Should I trust people who are seemingly nice for no reason?

Don't be afraid to trust those who are nice. But be afraid to trust those who describe themselves as nice.

>Should I trust people who are seemingly nice for no reason?
Depends.
I'm a short, small framed and weak ass woman. I can't trust any male ever. It's not possible, nice or not there's just too much of a risk.
With woman I don't see any problems. Of course I'm still cautious with complete strangers.

As a male.. I don't know, don't have any experience with that.

>As a male.. I don't know, don't have any experience with that.
As a male myself, I don't recall too many instances where some guy was nice (to me or others around me) without some strings attached.

>As a male myself, I don't recall too many instances where some guy was nice (to me or others around me) without some strings attached.
Hmmm... what about women being nice to you or other men you knew of?

>what about women being nice to you
That's just usually default behaviour for them (even though they're not always honest through that niceness).

>other men you knew of
Crapshoot. Sometimes they do something nice if it doesn't require a lot of effort. Sometimes they're wary of the idea, for worry being taken advantage of, and treated like a doormat the second they let their guard down.

Interesting. Thanks user.
So we (women) tend to be nice to people without strings attached, whereas men don't.

I guess op has his answer now.

no, you probably aren't a nice person yourself, since you can't distinguish between kindness and opportunism. only one is geared towards respect.

Almost forgot. I myself am only very nice to people I know, who I judge that are good hearted enough to deserve my help. With being nice I mean actively investing big part of my time and effort to help someone out without wanting anything in return. The feeling to have helped someone who deserved it is enough for me.

>Women say I should, but men say I shouldn't. And frankly, I don't see why you would be nice if you're not getting anything out of it.

Low effort bait. People can be nice because they are nice or because they want something from you. Women included. Why does this board always make everything into a gender war?

>Why does this board always make everything into a gender war?
Sorry didn't mean to be offensive.
I said tend to be and meant that. Of course there are a lot of man who are nice just to be nice but I think most still tend to expect something in return.
Plus of course there are manipulative bitches out there, but most women tend to be just nice and not expect anything in return.

That's really sweet, user. Thank you.
I hope you have a great life, too. I pay attention a lot to other people but I'm not nice, in something better than nice. Im helpful
I'm not competent enough to think I'm helpful, to be honest. I'm not a mental health specialist, or a doctor, or have a solution for everyone's problem.
I try to be kind, if it helps then even better. From what I know, compassion and empathy are usually good enough things to have.

>only one is geared towards respect.
That's absolutism.

if you have to ask, you're probably not a nice person.

>can't distinguish between kindness and opportunism
that has nothing to do with being nice.

don't trust them, but be polite and nice in turn.

>Why does this board always make everything into a gender war?
Because there are distinct differences between the genders and how they approach the world and other people; much like there are differences between one culture and another. And those differences are observable.

It's not a war, just recognition of those differences. And if you take exception with recognition of what your own gender does, that's a problem with you.

OP you're fucking stupid, that's the real issue here. Do you have autism?

This, I am an unkind person and I don't know that because I don't know what it is to be kind to some one.