>bestfriend for 8 years >we’re both dudes >I’m 18 he’s 19 >i start to notice that he’s been touchy for a while, were roommates and he always wants to join me in the shower to “save water and time” (the lock is broken) >he starts to hug me all the time >can’t argue with him cause he’s 6’2 and I’m 5’8
Is my bestfriend hitting on me or is this just a friend thing?
The shower thing is what makes it certain. He's flirting with you.
OP, you need to say something. If you're not attracted to him, he needs to know. Otherwise it's only going to escalate. If you don't protest, you're suggesting you're okay with it.
It's definitely scary to confront someone who is bigger and stronger than you, but this guy is your friend. Or at least, he's supposed to be. You should be able to talk to him. And you need to. If you fear him actually getting violent, have an escape route.
He'll probably be hurt because he obviously wants to do more with you, but you can't let that stop you. If you don't want this, you have to say something before it goes any further.
Michael Miller
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This is solid advice. You've at the very least got to let him know you are very uncomfortable the physical contact, and you feel especially uncomfortable about him attempting to join you in the shower. In my experience, making it about comfort and crossing boundaries tends to make this stuff more convincing than just saying you dislike something.
Jose Johnson
OPs roommate never said No Homo. Thus it's clearly homo. Tell your roommate very clearly if he wants to shower together, hug, and rub penises he has to say No Homo because you're not a fucking faggot
Gavin Mitchell
OP should just say no homo himself.
Adrian James
>is it just a friend thing? I can't tell if this is b8 or not.
>tell big gay bear of a friend that you're looking for a girlfriend >get tinder >show him the tinder, ask for tips >if he says nothing gay to you, good >if he tries to say some gay shit, tell him you're not gay