A girl I was interesred in got a boy friend, any tips on how to move on and get over her?

I think you are right. But why did she flirt with me? I know that she went into a relationship with this guy maybe 2 months after meeting me (she initiated). Should I ghost her?

Bitches love attention. ...Yea, you should ghost her, not ghosting her will make you go nuts.

Same happened to me, idk wht she keeps talking to me. I want to ghost her too but we work at the same job, might switch jobs tho lmao

The fucked up thing is she is the one that initiates conversations (texting or calling). She talks about her day and asks questions about me. I want to ghost her but don't want to be rude because I really like her. I mean I know I should assume that if she likes me she would dump her boyfriend.

You're worried about being rude to this girl you like so much meanwhile she's sucking and fucking another guy and you're the furthest thing from her mind?

It's not her fault, I put her in a friendzone from the start, she even tried then to flirt with me but realized I didn't want anything with her. So we remained friends. And now that I dealt with thi shit I had I realized that I really like this girl.

Exact saaaame. I ended up becoming obsessed with her and she became the center of my world. Except I started acting more like a retard around her and now she's backing off a bit. Its bittersweet but I feel like I'm beginning to live life for myself again rather than to meet her standards. Some girls are weird man, fuck em

So you ghosted her? I'm thinking about telling her how I feel and to stop contacting me because it's exausting. I think if I don't do this I would always think what could have happened. But If she leaves het boyfriend for me whats stoping her leaving me for anothert dude. This shit is complex

Yeah dawg I feel you, we ended up in similar situations. I can't ghost her because we're coworkers, but I ended up telling her that talking to her could be kind of overwhelming for me sometimes, not sure if it was a good idea or not but it felt good to say at the time. I think it definitely made things weirder between us and I don't know if she wants to hang anymore because saying that made me look like a pucciboi, but it did end up giving me space. In another thread some anons mentioned that confessing this is awful because it closes the door on you forever, and its better to just play around and have fun. I definitely agree to some extent, but for me it was honestly starting to kill me inside, affect my work, make everything else less fun. I couldn't do it anymore so I self destructed myself. Its messy and unclean but I feel free. This was like 3 days ago so we'll see how it ends up, we're still civil to each other in the office but idk man. I definitely handled things like a retard at times but hopefully reading about my experiences can help you. If you have the mental fortitude then just keep it free and loose, remember she isn't special, and get out there and talk to other people so you're not so hung up on one chick

It will happen over time. It may take a year or more but you'll get over it. I was the same way, at first I held on to naïve hopes that she'd break up and become available again, but over time I regained a realistic perspective. She's actually single now, but it's been so long that I'm over it now. Feels good.

I fucking love this site just because of people like you. Thank you very much user! I think I will remain civil with and start to talk with other girls