I did it anons. I found a pure, innocent girl just trying to find her place in the world. She felt unconditional love for everything in the world she lives in.
What do I do? I cheated on her. I hurt her so badly. I may have corrupted something I looked so long for. I don't know what to do to make up for something like this. I'm afraid of losing her, afraid she won't be herself anymore, afraid I contributed to the toxicity of this world. Why did I do something so fucking stupid? What should I do?
If you reallyr repent for it, just act like it never happened, and make up for it by being a good person to her.
Do not confess unless you want to ruin everything.
If she does know, you're just fucked.
Jaxon Price
Did you tell her/ did she find out yet? What do you feel for her? What do you think was the reason you cheated on her in the first place?
Benjamin Sanders
I BET HE TOLD HER HAHAHAHAH
Carson Carter
I wish I listened to you in the first place, user. I thought she deserved to know, deserved someone not constantly feeling guilty about it. I told her. Looking back, I feel as though I told her for no other reason than to ease my own mind. I feel even worse than before. I feel selfish.
I feel love for her. I'm sad she has to go through this. I can't tell whether or not the right thing to do is to keep trying to make things better and be there for her or to leave her because I don't deserve someone like her. I want what's best for her. Why? Is wasn't anything she did or didn't do. I was in the moment and made the absolutely wrong decision, I didn't consider the consequences.
are you autistic? Did you not for a second consider if she cheated on you and told you if you would be capable of forgiving and forgetting and not having it taint every new situation you encounter with her? Why do you think she would be different?
Asher Hughes
You're right, I don't know if I was in her position that I would be able to forgive or forget. I realize that there's a real possibility that nothing I can do will fix things, I just want to do what's best. Maybe there's a way. I'm here to find it.
You cheated on her. Stop being dramatic. You didn't break this girl for life. You're not that important.
It's hilarious how you talk about "finally finding a pure, innocent girl" and then going and fucking CHEATING on her. Nice job dumbass.
Tell her, and that's it. If she leaves you, she leaves you, and if she stays, don't do it again.
Kevin Lopez
Kill yourself, obviously.
Ryan Morales
Don't you think this will affect her relationships with everyone in the future? I was important to her. I'll never do this shit again.
William Lee
This has nothing to do with hurting her, or affecting her future relationships, you just don't want her to leave you. Don't try to justify it.
Besides, this was inevitable. One way or another, she was going to learn the anguish and risks we take when we come into relationships. Whether someone left her, died on her, cheated on her, etc. people don't stay pure and innocent forever.
How much this affects her will depend on the circumstances. How long have you two been together? How long have you known each other? How old are you two, how much experience does she have before you?
If you want to show her that there's some good in this world, you wouldn't lie to her. Tell her, don't do it again in your relationship with her, or any relationship you might have in the future.
Show her that people are capable of messing up, feeling guilt, and confessing to their wrongdoings. If you think she'll feel bad now, how do you imagine she would react if she found out from someone else?
Christian Ortiz
#1 rule of cheating is YOU DO NOT CONFESS EVER #2 is DON'T GET CAUGHT #3 eh it's not that bad if it's not anything serious.
Stop beating yourself over it. Frankly cheating is to be expected sadly and women cheat as much as men do. But it's only really serious when you're living together/engaged/married.
I also kinda cheated on such a kind of "innocent" girl, except she was in reality as much corrupted and mean as anyone else. She had to deal with it and eventually we broke up, came back, broke up, came back, broke up again, finally on good terms. Never felt really bad for it as I was good to her in almost every other way. Actually well I kinda double cheated as I'm with the person now that I cheated her with lol, but I didn't tell my ex that when we seperated.
She'll learn to man up and stop being a fucking fragile snowflake and you too for being a fucking doofus. Stop fucking idealizing her. It's not a real depiction of her, it's not fucking healthy and it's immature. oh the poor madam her pure innocence!
Like what did you even do? you fucked another girl? one time only? double timer? just a kiss?
just being pragmatic is all
Jace Peterson
You think the right thing to do was to tell her? I did too before I told her. I already confessed. I just want to do what's right from now on.
Don't try to justify your disgusting behavior. Kill yourself.
>and women cheat as much as men do. >b-but they do it too!!
>Never felt really bad for it as I was good to her in almost every other way.
kill yourself
>Actually well I kinda double cheated as I'm with the person now that I cheated her with lol, but I didn't tell my ex that when we seperated.
So the girl you're with is okay with fucking people in other relationships? Lol, I'm sure she'll be very faithful to you, not that it matters to someone who normalizes cheating.
>I did too before I told her.
However bad she'll feel, she'll forget about you one day. It's right the decision for HER.
>I just want to do what's right from now on.
Don't cheat again.
Ethan Walker
>However bad she'll feel, she'll forget about you one day. It's right the decision for HER. Why do you think it's the right decision for her? All it seems to have done is hurt her more. She would not have found out if I didn't tell her.
You don't care about her not trusting others, you just wish she didn't lose trust in you.
Get that through your head.
Brandon Gray
oh jeez I'm getting serious with the other girl, that's why I dumped my ex.
I was just waiting for her to finally make a move for me after years of waiting for her. I wanted to be with her before. and I truly have always wanted to properly settle down with her. There are always circumstances. Anyone who is set up to this ideal 100% easy commited get go pure bliss relationship is gonna have a hard time. I didn't tell her about my ex anyway. It's now in the past. We weren't in a proper relationship both ways. Privileges of being young I guess.
Jonathan Campbell
Do you want it to or something? Who fucking cares at this point? You can't take it back.
Jose Brown
I expected her to lose trust in me when I told her, but I didn't fully realize how much pain it would cause. I don't know how to respond to this.
I don't. I just want a path forward. I know I can't. Maybe there's nothing.
I meant that I don't know how to respond to your post*
Jonathan Ward
so was it worth it at least?
was she hotter than your gf? were you intoxicated?
Aiden Lopez
Wasn't worth this much trouble or pain for all parties involved. I wad much happier before. Maybe if I didn't feel so much guilt or sympathy. I had a few drinks but there's no way it significantly affected me.
this. greentext op. howd it happen? why? who? maybe it'll help you feel better
Parker Howard
You dont want a path forward, you want a magical fix that basically takes away the deed and ensures she trusts you implicitly again. You're mumbling around it by pretending you dont know something or wanting to do things right or whatever you're on about but fundamentally you want her to trust you again and forget this but theres a chance she doesnt and wont and what she wants is to not have you in her life anymore, as much as that sucks to hear. You shouldnt have told her or more importantly maybe you shouldnt have cheated on her?
Matthew Johnson
There's no magical fix, I know that. I suppose I have to come to terms with the fact there's no way to ease the pain either. I just won't hurt anyone like this ever again. I learned my lesson...
OP here is the best advice for everyone involved. First if you truly love her you would have never cheated. Second if you want her to be happy, leave her forever. Never seek contact ever again.
And one last thing. Kill yourself, your morals are completely fucked and we dont need scum like like you on this gay earth. We have more than enough degeneracy without you
Nicholas Martinez
you let her decide what she wants to happen and whatever it is, you oblige. end of story. there is no other answer and this is the only correct response.
