Why do women struggle to achieve orgasm?

ou guys are in the wrong direction. A woman needs to feel desired and wanted. A good fingering technique is a must-don't expect her to take off by just sticking your fingers inside her (the only thing porn sites could potentially be good for- watch a how to video-if they do not do or say anything about how your attitude must be just discard the video and find a better one). If she tells you she is cuming do not fucking stop,change fingers, change position, change rate of thrusting. Start slow and sensual and then build it up to a faster and rougher pace. A woman will never be able to cum if she's remotely feeling stressed out and not connected to you- so do not expect her to cum if you lay her down and look at her with a blank expression waiting for her to cum. You have to make sure to keep telling her you love her, to relax, tell her that you WANT her to cum FOR YOU (quality women want to pleasure us so she'll not feel okay doing something you seem bored of or not into), tell her you love seeing her naked, tell her you want to fuck her so much while you are fingering her, kiss and lick her weak spots:ears, neck, lips, inner thighs, calves- show her clearly that you cannot wait to be inside her, that she has the potential to give you lots of pleasure, that you love seeing her defencelessly cuming for you.
Be a man and show her that her pleasure is your pleasure as well. Do not keep a filter on your thoughts tell her exactly what you are thinking- confident men who want to pleasure their females are a turn on. Be fully present.

Ask her how you could make it better for her and take her feedback seriously without shaming her for it or getting butt hurt bcz of criticism

Doesnt matter. Never had sex. Teehee

Lifelong shame and loneliness.

We are talking about women, not you life Story.

My dick got hard reading this so I'll take this as truth

what you don't know about women

Garbage

The majority of sexual encounters are based around intercourse, an activity that the majority of women can't orgasm from. Guys suck at doing anything else besides getting themselves off because they are so focused on thrusting while women are idiots who don't communicate what they want, and reinforce men's sub par performance by faking orgasms.

Dude stfu! I dont know jack shit about women ok? My dick never even touched any part of a woman. Im a virgin and managed to have a gf and not have sex. Im like chadcel, the most ridiculous and confused kind of virgin. Reeeee. Also im sick and going crazy.

Humans are retarded. Glass the planet. Or gas. Or nuke. Or a virus that destroys human dna.

Fuck off.

try it once, put in all your effort and then say it's garbage faggot.

No u

Many women never in their lives feel free to express themselves sexually lest they be branded a slut or a whore, turned on by their loved ones and cast out of society. That might be part of it idk.

>we live in a society

Nah I don't even believe in all that patriarchy bullshit, I don't call myself a feminist. Just giving a realistic answer to op's question. Most people have some weird apparently deep seated psychological shit when it comes to women's and girl's sexuality from what I've seen.

It's in their heads mostly. Sexual repression and all that.

I've found that they need to coach themselves mentally into the release, via their inner dialogue.

Ignore this guy.

I've fucked a lot of women. Most of them came, but some women struggle to come even under ideal circumstances.

If a woman is under stress and has a lot on her mind, it's pretty unlikely she'll be able to come.

But some women do come easily. I met one girl that could come in like 60 seconds or so. I'd stick it in and after a few pumps, she came.

because they lay on their backs and think itll happen by magic when you put your dick in them. they dont know that they have to grind and hump to stimulate themselves on your dick to get an o face.