciding you aren't going to catch feels.

Well yeah I'm saying a want a girlfriend, I just dont want to be a big possessive faggot about it or vice versa.
>And you don't have control over your feelings. That shits chemical, and forms over bonding mutual experience and sexual contact.
Yeah I know that, its a numbers game and Im just discouraged that I havent gotten results after so much playing
>I think the girls you're propositioning are more aware of that than you are. It's not as simple as just deciding you aren't going to catch feels.
Not entirely sure what you mean by that

Maybe look outside of college...? If you can't then either be patient and wait for the right girl or fucking stop whining and accept the fact you may not find a girl right for you in college. You're acting like its a shock they don't want to fuck/aren't fucking you. People have different goals at different stages in their life, you're still young and have your whole life ahead so don't feel panicked if you can't find the type of relationship you want right now..

You don't know what I mean because I have misinterpreted you. I am sorry. Anyways, I'll refer you to my post hereIt's an odds game. The stars have to align.

The good news about odds is even a low chance is certain if you keep rolling the dice.

The trick is exposure. Activities. Social groups.

Also pro-tip: women with actual active lives and hobbies and interests tend to be less needy of sexual affirmation that comes with the promiscuous life.

They're more likely to be into a partner in crime.