Why would a girl I went on a successful date with (out for ages, said she wanted to meet up again and we kissed at the end) leave my message unread for over a day since we went on the date?
Is she ignoring me or what?
Why would a girl I went on a successful date with (out for ages, said she wanted to meet up again and we kissed at the end) leave my message unread for over a day since we went on the date?
Is she ignoring me or what?
you're looking too deep into this; it means nothing.
what do you mean?
She's not as excited about you as you are for her
proof: you're obsessing about her not reading your message and she hasn't bothered to read it
Also, chances are you're not the only guy she's messaging. She may be occupied with a guy she likes more.
I suppose yeah, I’m really not confident at all so whenever I get dates I am surprised and want it to do well. Thanks.
there's no correlation between your message being unread and your history with her. ergo, just because she hasn't read it yet doesn't mean that she's ignoring you. simply put, you're connecting the dots when you don't even know the full story.
I get you, I’m soooo para when it comes to this stuff that if it doesn’t go exactly how I expect it to I think it’s going terribly. I’ll just wait and see and either way I enjoyed the date so
Welcome to my hell. Months in and I'm the same way. Life is good though. Some people are just weird with online shit.
The actual solution is: It doesn‘t matter and you should have learned to not put all of your eggs in one basket. Always talk to several girls at once to be less invested and needy with all of them. And if you are the type of guy who thinks he got lucky when 1 girl gave him the time of the day, then it‘s time to put your time in more important things than girls and instead work on yourself. You need the self esteem, happiness and confidence first. If you get into a relationship only out of luck, it‘s going to be one hell of a shitty relationship. I urge you right now to do something productive. Sports, reading, improving a skill. If you are still wasting thoughts on her it means you are still not invested in yourself enough.
Maybe she wants no feelings, just sex. And she is getting the vibe you have feelings for her and want more. Or viceversa. Thatll scare them away. You need to figure out what they want, and they never tell you. Theyll flat out lie