I often women say "He didn't know how to fuck" or "Size doesn't matter, it matters that he knows how to fuck" and yet nobody ever defines that.
Are we talking general compatibility here or is there literally something to learn about "how to fuck"? If so, what the fuck is it?
Wisdom: a "bad fuck" is usually a style a woman doesn't like; one woman's bad fuck is another woman's heaven. If you don't like it rough, and your lover does it rough, and you say nothing, it'll be a "bad fuck"; if you like it rough and your lover is all slow and gentle, it'll be a "bad fuck" as well. 2 cents.
>one woman's bad fuck is another woman's heaven Uh, NO. A bad fuck is a bad fuck or the woman doesn't have a good fuck to compare it to. Furthermore, if you just have one speed or trick you will never be a good lover. A good lover can intuit what the female wants at the time and take her there. Its not something you can learn.
Jayden Thompson
In layman's terms, if you just go in and bust after 3 pumps, if you don't warm her up and just jam it in, if you don't give her foreplay, If you don't keep a good rhythm or steady fuck, if you don't care whether she orgasms or not. All of these. My trick is flick it, eat it, fuck it. By the time I stick it in she's hornier and ready to cum that even if I just give pumps she orgasms.
Matthew Edwards
Definition of a bad fuck
Oliver Wright
Sex is hard to explain man.The best advice I can give is to experiment and really pay attention to your partners reaction. Treat it like any other social interaction. If you can do that you will be having great sex.
Guys that have bad sex over think it. It's all about taking care of your partner. Girls have bad sex too when they dont put their partner first.
>Uh, NO. UH, yes. >A good lover can intuit what the female wants at the time and take her there. Its not something you can learn. Not if she gives you signs that she likes what you're doing, but doesn't actually like it. As to inability to learn empathy, I would disagree, short of sheer autism.
Something tells me you never fucked a crazy woman.
Lucas Scott
Nice post. All this is what I assume to be basics in sex, I just wasn't sure if people meant more than these when they say "he doesn't know what he's doing."
Brody Sanders
Fucking is like dancing salsa, kizomba or any of those close to each other dances, you learn two things: One—two genuinely feel what's going on in your partner. If she tenses up, if she's enjoying what your'e doing, if she doesn't like something, if she's cooling down or if she's getting hornier by the second. Two—you learn to lead. You have to set the pace, the direction and the rhythm while gauging if she's following or not. All this is easier than you think because you're not actually thinking about it, just like dancing. Also, first you have to learn to enjoy yourself while having sex and not do it as a "I'm being evaluated", activity. It doesn't mean you're being selfish, it means that if you enjoy what you're doing, chances are she will too, and if she doesn't, well it means you're not compatible and there's no crime in that. Also, and this is subjective, "most women don't know what it feels to be fucked right until you come and fuck them right". There's a deep groaning, long and delicious, that a woman makes when you've finally fucked her so good that they forget all their mental shit and just go primal. Then they become addicted to the cock and you can make them your playthings.
Women become cock-drunk and just want you to stick it in...to get fucked senseless. "making love" is a different thing, based on romantic and social constructs of male-female bonding. Don't mix both up.
Thomas Turner
>if you just go in and bust after 3 pumps, if you don't warm her up and just jam it in, > If you don't keep a good rhythm or steady fuck, if you don't care whether she orgasms or not
But thats not a good fuck , thats common sense.
What kinda foreplay there are though?
Connor Bennett
you know what's a good fuck? doing what you want to her. kiss her neck. lick her pussy. fuck her doggy and push her head into the bed/pillow/ fuck her missionary. choke her go to town. if she doesn't like all tht. tell her to fuck off
Charles Thomas
Agreed.
Camden Moore
It's all about the foreplay The rhythm
It's a big reason why edging is good to practice.
Grayson Sanchez
Communicate. Communicate. Communicate.
Levi Richardson
Every girl is different. Dated one girl who could only cum from clitoral, but hated oral. She hated being on top. Dated another that liked oral, but could only cum from penetration, she came the most ontop.
This "good fuck" shit probably only applies to roasties. The best sex comes from people that have fucked each other and communicated multiple times.
Maybe they are referring to the first time you fuck someone new and the anticipation coupled with neither person being laid in awhile makes it really exciting and easy to cum.
Tldr: consider sex tips a general field guide, not a step by step instruction manual. Play things on a case by case basis. Sometime the same girl wants to be fucked hard or soft. Sometimes she wants to suck your cock and masterbate. Overall most want a guy to be sort of be in charge of sex.
Logan Fisher
edging leads to UTI's mate. you shouldn't ever touch your dick for pleasure or jack off, you're going to ruin your body's natural ability to fuck. Just do nofap/semen retention and you'll be good to go anytime you're about to have sex. No ED or PE problems ever.
Grayson Diaz
>choke her
No this is only for weird damaged chicks what the fuck. Just pick her up and move her around a lot to show her strength, dont do some psycho shit.
Chase Davis
he/she is on Jow Forums. girls who like him are gonna be damaged chicks m8
Adam Reed
Learn how to give a proper oral
James Ramirez
If feel like there's always two camps of people giving sex advice. People whose sexual expierence is mostly from relationships and people who are just out all night scrounging up other damaged people.
Tyler Smith
Chad here,
Go for the neck, behind the ear. Nibble on the ear, kiss her softly on the neck. Use your hands to lightly pull her hair, or just run your hand through her hair at the same time. Next thing you know she’s wet as all hell. She’s so into that you can fuck her anyway you want and she’ll love it. How do I know this works? Because I’ve don’t it several times with different girls.
Brayden Taylor
Might be a good thread to ask: how do you eat pussy? I'm a virgin (durr) and I feel like that's an integral part of sex, so if I can't do it, the chick won't come back for more
