So I've been dating this girl for about a month now and the other night we talked about what porn we watched. She has a pornhub account to save videos on, but wouldn't let me see what was in her favorites. She just said she likes porn of stuff she would never do. Eventually she admitted to watching group porn but still wouldn't let me see. So I checked when she was away and it turns out almost every video on her favorites is cheating/cuckold/interracial porn. Same thing with her view history, it's almost all related to cheating.
She literally cannot be cheating on me since we spend basically every waking second together, but this unsettled me quite a bit and I honestly don't even know how to react. I understand it's just porn and all, but literally 90+% of these videos are related to cheating. Should I confront her about this? She always says how much she hates people who cheat, too. Like every time some character in a movie or TV show that we're watching cheats, she points out how shitty they are and that she hates that character. I never really thought about it until now, but that doesn't seem like a good sign. Sounds like over compensating to me.
I guess I should add that I know for a fact that she is incredibly inexperienced since I had to explain to her how to suck my dick and how to jerk me off. I'm not entirely sure if that really changes anything.
Connor Foster
Yeah
Dylan Evans
>spend basically every waking second together
I’d be more concerned about this honestly
Jordan Gomez
>She always says how much she hates people who cheat, too. Like every time some character in a movie or TV show that we're watching cheats, she points out how shitty they are and that she hates that character.
Boom. Right there. You see it? She's been cheated on in the past and will cheat on you.
Julian Cook
But we both enjoy that.
I've been cheated on the past and would never cheat on someone. But yeah the way she excessively hates on anyone who cheats tends to mean she's more likely to cheat.
Mason Morris
Personally I like porn that I’d never act out. It would probably send me into a full panic attack and gross me out. People have weird fantasies.
Michael Powell
Was she raised by a single mom? Hypersexuality is often a sign.
John Diaz
You can get off to the taboo of something without it ever having a bearing on your irl decisions. I've busted my fair share of nuts to traps but think transfags are degenerate as fuck and want nothing to do with them in reality.
Bring your friend home and maybe you'll get to know
Samuel Mitchell
In my experience women get super into cuddling after sex. I think it's because they don't want to feel like whores and want affirmation that you love them. Not sure how their state of mind changes after masturbation though.
Joseph Kelly
keep a cool head and talk to her about it. do not immediately mention/bring up the fact that you have been cheated on before during this. save that for after you have your talk. while you did violate her trust, just frame it as you being curious. explain that it's okay to restrict some fetishes to fantasy and are much better in the idyllic fantasy you create when you jerk it than actually doing it in real life. women are very emotional and framing this as you not judging her will prevent her from becoming defensive/upset/otherwise irrational.
Blake Bennett
She's actually incredibly prudish.
Jackson Ross
try it out.
Anthony Cruz
She's projecting hard as fuck. I was with a bitch like that, I'd advise leaving but it's your life dont let anyone tell you otherwise
Leo Young
Prudish with you. Does she have male "friends"
Luis Baker
There is nothing wrong with judging someone critically by the porn they watch. Fetishes range from fantasy tier silliness to literal disgusting/what the fuck.
She's not prudish, she's just taking advantage of you and she'll probably cheat on you if she's already taking advantage of you.
Justin Morris
In a healthy relationship both of you should not even be watching porn. Really it just shows how unsatisfied you are with each other.
Juan Johnson
I wouldn't worry too much about it. I too watch porn that I'd never act out irl. Do, however, talk to her about those fetishes that she keeps secret, and maybe introduce them into the bedroom with some toys and roleplaying.
Henry Powell
No, she's genuinely prudish. See . She's extremely skiddish about being seen naked and ticklish to the point of making it difficult to do much lewd. She has almost no friends other than me. She's not social at all and I even have to order for her when we go out sometime sbecause she's too anxious. I really don't see her being a secret whore.
I am not fucking introducing cuckold roleplay into the bedroom.
Zachary Jenkins
This. It blows my mind that a porn addicted retard posting on Jow Forums is unable to grasp that pornagraphic taste does not always translate to reality
Parker Hill
She's a closet whore like every other prude girl.
Make sex more intense or wait for the inevitable
Hunter Hughes
Chill dude. I jerk off to PST porn and I'm not a serial killer.
Chase Sullivan
PST porn? Do I wanna know what that is?
Jace Jackson
>She always says how much she hates people who cheat, too. Like every time some character in a movie or TV show that we're watching cheats, she points out how shitty they are and that she hates that character. She's creating an alibi just in case and you believe it. kek
also nice bait post
Carter King
Are either of you women? Because if you aren't then you really can't give advice because women do not work like men.
Wyatt Gomez
Lol
Jack Harris
Are you a murderer if you play violent video games? Some people need outlets like these so they have better self-control irl.
Christopher Morales
My ex was the same way. She said she hated cheating and eventually I proposed after her months of saying she wanted to marry. I broke up with her after she kissed an ex and 4 years later found a cheating vid with my ID in it. Yup, hoes are crazy. Stay around for poon but then ditch her before she goes crazy and tries to marry because SHE IS A CHEAT ON THE INSIDE.
Plus, who'd marry a cuck loving whore? Dude you can't marry those types...
Women don't work on a purely visual level like men do. It's also far more than just a casual porn fantasy, it's literally the only porn she watches.
My gut is telling me to leave before I get hurt, but man I really liked her and she's so super affectionate and loving.
Colton Martin
>Women don't work on a purely visual level like men do. It's also far more than just a casual porn fantasy, it's literally the only porn she watches. Nobody works purely on a visual level you retarded, we all work, if we aren't born retarded, which you as an example seem to be, with our 5 senses.
>My gut is telling me to leave before I get hurt, but man I really liked her and she's so super affectionate and loving. Then confront her about it, beta bitch boi
Adam Fisher
Ditch her dude. I might have AIDS from the first fuck I have ever had because she was a closet whore that fucked Tyrone. I will never go back to that crazy type of woman loving ever again. She was a nut and literally got institutionalized. It was a shame because she was asian. The ones who say they hate cheating but secretly do it are the worst. Also it's possible she has STD's from being the cheating type and I wouldn't put it past her to do it to you since you found evidence. Don't put up with it like I did when I would constantly find dudes texting her on her phone. It took a real wake up call and God for me to find proof on the net that she cheated. My ID went missing for 4 days when she was there and surfaced later. Then it popped up in a porno on the net I randomly found. It was disgusting.
Jordan Edwards
Post pics of leaving her for our amusement :D just blot out the name with Microsoft Paint. I'm If you want any more advice reply to this, I've helped out friends with relationships my entire life.
Adrian White
Honestly OP the fact that she vilifies cheaters while simultaneously masturbating to them reeks of intense cognitive dissonance. Often times one of the biggest parts of a fetish is the forbidden fruit nature of it. In my experience, that effect is much stronger in women. Definitely something to be worried about. is the best post in the thread, though. Follow his advice.
Austin Wood
Imagine being a cavewoman that Grug just knocked up. You need him to protect your pregnant ass for at least 9 months or else you'll get eaten by a smilodon.
Henry Cruz
>I am not fucking introducing cuckold roleplay into the bedroom.
I don't watch much porn these days. Maybe once every week or so if I am bored or lazy and don't want to use my imagination. My girlfriend knows all the fetishes I have. I've shown her examples and porn videos. She's also showed me her and what she likes. Needless to say we have amazing sex because we know what each other likes. Both of us are vanilla as fuck though.
Daniel Allen
go on..
Nolan Wilson
Its a fantasy man. Just because something gets you off doesnt mean they'd do it
Daniel Anderson
nice cuck fantasy but if real find a new gf.
Blake Wood
Why don't you put a dark dildo on the headboard of the bed and pound her away from behind. It's a good idea to try this with her.
Daniel Morales
>I might have aids You're really too fucking retarded to go get tested? Is this real life?
Kayden Walker
im not a chick but i watch cuck porn too but now because of liking the cuck shit but because the women in it are hot as fuck, i dont give a shit about the story or whatever the situation is some of the women there are just hot and i wana rail them like they get railed in the vids, dont cast your judgement too fast user
Nicholas Williams
>been with prostitutes in thailand a year ago >feel fine I can understand him, its too much of a hassle
Grayson Rogers
lmfao
Justin Russell
wise words n dubs whats not to love
Jackson Davis
Look it's just porn but she may have some weird underlying desires. Find out via communication :)
Hudson Butler
Fantasy and reality have very clear boundaries and a lot of times people like fantasizing about things they wouldn't actually want to do in real life. An example that is often brought up is rape fantasies, just because a woman masturbates to the idea of getting raped doesn't mean she'd be cool with it IRL, same for men for that matter, most men who might get off to the idea of raping someone wouldn't actually go and do it IRL. A more extreme example is vore fetishists, they get off to the idea of getting swallowed by a giant lizard or some shit but I doubt they'd actually give it a shot IRL, same can be said using everything and everyone on /d/, for that matter. Masturbating to an idea is not the same as actually wanting to do it. I've even heard of some instances where a guy was toying with the idea of cuckoldry, got his significant other to do it for him and almost immediately went "oh god, this was a terrible, awful idea"
Porn is porn and reality is reality, they are very well separate from each other, I honestly wouldn't worry, at least not just because she masturbates to cuckold porn.
Thomas Brooks
Looool you're a troll.
Michael Lee
It isn't cheating if you are ok with her fucking other men and all women want to fuck other men so she has put this on you to give her the ok. Keep in mind that even if you say no the desire is too great and she'll manufacture a break of some kind to fuck some other guy.
Oliver Clark
There's not much else to go on about user
Tyler Green
I'd leave immediately if I were you OP. Yeah she might be ashamed of it but sooner or later she is going to act on those urges. Women don't have as much self-restraint as men do. I think you've stumbled upon one of the worst red flags of them all. She actively gets off on debasing all of the desirable qualities in a partner, keep that in mind.
