ITT: ask the opposite gender anything

Would a woman get mad if i told her that for her, less is more, when it comes to make up? I think she looks sooo much better in light make up then whatever the fuck she puts on when she goes out

Well if you phrase it like this, yes, but if you tell her that you find her very attractive with little make up because she's naturally pretty, no she will take it as a compliment

Is going to the park a good first date idea?

>don't have gf nor girls interested in me in general
>the usual normie advice is: "get cool hobbies, get a decent education, be smart, get a job, get a car, dress well and be clean"
>the advice obviously assumes I'm a disgusting fat slob that doesn't shower and is a complete neet
>in reality I'm a normal guy with a good degree, a car, smarts, hobbies, shower every day and wear clean clothes
>still no gf
EXPLAIN

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as long as you enjoy the date

Dont phrase your opinion as fact and dont phrase it as a negative statement. Don't say she has too much makeup on and wait till you see her without makeup and then compliment her.

The key is to have the kind of hobbies that put you in regular contact with femalea. Normies never considered that their are hobbies where this doesnt happen, or they forget that places with a 1 to 5 girl guy ratio at best arent great places to find a girl.

>Date girl for year
>Things going great even though she is very stubborn and bitchy, i kind of like bitchy women, and also she stays in the place i live which she hates so she can be with me and even moves to the same building as me, i feel really loved
>Slowly the relationship is constricting me, she doesn't let me do my hobbies and i stop caring about anything and become a slob
>She stops being attracted to me and breaks up with me
>I deal with rejection the only way i know how, by working out like an autist
>Get my sixpack back, look and feel great, still miss her but slowly getting over her
>Meet her yesterday in the street
>She tells me to walk with her, long story short we end up in my house and we make out
>I escort her out before things escalate
>Can't stop thinking about her now

I'm gonna ask her out tommorow. She improved me as a person. But this time im gonna set rules and not become the doormat she broke up with.

>and wait till you see her without makeup and then compliment her.
what do i say?

Without these things your chances of getting good gf are extremely low. With these things, no gf is guaranteed, but much likelier and easier to make work.

No one thinks any of that will automatically generate for you a decent gf

holy shit you're a huge fag

Just think that if she liked you she would drop her bf in an instant to be with you.

My first relationship was like that it made me feel like an alpha gorilla

Go to bars and talk to girls. That's all you can do unless you REALLY luck out. You're going to get on with 1 in every 100 girls. The sooner you get through the 99 you don't like the better. What people do is go about their business and talk to 1-3 a week. Talk to 10 every weekend.

No. The problem here is that normies seem to be prone to the "just world" fallacy. Plus the survivor bias. They quite literally can't come up with decent advice because they never faced the problem and had to come up with a way to solve it.

All that retarded advice goes down to being a perfect man, a complete Chad. Technically that should make you swim in pussy... But I don't even want that. I don't want MANY girls I want just one.

>Go to bars and talk to girls
Tried it. Let's just say... it doesn't work.

Sounds like an excuse for you to save your ass since you think the marriage won't work. I'd take it badly,

hey fuck you

>She improved me as a person
You dont actually believe this do you? LMAO

Get a social circle. This circle includes females. Meet females through females. You will find something.

Talking to complete strangers never, ever EVER works. Especially in bars clubs where women go to get hit on and reject guys to boost their ego.

The problem is that getting a GF is literally based on significant amounts on RNG. If you end up being in the area of a female who is compatible with you, and if you happen to talk to them, and if you happen to maintain contact - then you'll end up with a GF.

It's all RNG. You can only improve the dice, you cant ensure a particular roll. Every day you just keep rolling the dice over and over. There is NO advice that will ever ensure you a GF.

>Tried it. Let's just say... it doesn't work.
I think it's completely obvious what the problem is and you neglect to mention that you're a tremendous sperg because you're too lazy to fix it.

She did. It's what i need in my life. A person constantly bitching at me to do stuff. Left to my own devices i have a filthy house and just go through the motions never doing anything new. My inner voice at this moment is her bitching at me to clean my house better

How do I get her to spend the night with me instead of her bf who lives next door?

Not necessarily. It's been almost two weeks since we made out at my place and first and we did so again on Wednesday at her place, but she doesn't want to drop him yet.

>Get a social circle. This circle includes females. Meet females through females. You will find something.
It doesn't work like that and you know it. It's not like girls will introduce you to other girls and basically give you a gf.

I don't know, maybe I'm unlucky as hell then. I tried about everything now and it just doens't work.

I'm not a sperg. I have a job, finished university, I normally participate in life. Sure, I don't partyevery night but that doesn't make me a sperg.

>I'm not a sperg. I have a job, finished university, I normally participate in life. Sure, I don't partyevery night but that doesn't make me a sperg.
Its blatantly obvious you have social issues and you refuse to bring it up because that's exactly what people are going to tell you to fix

You need to stop thinking of love as something you can force to happen or go out and hunt like a deer, or catch like a pig if only you had the right bait and trap.

It will just happen to you. It will not happen in a way that is anything out of the ordinary than any other day. Ypu'll meet her in likely a way as mundane as you meet anyone else in your life. You might not even realize youve met the girl youre going to marry until weeks, even months, after the meeting. You might not even start a romantic relationship with her till that time passes.

>Its blatantly obvious you have social issues and you refuse to bring it up because that's exactly what people are going to tell you to fix
What social issues are you even talking about? How would you know?

>You need to stop thinking of love as something you can force to happen or go out and hunt like a deer, or catch like a pig if only you had the right bait and trap.
Honestly, it's hard not to think of it that way. A friend of mine has gone on a beach one day and just approached some girl, got her number and bam, next week he shows me a pic of a date with her because they're bf/gf now. Previously he got a gf by literally talking to one girl on tinder. And it happened to multitude of my friends. They approach one girl and it all just works for them.

All those examples are exactly proof it kinda just -happens-

They didnt ensure anything going to talk to these females. There was no specific process they followed that could ensure success. If I go out, find deer, wait, have a working gun, aim and fire when the moment is right- I am sure to succeed, I will have killed a deer. Love is not like this. There is no set of things you can do which at the end you can be sure you'll have gained what you wanted.

I'm pretty tall for a woman, 5'10, and my partner is slightly shorter than me

We can't into doggy style and he claims it's because I'm tall. Like he is able to penetrate me (I've had sex 2 times before him and they were never able to even penetrate me in this position, both were around my height), but when he gets into position to continue thrusting it just won't work.

I'm frustrated because I've always wanted to do doggy. I'm really sure there are ways to get around this, right? Anybody got tips?

Try doing it a couple different ways maybe? Im not sure because Im a virgin, but have you tried having him stand while youre on the bed? Maybe try lying on your belly with your butt up instead of being on your knees and hands.

I assume you need to lower yourself and/or raise his effective height.

find a lower place to have sex

Stretch with him before fucking. Sometimes range of motion for guys, especially if they're not fit, is shot because they're too stiff in the bad way.
Worst case scenario, buy one of those handle belts so he can get better leverage at an angle that lets him hit deeper.

You can get lower by increasing the angle between your legs. Ex of mine had really long legs, one hand width longer than me but it was the best doggy I had.
Had a one night stand with a really short girl and couldn't penetrate because she didn't arch her back at all

How do i go about getting a fwb?
I mean the way i got into relationships so far is hanging around with someone chatting/ being friendly but adding small compliments / lightly flirting.
But i am not emotionally in the right place to get another girlfriend, i'm not ready for another break up or random drama that leads up to it.
I want a girl who i can reliably have sex with while i focus on other things. I already have two girls from uni in mind.

Come on, he installed tinder with the sole purpose to get a gf. When he went to the beach he also went there looking for a gf. And I know that because he actually asked me what should he do to get a gf, and I actually told him to just approach a girl and chat her up with some shit (even gave him a good opener and how the subject). He did that and now he got a gf.

Like man what the fuck. I know he has a pretty face and is taller than me but still

>How do i go about getting a fwb?
Don't. It's not a good idea. Rarely works out.

Thanks all, I'll keep these all in mind for next time, and hopefully we'll succeed lol

Thing is installing Tindr doesnt ensure you a GF, going to the beach doesnt, walking up to a girl doesnt.

He's just luckier with his rolls. Maybe he knows how to roll better, maybe he has better dice, whatever. Its ALWAYS RNG, you only increase your chances.

Honestly i just want to use that to bide my time, catch up with my plans that i've fallen behind on because i've had a rough period.
I know it's an arrangement with an expiration date, hopefully a year in which i can focus on myself. Without having to worry about women.
And hopefully get some practice (i've had sex like 4 times with my ex)

Men,

Would you cheat on your s/o?

Under what circumstances? Co-worker, friend, stranger at a bar?

What kind of excuses would you make to your partner to see the other woman (or man)?

No

>Would you cheat on your s/o?
>Under what circumstances?
If she refuses to have sex with me regularly. But then I would probably break up with her first. Would have to be a situation where I couldn't leave the relationship.

>Would you cheat on your s/o?
No, what the fuck? Why would anyone do that?

What I'm saying is, he did it all on his first attempt. As did other friends of mine. I... I suppose I didn't mention this but I tried a lot. I got dates even, but no gf.

Seriously man. Don't. As much as it may seem like a good option, especially if you're a busy man, it's most definitely NOT.

Yes.
If we were into each other physically and already spent a lot of time together. Only outside our friend group, though, like coworker.
I've been using the excuse that she's new to the job and I need work overtime to help her out. I use gender neutral pronouns and my gf hasn't tried to pry. If she calls me out on it I'll tell her the truth, though. I'm an asshole, not a liar.

>I...I

I found what's decreasing the quality of your dice OP. If your friends could be said to have their dice weighted in their favor, you're weighting yours against you.

I don't understand

guy here
I have absolutely no relationship experience. I cannot begin to even wrap my head around it.
should I get bumble? I like the idea of women being the one to make the first move because it saves me a lot of stress
then again I find dating apps dehumanizing in a way and I feel very ugly and think negatively about myself to the point that I don't think it would be fair to have someone encounter me.
I am very starved for any sort of interaction though.

The only people who artificially enter stutters and hesitation into their writing are people who tend to be quite submissive and very try-hard IRL

This detracts from your ability to be a confident person and effective actor (person who takes action.) This is unattractive.

But even this wouldnt prevent a GF entirely, it just makes the chance shittier.

Suicide yourself user

>The only people who artificially enter stutters and hesitation into their writing are people who tend to be quite submissive and very try-hard IRL
Oh come on this was only for the dramatic effect. English isn't even my native language so I'm really kinda copying mannerisms I see in the movies.

That's not the issue, user I don't do that IRL.

My dad is a serial cheater, and he's cheated on every women he's been with.
So that's a resounding NO from me.
However, i'd add a caveat
You know when over the course of a few weeks the girl becomes much less talkative, almost never texts firsts, acts distant, postpones/cancels plans, uses every excuse to pick a fight? And when you point any of it out and ask what's wrong/changed, she replies "nothing"?
Yeah, i consider that an informal break up, because i've never had a relationship recover from that.

What is your advice on foodplay? Which foods are a no go? and which foods do you recommend?

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Not until it blows up in my face.

Guys:
I've been living with my boyfriend for a week now. We only recently got our internet installed and everything's gone downhill from here - he doesn't want to spend time with me. I cooked him dinner and he took it and ran upstairs to his room so he can argue with literal 16 year olds on Twitter. Red flag?

Anything more than sugary toppings is a slippery slope to degeneracy. Stick with whip cream.

I liked eating Tiramisu off my ex's tits

Don't you feel bad at all? You're abusing her trust...

Withholding the truth on something you agreed on (monogamous relationship) is technically lying though.

anyone?

>arguing with 16 year olds
Yea thats a red flag
>on Twitter
OOF

If hes good about everything else it might just be one of his quirky flaws, but it is a negative trait.

Give it a week, might just be a temporary obsession.

Try it but don't expect much if you have shitty pictures and/ or are an average dude. It can fuck with your confidence so keep that in mind.

Yeah, I do sometimes. But then I get to have weird sex with a more attractive woman in a dark office a few times a week and I feel better.
And I still make my gf happy, so it's not a big deal if you ask me.
Monogamy is usually implied but not explicitly asked for. She never went out of her way to ask/make sure we were an exclusive thing.
I wouldn't be surprised if she was seeing someone on the side too, since she doesn't seem to mind me being less physical with her lately.

Does the coworker know you have a girlfriend?

If yes, does it not bother her at all?

If no, how do you keep it a secret?

Yes, though she doesn't know how serious the relationship is and how many years it's been going on. I don't have social media and I don't share much at work, so she'll never learn the details. I was upfront about already seeing another woman and she was still onboard, so I guess she doesn't care either.

how old are you both?
how long are you together?
did you tell him how you feel about it?

If he's anything like me he'll need time to adjust his lifestyle to living with someone. It doesn't happen overnight, you know.

Besides, give him some space. Just because you're together doesn't mean both of you should abandon all your hobbies, whatever they may be.

Men with big dicks, how has it affected your life?
People whose partners have big dicks, how has it affected your relationship, if at all?

>~5'0"
>ugly face (although I have been rated a 6 before, but I think they were just trying to be nice, or the picture was just misleading)
>unable to hold long and quality conversations
>have difficulty being vulnerable
do I even have a chance? should I try to improve somethings?

>>unable to hold long and quality conversations
You can start to improve with this.

what would be the point if my other traits hold em back?

>ugly face (although I have been rated a 6 before, but I think they were just trying to be nice, or the picture was just misleading)
>have difficulty being vulnerable
I'm just these two and I can't get a gf, so maybe these are your main issue. There's always a little hope.

forgot to add 4'5" penis (erect)

Didnt affect my relationship at all besides my girlfriend having a very hard time giving me oral.

Well it brings you closer to whatever you want and actually gives you a chance.

Yeah same here. I'm also manlet tho.

you are supposed to do the talk. First, sit by yourself and think exactly what do you want and why. What is a problem for you and what isn*t.
then lay with her (those conversations are best to be had after sex in the night, for some reason) and address the issue straightforwardly. Explain yourself properly, ask questions, insist on answers (although, if she informs you she isn*t yet ready to give you some answers, accept it and wait for some time. It*s best if she can tell you when exactly are you going to get the answers, but be chill about it one way or another)

Think about her too. Ask if it*s alright for you to do certain things, ask how she would feel about it, let her decide on some parts of your behavior, if it*s something she should be allowed to decide about.

And don*t worry

okay then, how do I improve it?exposure like mentioned in the OP?

Yeah pretty much. Talking is a skill and the only way to get better at it is by practicing it.

HOW THE FUCK ARE ALL THE UGLY GIRLS HAVING BOYFRIENDS AND ARE GETTING MARRIED

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pregnancy, maybe
furthermore, appearance is measured subjectively

>pregnancy
Nope

>appearance is measured subjectively
Come on, those girls are objectively ugly. Fat cunts with disgusting faces. In fact, they often have annoying shitty personalities which puzzles me even more.

Obviously I'm basing this on the girls I know. But also ones I tried approaching.

okay, but how do you know that being a good talker will improve my chances of finding a gf?
I'm still an ugly turbomanlet, it feels like the odds are stacked against me. all i want is a family, a sense of belonging in this cold miserable world

Do you expect to have a girlfriend and never talk to her?

Girls:

Is guys making a move on you in a club/in a dancing situation really uncomfortable for you?

I'm a guy and I just feel so so bad trying to do it so I never do it, but I also never get any girls because I am afraid to do it. It's not a looks thing because anyone can get their hole but I just don't know how.

Do you think their boyfriends arent flawed if theyre willing to date trash? The flaws might not be physical, but they exist.

The higher your standards the lower your dating pool. This is just a fact.

well of course not, that's absurd, but she also hs to look at me and be around me, and I don't think any woman would want that

>forces you to quit your hobbies
>you turn into a slob
>only get back in shape one you two break up
>"she made me a better person"

Lmao?

God knows what they're like but from what I can tell they're absolutely normal plain guys. One guys is even a straight up Chad.

you have been here before, asking the same question, expecting people to fight you and forcefully prove that they are right and you have the chance.
fuck you.
change this attitude, this is the most important reason why you are not able to get a gf

Well there is a small chance in the world that there will be a girl that accepts your looks. But talking to her is absolutely essential.

Do everything that brings you even a step closer to this, user.

Approaching ugly women is a toxic mindset, i did that when i was 16, and it only backfired.
That's the problem. Approach women you genuinely like, only then can you expect something to happen.
Lost my virginity a month before i turned 22. 6 years after i started approaching girls. You'll get there user, but you need to let go of the darkness within you. Recognize it, but don't let it have power over you. Let go of your hate