My ex-girlfriend was raped abroad

I can't believe she just went... by herself? What the fuck.

Yep. By herself. Nobody with her. She always talked about traveling and backpacking and doing immersion programs by herself. If its a tourist group thing or a program sure.

Imo if you're a woman and you just Google "places to see in x country" and plan a backpacking trip in foreign rural areas based on that then you've got to be a special type of retard.

I've even told her I'd travel to some places with her, we had some things scheduled for next year but she wanted to do this trip by herself since I couldn't take the time off of work

You did the right thing, OP. It's one thing to stay with your spouse after they get cancer, after they lose their good looks, or if they get attacked on the street. But if she didn't care about your your opinion, or the family's opinion - who would have to be identifying burnt corpses - odds are that she wouldn't give a shit about your opinion on lesser things. Lesser things such as being faithful to you, not sharing bedroom secrets, or even buying the car/furniture that you didn't want her to. Seriously, fuck having to stay with a rape victim who doesn't respect you. You will catch a lot of flak on the topic from backseat drivers, though.

There was a hotly debated similar case in the US some time ago. The guy told his girl that if she goes to this bar in a dangerous part of town, that he'll break up with her on the spot. She goes anyway, hoping to keep it a secret, but gets raped, and comes back to him begging for sympathy, gets dumped.
The media shitstorm resulted in both sides of the argument being done to death. You can research that if you can find it.

>get raped in America and its your fault
>leave america and get raped and its your fault
>get raped by a republican and you are a liar
>get raped by a democrat and you deserved it
>get raped at a party and you shouldnt have gotten drunk
>dont drink at all at a party and get raped and people will deny that you didnt drink because you were at a party

Are people morally obliged to stay with rape victims?

It "wasn't her fault" cool that doesn't change the fact that she was raped and I still don't want to deal with it.

This thread has to be a troll.

>hurr, I shouldn't take any responsibility for my own actions or decisions
You know who else think and act like this? Children.

>If I don't like it, it must be a troll!
You're just as retarded as the morons on twitter crying "russia bot!" at every argument they dislike

You arent morally obligated to stay with anyone.
You arent morally obligated to stay with someone with cancer.
You would be a shallow dick who puts his own happiness over the happiness of someone he claims to love but that isnt a crime.
>getting raped is your own action
Tell me a rape situation that you wouldnt blame on the victim.

Why? I read about tourists and backpackers getting raped in other countries, sadly its not uncommon.

You really think they don't have connections back home? Families and friends and loved ones who have to deal with this shit? The girls father has no idea what to fucking do and is furious and incredibly sad at the same time.

Its fucked up to say but she's lucky she's alive. Would you call this thread a troll if I said she was raped AND killed? Fuck you

>Tell me a rape situation that you wouldnt blame on the victim.

There's a huge difference between a man breaking and entering someone's home in a nice suburb and raping the women there than there is a 20 something east coast wonderlust girl who willingly goes backpacking in the middle east by herself when everyone told her not to

Fuck off with your feminist shit

Trolling or no. I am laffin

>all women should stay at home if they dont want to get raped
Tell me a situation that doesnt agree with the above. Where a woman not at home gets raped and its not her fault.

r/thathappened

This. Knock it off with the innocent angel bullshit. There IS such a thing as asking for it, and its making retarded decisions that land you in proximity of having a very, veeery bad time. That doesn't mean that the rape is condoned, it just means you helped make it that much easier to happen in the first place.

Women are less likely to get raped if they stay in the kitchen in Connecticut than alone at Mumbai at night

If I drive through Detroit in a golden Mercedes with the windows down at 2MPH AT 2AM

AM I ASKING FOR IT? HUH? CISLORD FUCK YOU

You can have your setting in connecticut so tell me a rape that takes place in connecticut outside of her house that isnt the womans fault.

>takes place in connecticut outside of her house
>outside of her house
>outside of the kitchen

If you're a woman and you're not wearing a hijab while being escorted by your sons and husband outside of the house then everything that happens to you is your fault.

You mean something like Haiti or Somalia? Or India?

Yep

Surely must be India

the victim is, except for very rare cases not at fault, but in some cases it could easily have been prevented, doesn't mean they're at fault, that's on the rapist, but it sometimes definetely means they're stupid

I know this is a bait thread but there is some truth to it that people probably would react poorly too. Yours is too obvious to get the proper (you)s but honestly, people who are fucked up by rape depression do not make suitable partners. It's not that I don't want them to find happiness - I do - it's that people shouldn't take for granted that a relationship with that kind of person would be astronomically harder and it definitely drops your value in terms of a relationship. Constantly having to cheer someone like that up, having them recoil at the thought of intimacy, never knowing what might trigger their PTSD.

It's like choosing to marry a double amputee or someone with a serious bone disorder, or even someone who is entirely deaf. You would need to make serious, dramatic sacrifices in your life to make that relationship work. But in practice it's even worse: because if you love a girl and she loses her legs or something, she's still the same girl you loved. A rape victim's personality might be totally, irreversibly changed, or take twenty years of counseling and still flare up later. Read: not the person you fell in love with

Now that my fellow anons,
was a perfectly executed chad-tier move.

Used up women belong in the trash.

> like choosing to marry a double amputee or someone with a serious bone disorder, or even someone who is entirely deaf. You would need to make serious, dramatic sacrifices in your life to make that relationship work. But in practice it's even worse: because if you love a girl and she loses her legs or something, she's still the same girl you loved. A rape victim's personality might be totally, irreversibly changed, or take twenty years of counseling and still flare up later. Read: not the person you fell in love with

Well that and also the thought of having sex with a woman who was actually raped by another man is fucking revolting. Especially when you were romantically involved prior? Fuck that shit.

>the thought of having sex with a woman who was actually raped by another man is fucking revolting. Especially when you were romantically involved prior? Fuck that shit.
And now imagine that she did everything possible to ensure she was as vulnerable as she could be for a rape. :^) Simply epic

It's never the victims fault remember?

>OP doesn't mention what said country is
>OP wouldn't know shit about the country if he named it
>OP couldn't even point country on a map
>OP doesn't know that third world shithole is safer than his home
>OP is making everything up

True, it is never her fault that she was raped. It is absolutely her fault that she did everything she could to tempt her would-be rapist, and made it as easy as possible for him to do it.

>anyone can Google "tourist raped in x country" knowing the time frame in the post
>now OP unknowingly broadcast the rape of his ex to the entire internet
>what is privacy

Its incredibly hurtful but understandable why people think this is a bait thread. I wish I made it all up, I really do.

But if it's a third world shithole like you said, it happens every day, so it wouldn't even make the news.

>people are constantly getting raped in these places so its her fault
>cant mention the place because it happens so rarely that stating a country with no mention of even the month will bring up this specific case
If you googled week old news for "tourist raped in America" you get results.
So if this place is more dangerous than America then your logic is retarded.

Some declicois bate this moerbing i tell you what.

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Pic oddly related.

>post your asl little kids

It would, since OP comes from a first wold nation such as the UK or USA. However, I haven't found any recent stories on the net, yet. Might show up in a week or so.

OP's story doesn't add up. That's why people are asking questions.

>post something that is easily faked
29/m/va

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>American naive wanderlust goes backpacking solo in a rapey country despite protests from friends and family not to go
>gets raped
>boyfriend wants nothing to do with a rape victim
>parents are horrified

What doesn't add up?

>rapey country
This sounds like Jow Forums memeing. Yes, there are a few countries where rape is a bigger danger than in USA, but it's far more likely you would just be straight out murdered in those. I seriously doubt OP's gf went to a country that is "do not go there you will die" tier. Rapes can happen anywhere, but if it was a country that she could easily enough travel to, then the odds of getting raped there would be very low. More like a case of "told you so" in the very unlikely event it happens. Even though it's very likely OP's home is much more dangerous.

>suburbs in the US are more dangerous for a pretty white girl than anywhere in india/middle east

Holy shit no one is this dense

She wasn't anywhere near a major city either but a rural area. Stop it.

Hope you realize you’re a deeply ugly person on the inside. I feel sorry for any person that has the misfortune of having someone as disgusting as you in their life. Do the world a favor and kill yourself.

>not wanting to deal with a woman who was forcefucked by another man
>YOU'RE AN UGLY Person WAH

lol

Most of the middle east is safe. The parts that aren't, are the parts you couldn't go to anyway because they are active warzones.

good move big man, dont listen to all the cucks itt

Lol

Since you are clearly an expert on this subject, let's hear your rebuttal.

>You would be a shallow dick who puts his own happiness over the happiness of someone he claims to love but that isnt a crime.

>man places his interest above a woman's
>shallow dick
>woman places her interest above a man's
>YOU GO GIRL FUCK THESE VICTIM BLAMING IDIOTS

W H E W
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Source me your claim that the middle east is safe first for a white foreign woman to walk around unaccompanied you fucking npc

Nice opinion that I dont have.
It must be nice to walk around with that straw man to beat up.

We see right through you kike

Name a place or two in the middle east that is not safe, but that is not a warzone and you can easily travel to. Might be hard for you since you don't even know what middle east means nor can you point it out on a map.

If she got raped in a different setting I’d call you a piece of shit. Like if she just got raped in her town unpredictably, that’s different.

But she went to a shithole third world country where not only is that shit expected, but she was repeatedly warned by everyone around her. You can’t feel sympathy for that

>But she went to a shithole third world country where not only is that shit expected
Except this part is probably not true and OP is just making it up.

>But she went to a shithole third world country where not only is that shit expected, but she was repeatedly warned by everyone around her. You can’t feel sympathy for that

Tell that to this cuck

OP is implying it's Pakistan. There are good spots and bad spots in that country. But to reach the dangerous parts you'd have to go out of your way to get to them and it's not so easy. And in those parts getting raped is the least of your worries, you have to worry about not being blown to bits by bombs or shot full of holes. If OP's gf is someone who has never traveled before, then it's not really feasible she would be able to figure out how to go so far into the lawless dangerous zones.

People would be more sympathetic if OP weren't such a piece of shit. This entire story reads like a bad Jow Forums incel wank fantasy.

>This entire story reads like a bad Jow Forums incel wank fantasy
but user

I'm still trying to find any reports of an American tourist (at this point I'm just doing tourist) raped in Pakistan/India and still haven't found anything in October. There was a British teen raped in Thailand who was backpacking, but that was in early September.

>There was a British teen raped in Thailand who was backpacking, but that was in early September.

Raped in Thailand by some 5'3 Asian dude? hahahhahhahahaaha

Can't fight against a manlet when you're drugged.

Maybe manlets can finally learn

You made the right move.
In my youth I was stupid enough to stay with a chick who claimed she was raped. Total waste of time. You can't salvage a rapee any more than you can polish a turd.
And, keep in mind, women fantasize about being raped.

Or another backpacker.

>women fantasize about being raped.

Yup

100% this!!!!!!!

This

Did good OP.

Retarded whore should have listened, zero sympathy.
Plus she's damaged beyond fixing now, no point throwing your life away at a lost cause.

its crazy how women do things like this. 99% of girls have been raped or attempted rape. this is a fact

>it just keeps happening
>"solo backpackers" get raped
>all the time, consistently

I just don't know what you need to tell people. Surely our society isn't so ass backward that we need everyone to get raped or jumped in order to understand perspective.

Based and rapepilled

You did good, OP. She is going to be an emotional wreck for a long time and need lots of counseling. Not worth the effort and pain to be with someone like that. But mostly it's the fact that she put herself in a dangerous situation against her loved ones' advice and is now suffering the consequences.

Just saying man, there's a huge string of it happening, there's history of it happening, there's experience of them happening.

Maybe, just maybe these people should work off a buddy system rather than a booty system.

>ITT OP discovers why honor killings exist

No better way to test a person's common sense than this. Also good on you for dumping her, she'll make a drama story of the rest of her life anyway.

>ex
stopped reading there. but in all seriousness no woman should ever go alone to any third world country. That's something only a man can accomplish mainly due to the virtue of our physical strength

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YEAH HAHA FUCK THAT LIBTARD ROASTIE RAPE VICTIMS ARE GROSS AS HELL IT'S LIKE KISSING ANOTHER GUY AT THAT POINT THAT'S WHAT THAT DUMB BITCH GETS FOR LEAVING THE HOUSE BY HERSELF XD KEK

cool advice thread

Found the woman
Kava-nope, totally

I don't think your cancer analogy is equivalent here.

>But in practice it's even worse: because if you love a girl and she loses her legs or something, she's still the same girl you loved. A rape victim's personality might be totally, irreversibly changed, or take twenty years of counseling and still flare up later. Read: not the person you fell in love with.
I'm not saying I agree or disagree with the big picture you're painting, but I'm willing to bet that someone could undergo some serious personality changes if they lost limbs. Imagine waking up one day and you suddenly can never walk again (barring prosthetic limbs).

>OP doesn't know that third world shithole is safer than his home
What kind of naive rhetoric is this? Do you really want to play the "Is Libya/Somalia/Sudan/Iraq safer than a Western country?" game?

>If it was a country that she could easily enough travel to, then the odds of getting raped there would be very low.
Retarded. I can buy a ticket to Mexico right now. There are plenty of places in Mexico where I would never want to go if I valued my life. The region matters too.

>Libya/Somalia/Sudan/Iraq

Ah yes those famous travel destinations, kids just love spending their winter break on the beaches of Mogadishu

holy keke, fucking triggered

theguardian.com/world/2018/jul/30/video-of-tourists-killed-in-tajikistan-shows-deliberate-attack

Part of me hopes that there's a major conflict in the next 10 years. People like you really deserve it. I don't think you understand how bad things can get, and how fragile our little system is.

>You are terrible, ugly person!
>Kill yourself
Pot calling kettle

Cognitive dissonance

OP's gf for sure went to Libya/Somalia/Sudan/Iraq. After all they're really popular backpacker destinations. And it's easy to get flights there and visas.

How does this relate to the subject? You're posting about a small post-soviet shithole in the middle of nowhere, where apparently a terrorist attack occurred. Rare in those parts.

I just hope that in 10 years you will have left the basement and found a job. Jow Forumstards like you have no understanding of the world outside your house. You simply do not understand how the world works. You have a very fragile mind and your life is very fragile, depending on your parents and neetbux. But you are also a special kind of retard to think that anything would escalate to a "major conflict". If anything, it's going to be between China and the west.