Why is it so hard to get a gf? Compared to getting a degree and a well paid job, it seems impossible

Why is it so hard to get a gf? Compared to getting a degree and a well paid job, it seems impossible.

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Hijacking this thread.
All I want is a woman that:
>Genuinely loves all kinds of animals.
>Isn’t a Republican or Democrat.
Why the fuck is this so impossible?

bro I have a girlfriend and I have $160 in my pocket and $6 in the bank account. I work at a steel mill. I own a car and live on my own, but I smoke weed often and drink a fair amount.

I think some guys just never developed the sexual instincts to really approach women and maintain attraction over long periods of time. When I was young I was way more obsessed with sex than a career or working or any of that shit. And to some extent, I still am.

Gf is easy
Job is hard
Imo

>Gf is easy
How is it easy?

You just have to approach women and flirt with them until one of them is interested in you. If you can build and maintain that attraction and have a sexual relationship, you have a girlfriend. Just think about it, all of your ancestors were able to pull this shit off. Why do you think you can't? Young teenage boys get girlfriends just through their budding sexual instincts.

I don't have a clue where to approach women, how to do it and I can't even imagine how flirting works. This shit is hard as fuck.

you just gotta talk to every single girl you see.

I've met a lot of girls online who I ended up smashing for months just starting up with "Hey there hot stuff" or "You're looking gorgeous" and complimenting their hair or outfit or something. If they respond at all, she's already considered the possibility of having sex with you.

Same thing can work in real life, but focus on things like holding eye contact, smiling, non-verbal cues, initiating physical touch when the time is right. Also you should be more conversational and cool rather than straight up swinging for a home run like you do on these online apps. Online it's more like, you might as well be do or die with your approach and just be super straight up like "Hey, you're hot. Cool you think I'm handsome? Nice let's meet up." since women either just want to fuck you or don't. Real life you should behave more like you would normally in real life, but just be more flirty, try to seem cool and funny.

It's something you learn, it takes practice. Try to talk to them more. And learn

My instinct tell me I am a fool and embarrassment and I shouldn't make women have to deal with me
Why? Why should I myself through that? How could it possibly be worth my time?

>Why? Why should I myself through that?
In order to get a degree you need to read all the books and count all the equations. Why should you force yourself through that?

Because at the end of the day, I like reading about history and solving math problems enough to go through with it

im sure its going to get easier the more you complain here.

Maybe you are just gay user, nothing wrong with that.

It's not like it gets better if I don't complain here.

No, I'm definitely attracted to women. I can't figure out what I want to say. I guess I just don't have it in me, but I can't make the innate desire go away

>My instinct tell me I am a fool and embarrassment and I shouldn't make women have to deal with me
>No, I'm definitely attracted to women. I can't figure out what I want to say. I guess I just don't have it in me, but I can't make the innate desire go away
Try having some self-confidence because you clearly lack that, you aren't going to get anywhere with an attitude like this.

Dancing lessons and pic related.

Or just go to night club and drink alcohol.

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Cause ur standards are too high. Don't deny it, look at the pic u attached

Cause you have to dumb yourself down to get low quality women.

bro im a fucking neet and i got a girlfriend

I've read the book already, it was little to no help to me.
Pic is only for attention, my only requirement are:
>be alive
>don't be disabled
>don't be obese
>enjoy spending time with me
If this is too much, then I guess girlfriends are not for me.

>recommends 3 things
>op ignores two and shits on 3rd
Like a clockwork. Have you considered to permanently moving into one of containments boards?

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lol OP, wanna trade places?

I'm unemployed and living in my mums basement but my 8/10 gf comes over regularly to suck and fuck.

What do you have to offer besides a defeatist attitude and self pity? You should work on yourself before you pursue anyone and love yourself first.

>What do you have to offer besides a defeatist attitude and self pity
Not really. In what aspects should I improve myself?

...

I don't get how self-confidence works.

Then google it.
Are you that 22 years old virgin faggot? You sound like him.

Let me put this for you simply, having an attitude like yours is not sexy to women. They will get turned off if you are unsure of yourself and your worth. They want a man not a whiny bitch. Take pride in what you do and believe in yourself instead of saying, "what woman would want to deal with me?" Say these women would be lucky to have an awesome guy like me in their lives, now snap the fuck out of it, you DO have what it takes.

No, I'm a 27 years old virgin.
Thanks user, I'll try to persuade myself that I'm not entirely worthless.

You remind me of my best friend. He's funny as hell and has a good head on his shoulders but can't seem to see his own worth. I'm sure you have more to offer than what you're giving yourself credit for, do yourself a favor and cut whatever shitheads are filling your head with all these negative thoughts out of your life.