Met this really cool girl on tinder talked a bunch of social media before meeting up (firstmistake) but eventually ended up fucking her the 2nd date. It was ok sex. i didnt come and she actually bled a bunch (redflag?) either way kept in contact and continued seeing her, Ended up to agreeing to beta shit like (lunch) dates and other dates that never led to sex. She ended up talking about other dudes when we hanged out (another red flag) but i just sorta allowed it but also talked about other girls without being butthurt. We ended up making out one day and she was soaking wet but kept saying we werent having sex, she sucked my dick but i couldnt push pass lmr. She ended up giving me the LJBF the next date i tried escalating again. I Laughed it off and didnt show butt hurt but decided to ghost her for a week. She freaked out and was wondering what happened. I just told her i was busy. She scheduled a meet up, I made sure she knew it was a "date" she agreed. Thought I was in the clear, obviously not, I made the same mistake of playing into her frame and doing lunch, she pretty much bounced right after and didnt give me any chance to escalate or come up to my apartment. tried for another date and defined it as a date and that we werent friends even more explicitly, she agreed. ended up having a great time but she went totally deadfished at the end when i went in for the kiss. I played it off and said my goodbyes. She later messaged me that night as if nothing happened. Decided to tell her "Hey i had a fun time tonight but im not really looking to get to know you just as a person but as a woman, let me know when youre interested. she got emotional and asked if that meant i would ignore her if she decided no. last message she said was "ill think about it"
Friendzoned aftersex
tldr: fucked a girl, caught oneitis, fell into her frame, she puts me in ljbf, in attempt to regain frame tell her no thanks and am currently in no contact.
this shit stings guys. im young and i took the redpill but learning from this experience i definitely havent fully swallowed or internalized everything. I fucked up and showed some weak behaviors, this is what killed the attraction i can only assume. If she reaches out idk how i should even go about it. maybe just fuck the shit out of her.
im really not sure
this shit is painful.
it was hard for me to even set that boundary and saying "i know what i want and i know what i dont want"
im currently moving forward
how do i protect myself from this shit in the future, and what do i do if she reaches out?
Maybe if you stopped using retarded acronyms you would have more success.
That's a really weird situation, I suggest you part ways because you both aren't on the same page. There's no reason to lead each other on
Didn't you make this exact same thread with that exact same picture before?
yes but i thought i escaped it after defining it was as date.
back in square one now.
Stop talking to her. Why is this not obvious?
What is a ljbf? Is this some new zoomer lingo?
LETS JUST BE FRIENDS
Yeah that seems like zoomer lingo. Im getting to old for this shit