Do guys like shy girls?

Yeah that way when I introduce her she doesn't act like a fucking complete idiot like my last gf

I like this girl and she’s so sweet and loving when she’s around me because she’s comfortable, but trying to have her hang out with and meet my friends was a disaster. She was so shy and nervous that they found it offputting, kept joking about her being a mute and teasing her and generally making it worse until she almost started crying.

Yes, but you don't like us, so stop asking. If you did, you wouldn't be shy around us too.

Only the ones who watch anime. They usually have an unrealistic idea of shy charcteristics.

That’s not true, I’m even more shy around guys that I like or have feelings for.

How shy? A bit shy is ok, autistycally shy to the point it makes it impossible to interact with her without her making it awkward and cringy, into the trash it goes. People who are very shy are usually immature and poor company
t. ex gf why a "shy girl"

Those guys aren't shy, though.

Yep, but only those who are not cold and let you enter their lives. Shy girls may be lovely, but it's hard to understand when they want you or not.

yes but also not really. A ton of girls are dismissive even if they're interested(yes it sounds dumb) or most of the time not very good at talking. and it's difficult to tell when a girl is shy vs when a girl is difficult to talk to. So if the girl was legitimately just shy i'll quickly stop talking to her assuming that i'm being a creep even when she does put out effort to show she's interested.

It depends how they act

>Do shy girls like shy guys?
Same answer.

Yeah, I have heard from guys I used to like or have a crush on that they had literally zero idea I ever felt that way because I was so reserved. Feels bad.

I didn’t ask if shy guys liked shy girls, just guys in general. Though I guess if you put it that way, the answer would be “some do, some don’t”

Femanon, if the most interesting and defining thing about you is that you're shy,you should probably try to broaden your horizons and figure out what you can to offer your prospective bf

There answer is "generally no, unless they're exceptionally attractive."

I think in most relationships there will be a more dominant partner and a more submissive one. Guys who are more doninant will probably like shy submissive girls better. Two shy awkward people in a relationship sounds cute but would probably end up being a disaster.

>tfw OP uses shy as umbrella term for "emotionally frigid" and "unable to express her feelings"
I don't think that is what shy means

well, that’s how most guys describe me. they always comment about how shy i am, when introducing me to new people it’s “this is femanon, i promise she’s not a bitch, she’s just shy.” etc.

also i wouldn’t say i’m emotionally frigid. i’m actually very loving, i just have trouble expressing it openly until i feel comfortable with someone. so i guess the second part is definitely true.

>So if the girl was legitimately just shy i'll quickly stop talking to her assuming that i'm being a creep even when she does put out effort to show she's interested.
Probably she will also be assuming that she is being a creep even while she is trying to put out effort to show you she's interested, what makes everything even more difficult.

Honestly, no.
And its not because being shy is cute or uncute or whatever, its the type thing people find attractive when they don't have to deal with it.

Shy people in general just aren't assertive, so being in a relationship means constant
>well what do you want
>i don't know.... anything you want
>aww... i guess this is fine
>just do whatever

and having used to be shy I know where its coming from too, but its still annoying to deal with which is why i tried to change.

>well what do you want
>i don't know.... anything you want
>aww... i guess this is fine
>just do whatever

this is exactly why i maintain the only kind of guy who really would want and be happy with a girl who was super shy and submissive and a “whatever you want is fine with me” type would be a guy who is very dominant and wants to make and handle all the decisions in the relationship.

This one.

>teehee so shy

Next.

Hell yeah? Shyness is a feminine trait. No guy wants a loud extroverted (I.E. slut) chick.

Yeah sure they’re good for humping, but shy girls are wife material.

it’s definitely not the most interesting or defining thing about me, it’s just the most apparent, at least when first meeting me.

How old are you? You sound painfully immature. I'd advise you to work on your personality to be honest. Nothing wrong with being shy, awkward and emotionally constipated when you are young, but it becomes an issue and a red flag later on.

Well to me if that, but more its the type guy who can't take talking back or arguments and needs a doormat.

You can be dominant and still make concessions and wanting to hear what the other person wants.

>some pedo serial killer abducts shyfemanon's kid
>shyfemanon is too shy to call the cops and waits till hubby comes home five hours later and does it himself
Fyi, shy women make shit mothers, that's obviously exaggeration, but they usually can't properly discipline their kids and raise either disrespectful punks or quiet beta momma-boys

No such thing as a shy girl.

i’m in my early 20s. most people who take the time to get to know me do like me, but it takes awhile until i feel comfortable enough to open up and not everyone has the patience for that, which is totally understandable and why it’s something i’m trying to work on.

Being shy is not the same as not being assertive. It just means they doesn't feel comfortable in public or with unfamiliar people. Shy people aren't necessarily submissive and yeah, they can make decisions.

nah, shy girls won’t necessarily be shy with children. my girlfriend is super reserved and meek with other adults but she also works as a nanny and is great with kids, doesn’t have any issue with disciplining them.

Yes, but as a shy guy myself it's near impossible to break the ice with a shy girl. Although I doubt any type of girl enjoys shyness in a man, so I guess that's a moot point.

quiet and shy aren't the same thing either.

and sure we can play the
>w-well not ALL X do Y
then why would you ask a general question? of course we're generalizing based on what MOST people of X do, in this case shy people. Shy people might have opinions and might make decisions, but they're also more likely to be the annoying indecisive doormats.

We honestly only care if you're fat or not, that's it. And if you are fat you can make up for it by being a good cook or having a great sense of humour.

Actually it's been proven that confident women are more marriage appropriate and less likely to cheat. What you see is what you get.

Shy girls are shady as fuck.

shy = low self esteem/low self worth = more likely to go looking for outside validation = cheating. ofc this is a generalization, but i feel like a shy girl is a lot more likely to fall for an aggressive guy’s attempts to woo her, even if she’s already in a relationship.

>thinks shy girls are the ones who are pure
pathetic desu senpai

who do you think is more used to dealing with people hitting on them and flattering them? the girl who goes out and meets people, or the girl who's never interacted with someone in their life?
What do you think happens when shy girl goes out and some dude who's way hotter and more successful than you starts laying on the charm? Maybe not even to seduce her, just being a nice guy. She doesn't know how to deal with it so she's far more likely to go along with it.

Shy men also have their appeal, they can make the cute and/or mysterious type.

I have looked into this and the data is sparse and conflicting.
The only consistent thread is that introverted women are more likely to be lured into cheating because they're passive, but at the same time extroverted men are more likely to cheat.
However, a good deal of the so-called "data" is from skewed samples on websites set up for the purpose of cheating, like Ashley Madison.

In my experience the mysterious appeal lasts until the exact moment I open my mouth.

I'm just really fucking weird and have no idea how to make my decades of isolation sound like a relatable experience.

i’d say this is right, a shy girl will never actively go out looking for an affair but is probably more likely to be lured into one by a guy that’s pursuing her. then again i think even a shy girl would be able to hold her ground if she truly loved her man.

I know this because I've dated a lot of women. Have you?

>anecdotal """evidence"""
This board is garbage

Wow you really do live life and have opinions purely online based lol that's actually quite telling.

While I on principle hate tripfags, I doubt you've dated enough women to have statistically sound evidence

I've dated roughly 30 women.

I base my "opinions" off of statistics, you are pulling it out of your ass and doubling down on the losing argument that nebulous "experience" means more than data in questions of fact.
Do you honestly want me to pull up the data I got?
A sample size of thirty subjected to your selection bias is not statistically sound.

Only tv "shy" the cute stutters and giggling and fake shit, and anyone who says they like it just likes the tv version
Real shyness is annoying and a plague that kills chances of you making meaningful relationships, become confident through forcing yourself into uncomfortable social situations
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Some probably do or think they do, most of guys I know and myself prefer normal girls. Not too shy not too confident