Gf and I are in the same school .
Dating her for 2.5 years , we're about to graduate thus a farewell party is organised by juniors .
It's the old school getting drunk , making out in the closet kinda party in a club. Gf wants to hang out with chads in the party , says I'm being restricting when I ask her not to .
She trusts me but I'm really insecure of her going and hanging out with chads . Don't want them to get drunk and have sex .
What should I do?
Get drunk and hang out with stacys. Stop worrying.
>What should I do?
Fuck off, underage.
Social anxiety kicks in
Over 18 , btfo jailbait nigger
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Please advice me
if you're worried about her fucking around, she will not be your wife, so if she decides to get with other guys (esp after 2.5 y), either leave her there, or fuck a stacy while she watches. Bonus points if you look her in the eye and smile while you bust.
all in your head ahki.
But that being said, social anxiety is something that you're just going to have to overcome. The only way to do it, well one of the only ways, is putting yourself out there.
for starters, you gotta stop using the term "chads" it's literally a psyop to further build low self esteem, because it's based on social constructs and not on reality. Dude I go to rap shows and hang out with a lot of rappers at all different levels of the industry, these dudes KNOW how confidence works. And half the dudes getting pussy are not "chads" by any means.
Confidence is not hard to gain, but you gotta just stop caring man. And don't get me wrong I wouldn't my wife out at some of these parties these guys throw, but at the end of the day if you don't got a little bit of trust then idk man.
Why can't you be your GF +1? and go with her?
I'm probably retarded to not getting it, but aren't you going to go at the same party? So what's the problem, you'll be there as well
I've got into fights with her guy friends , and I've pretty much beaten 2-3 of them up in street fights . If I am with her , they might just be jocks who I beat up in the party and ruin the party
idk man if she still wants to hang out with chads and party, and doesn't care that it makes you feel uncomfortable it tells me she isn't super serious about her relationship with you.
>school
Your real life hasn't even started yet. Stop worrying about shit.
She is rotten. Try a new gf. 2.5 years is what it takes for a relationship to rot.
so you're either trying to "unga bunga" her guy friends, or you're going to have a good time at a party.
If "unga bunga" is your first solution, you may as well kick her to the curb.
If you want to have a good time, tone down the autism and just let shit be.
If you're still butthurt after all of this: find a new bitch.
>Why can't you be your GF +1? and go with her?
This exactly. If you are a couple you do these things together. You don't hang on each other or monitor each other, you mingle separately and have your own friends but you find each other every half hour or so, check in, chat with who they are talking to, have a kiss so everyone knows who is who, and go back to not being wet blankets on each other.
OP should say no to this girl, not because he needs to be afraid of chads but because she is shit testing him. It's important that he not reveal fear or insecurity in voicing the objection, and he also should not suggest that she will be tempted. The reason should (and might well be) that it looks bad. It gives others the impression that she is on the hunt and that he undervalues his woman and takes her for granted.
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Only one reason she wants to go it alone OP. She wants to address all the pent up frustration caused by turning down many of the guys that will attend the party. Unfortunately for you, you are damned if you say anything and damned if you don't because she has already made the decision to blow it all out at this party. Bottom line she doesn't give a shit what you think or how it will make you feel. You have to decide are you going to be grateful if nothing happens this time but constantly in fear when she makes this a habit or are you going to be grateful she stays with you after she samples other dick but you are then a shell of a man or are you going to accept this for what it really is and refuse to be in a relationship with her.
So this is what I would do. Shut up and when she goes you harden your heart and start looking to exit. You don't want this kind of relationship.
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