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FAQ:
>What do girls/guys think about
>Do most/any girls/guys like ?
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no “magic moment” (or activity) that will instantly change you.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. “Signs” of attraction are meaningless.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Coffee is the preferred first date, but any of the following may also work: lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, .

>I'm insecure because of my penis
>Do women prefer penises of certain qualities?
Fuck off

>Why can't just give a straightforward rejection?!
Fuck off

>Why is there no new thread?
Create one yourself. You can use these macros: imgur.com/a/y6BF2

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I've basically lost my chance with her after talking to her basically everyday, how the fuck do I get her out of my head?

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
>movies
Who approved this shit?

>I've basically lost my chance with her after talking to her basically everyday
What makes you say that?

I've had a part-time friendship with someone for years. We'll be the best friends in the world for 6-12 months and then we'll go our separate ways overnight, until we meet again some months or years later. It's a cycle that has been going on for 10 years. I've had the hots for them, for years, I know they did too (maybe still do?) but we never acted on it and just met other people. We're 25ish now and I'm scared the next time I'll see them they'll be married to someone else. How do I break the cycle? It's a stupid game I don't want to play anymore.

This needs to go in the FAQ: The key to moving on is making new friends. Not just hanging out with your old friends, but making new friends, meeting new people, and immersing yourself in a new social circle. It's the best possible medicine for moving on.

I drunkely fucked a girl I met that night without condom and came insider her thrice.
I mean it felt amazing and all but my responsible side tells me to cut that shit out.
Do you think she'd take it personally if I told her "look, I really should be wrapping it?"
And how do I convince myself to do it, should I look at pictures of STDs?

>Do you think she'd take it personally if I told her "look, I really should be wrapping it?"
Why do you think you'll ever see her again? And why even talk about it? Just put on a condom. If she complains tell her "too bad".

We had a lot of momentum (flirting) over text, basically giving "fuck me" signals, met the next day but we only kissed twice, but we actually started dating after that, but then I said something and she said "if only youre only in it for the sex, im not your girl"
After that the flirting got slow, I lost my "drive" or whatever and got all nervous around her all the time, exposed myself as having 0 experience, and then after a few days says we shouldn't date just yet, her previous exes are total opposites to me and it seems that she got turned off on me as shit got boring. I couldn't see her off campus so I couldn't take her on dates, so there wasn't much else I could do. now we talk more slower than ever

Yep sounds like you got dumped.

I've got a third date with a pretty fat girl tonight. We're going to dinner and then back to my place if it goes well. Is there anything I could do to make her more comfortable about her body if we end up sleeping together? She's said she's self conscious about parts of her body and I'd love for her to see herself the way I see her.

>if only youre only in it for the sex, im not your girl
What the fuck does this even mean? Is this literally what she said? Sounds retarded.

Touch her everywhere without focusing on the areas she's uncomfortable with. Touch them as well but don't overdo it.

Without knowing what he said to trigger that, who knows. All we know is that he said "something". I'm guessing it at least signaled that he wanted to fuck her very soon.

The hilarious thing is that from her perspective, when he lost his "drive" and everything (and presumably "exposed" himself as having no experience means that he told her he's a virgin), it looks even more like he only wanted sex and that he was backing off because she resisted. So yeah, no surprise he got dumped.

>Is there anything I could do to make her more comfortable about her body if we end up sleeping together?
No not really. Kiss her, eat her out, play with her tits gently. Be sweet.

Anything I should say to her to help her?

I'll keep that in mind then.
She wanted a serious relationship, and not a hookup. She wanted to be close to me before doing anything.
But yeah, from what she told me, I'm 99% sure she's been super sexual in the past, despite the fact that she doesn't seem like that at all. So I went with it and "took it slow" thinking that's really what she wanted.

Why are men such big babies?

Why are women stupid?

No. Pretty much anything you can say, she'll see right through as you trying to make her feel better, and she'll feel worse. Prove that you're into her through actions, not words.

redpill me about boys who think women are sinister and evil

We just act that way so you'll fuck off already.

>But yeah, from what she told me, I'm 99% sure she's been super sexual in the past, despite the fact that she doesn't seem like that at all. So I went with it and "took it slow" thinking that's really what she wanted.
Well you switched to "taking it slow" at the wrong time and in the wrong way. I more or less promise that from her perspective that you looked butthurt for getting shot down for sex and were backing off because you thought you weren't gonna get no-strings-attached sex out of her.

They got hurt, maybe more than once. Simple as that.

Right. I'll make sure I can't keep my hands off her.

So what would be the better way to approach something like that?

Girls if you’re in college or were in college.
What are good ways to approach you on campus that will make you interested in the person thats you just met?

>Hey, naw babe, I'm serious about you. I'm not a one-night-stand kind of guy or anything like that. [continue dating as before]

Guys, what do I do with your foreskin when I've giving you a blowjob? My new bf is uncut and I've never dealt with one before. Do I stick my tongue under it, pull it all the way back and go as normal?

>foreskin
Oh god good luck girl, that is fucking gross.

His is clean and it feels very different inside me.

College age females

would you date a guy in a wheelchair? Paralyzed waist down doesn't count.

>Guys, what do I do with your foreskin when I've giving you a blowjob?
american problems

you dumb

Why does this keep happening

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greentext what happened last time. it seems she was expecting something and you didnt show it.

We had a first date (tinder) last night
>go to a couple bars
>really good conversation (I thought)
>makeout a bit before we depart
I was a bit argumentative at times during conversation. Maybe that was it

How do I ask my partner for illicit photos? We've been together for about a month now, and are sexually active, but I don't get to see her very often because she lives a long ways away. I'd like to have some photos of her for when I can't be with her, but I'm not sure how to ask. She hasn't sent any yet, so I'm not sure if she'd want to? But she does have some, she let me play with her phone and I found some. We don't really sext or anything like that, so it's not like I can bring it up organically. Cheers

Have you considered actually asking her

Stick your tongue in there, the head of an uncut guy is stupid amounts of sensitive. He'll be putty in your hands at that point.

She wasn't feeling it, don't take it personally. Actually be grateful that she turned you down directly rather than just ghosted you and made you another statistic.

>makeout a bit before we depart
why didnt you seal the deal?

I did the tongue thing last time and he came instantly.

>and he came instantly.
and that's a good thing.

There was way more cum than I was expecting and I couldn't keep it all in my mouth

No, i feel like it puts her in an awkward position and would i really get a fully honest answer?
This is true
I'm trying to take things slower. Fucking on the first date usually just leads to one night stand which I don't really care for

He was just really fucking turned on.

>I'm trying to take things slower. Fucking on the first date usually just leads to one night stand which I don't really care for
Maybe she was looking to one.

I know but he didn't give me any warning he was going to blast my throat.

bump

He needs to work on his stamina then. I'm uncut, but it still takes a good amount of time for me to cum when my gf does that, even if it feels good.

There is video of Charisma on Command about that.

wasnt that hot? if he's a bit premature then give him a time to get used to it or kegel exercises.

He has suffered from premature ejaculation when we've had sex a few times. Anything he can do to improve that?

How do I meet girls?

kegel exercises like i've said.

Masturbate. And he needs to edge when he masturbates. Not once, but several times, if he cums before the 30 minute mark, he's doing something wrong. He needs to condition himself that cumming should take a while.

Before during or after sex? Or daily?

Yeah, 30 minutes is usually how long he lasts on round 2. Round 1 is about 2-10 minutes.

It's a daily thing.

Girls

If a normal looking guy keeps taking looks at you and smiling at you, what would you think of it? Would it be creepy, or would you think that he might like you in some shy way? Not ogling, but quick glances that would repeat bundled with a slight smile.

I'll get him to do those. How long for?

I (girl) want to invite my long-distance crush over to my side of the continent. He doesn't know I like him romantically. How do I do it? Should I just say: "If you're free you should come to [my city]." Or, should I just put the idea in his mind, like "you should really think about coming over here"?

Need someone who knows what will scare a man away.

>How long for?
Once he's not cumming in two mins.

bump again?

maybe try a numbing cream?

the thing is the thing that I told her that got that response in the first place was basically "I would've kissed you more if we had some place quiet" so I don't know how I could've used that in that case.

Be direct but not pushy.

It's probably obvious but would not masturbating so much help him?

How effective are those?

So there's this female teacher which I decided to work with on a Master's thesis.

I took her because she was a top tier teacher, but throughout the year, she was acting annoyed whenever I asked her a few questions, or would be quite unhelpful and treating me like I was some sort of idiot.

Then came presentation day, I was worried as fuck about getting rekt, and she basically started off with saying how resarched and great my work was, which was kinda surprising.
I then wrote a mail to thank her for the time taken to read the paper and whatever.

I received an answer like 1 hour later saying how she was "delighted" about our whatever we exchanged, that she took much pleasure reading my thesis and that I shouldn't hesistate to keep in touch about work.

Is this an insincere person just being nice?
How should I proceed?

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girls how often do you initiate texts?

I asked for her number and texted her twice. First time she said she didnt get it, which is fair because I get poor reception. I brought it up next time I saw her and texted her on spot and she told me she got the text from me. Im thinking thats cool and expect a text back but again nothing. We still talk in person and we get along great but the fact I tried multiple times to contact her and she doesnt try at all makes me think shes not interested.

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>I shouldn't hesistate to keep in touch about work.
>about work
>work

She probably noticed that you are a complete sperg and wanted to improve your confidence, but seems like it backfired.

>girls how often do you initiate
Can we put this in the faq? The answer is never and if you don't know that by now you should rethink your life.

Is she single? If yes, she might have some admiration for you, which is a goid started if you want simething more.

Masturbating MORE would probably help him.

As the other guy said, masturbating isn't the problem.
Honestly try getting him to jerk off before you have sex, so he's not on the verge of cumming before he even puts it in.

It's exactly the right response because it's exactly the problem she was worried about: "I would've kissed you more" means "we coulda fucked" to her. And really, that's what you meant on some level. So her response was "I'm not that kind of girl."

How the hell do I buy lingerie for my gf? She's a 32AA cup and I can't find anything in that size anywhere.

Check out following brands: freya, panache, parfait affinitas, miss mandalay, mimi holliday, curvy kate, what kate did

Japanese brands.

Also I'm jealous as fuck. Post her tits.

Question for girls.

They always say that a girl touching you, like a simple touch on the hand or shoulder, is a sign they are attracted to you. Is that usually true, or do you touch all your friends that way normally? Or does context matter? If it does, it was just a normal 1-on-1 conversation with a lady I've talked to like 5 times before this or so. She always keeps strong eye contact in conversation, and today while talking about something, she just randomly touched my hand for a few seconds. Could it be used just to emphasize a point?

I'm not trying to ask if the girl is interested. Just that action in general, does it usually mean she is possibly attracted to the person, or not really?

Ladies, what does it mean when you keep swinging your hair around and flipping it around in your hand?

I went to see this cute chiropractic that a friend set me up with. She mentioned the girl I was going to see was "super cute" which lead me to think she was trying to set me up, but it was actually semi-formal when I got there although we did have a pretty good conversation. Couldn't help but notice that when she asked me to remove my shirt to scan my back she started whipping her hair around a lot (I mean she did it before but started doing it like every few seconds). Not sure if its a nervous thing you do like biting your nails or trying to impress the guy. Am I reading too much into it?

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None of those have bras small enough for her.

Any particular brand? I don't have any pics of her tits, she won't let me take any or send any to me since she's so self conscious about how small they are.

Is it bad to continue a relationship when you have no intention of marrying down the line?

h-how old is she, user?

She's 26

Well that makes it pointless unless both of you are on the same page.

Dude just get some sportstape. Tell her you have an athlete fetish.

But seriously, that or some waistbands pulled up to her chest sounds pretty hot.

I think she'd prefer something like a lacy padded bra over your ideas.

Are you a pedo or just unlucky enough to be stuck with a flat chick? Just buy her a trainer bra like pic related.

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Definitely something going on there but he maybe doesnt have the guts to go forward with it. Give him something(if you want) but dont do the whole work for him.

Just unlucky. She's 5'11 to boot. She already wears bras like that and I'd like to get her something more traditionally sexy.

>flat like a tween boy
>5'11
You sure you're dating a female (female)?

I'm sure.

Get he to do squats and then pretend her buttcheecks are boobs.
It works I promise, a kid in my 3rd grade gym class told me so.

>know each other for 5 years but it was always a hi-hi kinda thing, though we had some longer conversation
>wasn't really ever interested in her
>didn't text at all in the past
>2 months ago she texts me first
>we started talking on a more regular basis
>kinda start to like her
>ask her to hang out, get excuse
>very recently ignores my text one day and doesn't answer it in 3 days
>when she does reply I conclude she's just not interested and I let the conversation die real quick and don't text her again
>she texts me again 2 days later again

What the fuck? Anyone know what this weird behavior means?

Let's be real, you don't. Lingerie on no-tits girls looks pitiful. It's the only downside they have.

>Any particular brand?
Ask a Japanese girl.

Why would I want her ass to look like tits?


I'd even be okay with getting her a nice looking padded bra but those are hard to find as well.

Look up some trap lingerie porn and buy whatever they wear.

What does it mean if a girl doesn't like being fingered? I don't have long nails