I posted late night about the used towels in the house my

I did!! He said I’m crazy and a bitch and don’t trust him and we should break up if I think that. Wtf else am I suppose to think

Idk. A whole like booty outfit?? From the town he is from?? People from my town don’t usuallt go to this area and like I said I can only assume the people who rent are from far away on vacation, it’s a vacation town

Those yellow marks are from cleaning the ears. It's wax

You're being paranoid. Are you mentally unstable? No offense OP but Seek help

Ok guys but what about the fucking booty outfit? That was stuffed/hidden in the closet (I had to use a chair to see up that high. I was looking through everything to find stuff)

I’m pretty sure the footprints are fresh but obviously they’ve been there for a couple days so they are dried to the floor of the bathtub

Dude there was an outfit stuffed in the closet (I had to use a chAir to see it) and a pair of leggings, underwear and tank. From my town. It would be super odd for someone frkm my town to stay in this place for reasons I listed. An exact ONE outfit not like one tank tank, or a handful of clothes. Like one outfit someone changed from..

How do you know the outfit is from your town? (sorry I didn't follow the story from the beginning)

As for why it would be there. Well the renter before you bought it in your town and left tit there /forgot about it because it's accessible only with a chair, too much hassle to retrieve it

Lads, we are witnessing the creation of a single mother. Fascinating.

>He said I’m crazy and a bitch and don’t trust him and we should break up if I think that.
Do you have any hints from your past that he's the kind of person to cheat? Any chats or flirts you'd know of? If no, then he is right that you're being paranoid right now. If yes then retrieve as much proof as possible and confront him.

Kek..

My fucking chocolate milk is over my phone now....

BecUse it said “(name of my town) baseball” it has the name of
My town on the tank.

I mean not particularly, I’ve seen him talking to girls in text and he hung out w his ex twin sister before when I asked him not to hang w her alone, kinda a long story, but most of this was from when we first started dating . I haven’t found anything from recently but
I also don’t stalk him/
Check of everything of His. I mean we don’t live together, I don’t even loook through his phone

I think I know the password to his Snapchat. Should I sign in and lookin for anything weird. He will know if I sign into it bc it
Will sign him off in his phone

Do it OP and post result here

Also post a selfie for good measure. We need to know how you look to understand if he would dare to cheat on you

Laughing at me bc
I’m being cheated on and
Pregnant ok .

Chilllll out.
If you are not 100% sure you might be fucking up your relationship right now.
You not trusting him is a big fucking deal so you better be certain.

If he knows you don't trust him while you should he surely has a good reason to dump you.

Also the town you're from is mostly rentals so it could be the people who lived there also came there.
And then again 45 minutes is not a long drive.
If it was 2 or 3 hours it would immediately ring alarm bells.

So hold on don't confront him anymore don't go stalking him don't check his phone.
If he's sleeping with someone the truth will come out.
Just don't forget this incident but surely do not hang it over his head now

Doooo it.
Post results...

We'll judge it

Calm down. You're being over emotional. It's the hormones from pregnancy. It's normal to overreact.
Think rationally. Do you really think he would cheat on you?

I mean if he is I need to know so I can figure out what to do since you know I’m pregnant with his kid and we weee planning on living together here

I guess but it’s weird that it’s one outfit.. and the towels. Just makes me think
They had sex, and then she changed, and just threw her clothes up their (thays something j would do. I actually had a pair of my leggings in their yesterday when i was changing )

Yes op give me a selfie, still in the market myself.
If your kid isn't going to be black I can handle it

I didn’t think he would. That’s why I’m so freaking out. But what am I gona think when there’s evidence like that. Like a legit whole outfit and two dirty towels. It’s just so odd.

Those towels looked like they were used to wipe someone’s butt (after sex idk? There two small brown spots on each side. )

Check his Snapchat then..
At least that way you're sure

If there's evidence post it here before you tell him

I don’t really want to because he’s gonna know I signed into it. Plus he may have changed his password since

That looks like earwax to me

You can try to and say it was an accident.
If he changed it you would know he changed it and something fishy is going on.
In the second scenario he wouldn't even notice

Do it and post result here
Don't chicken out now, girl

This!!

Well it’s different in the pic. It’s a larger spot, and one is brown and one is orange

We broke up like a year ago for a couple months & he changed his password for his Instagram when I logged into his account and he found out. So he may have changed his passwords for eveurbjnf then. (I broke up with him for a lot of reasons)

Earwax comes in different shades, from deep brown to light yellow.

Also when are you going to post a selfie of yours?

Seconded for selfie and post panties..
Make sure they are not old lady panties

It’s way too big of spots in actuality to be ear wax. I’m not posting pics.

Im not scared to be a single mom if I’m being cheated on. I’m beautiful, young and I make a lot of money. So I’ll be fine either way, but I’m not sitting around being cheated on if that’s what Hess doing

He is not cheating on you. If he is, ignore it. Thoughen up young lady for the sale of your child. Do you want your child to grow up without father? He'll end up a drug addict or school shooter.
If your BF (BTW why aren't you married yet? Wtf??) is cheating on you, then find out what led him to do it! Did you ignore his sexual desires? Do you think too much about your career? Career is a big turn off for men. We don't like women focusing too much on career. That would explain why he cheated.

No. But I can find someone else remarry and have a rrrally good step dad for my kid.

If he’s cheating on me he’s also cheering on his kid, so that already means he would be a shitty dad and his kid would be better off without him/with a step dad who he knows since he’s young.

Don’t worry about my kid, it is always my best interest and I’m giving him the best life with his real dad or not.

Why else are there two used bath towels and a fuckkng entire ourfit hidden. It’s jsuf weird as hell.

No if he's cheating it means something is wrong in your relationship. Takes always two to tango. I noticed you ignored my question about your career.

Thoughen the fuck up OP. Save your relationship. Stop being selfish, marry and your kid will thank you. If you break up your kid will hate you later in life.

don't listen to this, this is stupid

And being a single mother with a step dad later is better?

I didn’t see that paragraph sorry I’m s little distracted. My brother died on today some years ago and I’m sitting here crying and grieving and wondering why if I’m being cheated on.

We aren’t married bc we are 25. It was an accidental pregnancy, and I’m not getting an abortion.

And no. I just picked up and moved in the middle of no wheree, not where I wanna live, and quit my job so we could live where he wants. I plan on getting other work here, but yeah. I sacrificed a lot for him and always have, and always satisfy him/whatever . Besides the couple times I didn’t see him becaue I was dealing with pregnancy stuff, and debating on getting an abortion (it was unplanned so I had to think over my options) i know people will judge bc it’s unplanned but guess what shit happens in life and this is what happened and I’m trying to make the most of it and do the best I can.

If he’s actually cheating on me of course I’ll live wherrr the fuck I want and find a new dad for my kid while he/she will’s still be young.

no, having a kid before marriage is stupid already, but marrying an unfaithful man and raising a child in a dysfunctional family is even worse

I have friends who never knew their dad and their mom married someone who ended up adopting them and they are successful/normal ppl and treat their step dad like their own dad.

If he would be a good dad cool we can coparent. I’m not staying and living with someone who’s cheating on me if he is. Act like that won’t affect my kids life to have a dad who’s secretly cheating and then causing lots of fights and problems while he’s there I think he background of it

Exactly. My
Kid would sit there while we fought and he cheated on me or was never around.

It would be better for him to not be in our lives if he will be a bad dad.
If he can still be a good dad we can copparrnt but I’m not living with him and sacrificing my own stuff so we can live wherrr he wants/etc.

God you sound like my ex..
I hope to God you dump him before he has to go another 8 years with you

My ex also talked like that about my kid after our breakup

Tallked like what?

I literally said I’m dedicating my life to make my kid happy either way.

If my kids dad is going to make his life painful, I don’t want him jn it. If we end up breaking up bc he’s cheating but he still wants to be a good dad to his kid, we can coparent.

I don’t see what’s wrong with that. Trust me if he is cheating I would prefer never to see him and not let him see his kid. But if he would still be a good dad I’d rather his kid see him and have him in his life for the sake of my child

Girrrrrrrrrl you a strong independent womyn. You don't need no man. All men are trash except your son, he's a king and your world.

So you can see how big the stains are (it’s clearly not earwax and one is Brown. There’s also that curly black hair all over them, and more on the shower curtain (def not mine). So yeah makes me think this perso with this dark curly hair was clearly showering since it’s stuck to the curtain, on the floor and on the used towel.

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I know this..
lol I’m just trying to find out if he’s cheating. Bc I’m not living here with him if he is

I hope to God if you ever dump him you'll do anything you can so he can still see his kid.

what ever happens a father is just as important as you are.
Don't ever forget that no matter how much you would hate him.

My ex screwed me on that big time
Haven't seen my kid for 3 years now

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Just get fucking cameras. You say it's a rental, maybe they left it up there. Who was last to rent it? Contact them and is if it's theirs.

I already said that if he would be a good dad I would let him see his kid. If he wouldn’t be then no I’ll find new dad for him. End of discussion. My life is dedictAed to my kids happinesss
first.

Stains /same hair stuck on shower curtain/in shower

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You gotta smell em real close and lick em
Tell us if it's doo doo, OP

I shouldn’t even been touching someone’s dirty towels while I’m pregnant

lol and why not? Do you act like this all the time? I feel like we're just seeing the surface of your insanity

The outfit and hair is coincidence from dirty rental.
He is butt fucking his own cousin on the DL tho

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