I think he is emotionally involved with her, in fact he seems to have been seeing her longer than me (although we were friends before).
What should I do? >Confront her with the evidence (which is only small proof) >Confront him (over text or phone obviously) and see how he reacts. >Pretend that he texted me threatening to break my face if I ever went near her again and then show it to her to see her face as both relationships disappear >Text him saying that I'm a different bloke who is seeing her and knows of two others including him, that way the guy thinks she's a massive slut. Keeps me out of "danger" too. >jack off
I forgot >going on /b/ and putting "dubs gets to determine what I text him"
Luke Smith
bump
Brody Clark
confront her with the evidence obviously you dumb cunt. anything else is asking for trouble
Joseph Moore
do what said. Assuming this isn't bait, the other options you concocted will end with you being the bad guy and frankly you sound like a dipshit
Anthony Flores
and just let the guy fuck her afterwards? I want their relationship to end, I want them to suffer.
Charles Cox
>one text >two recipients >group chat created >commencefireworks.exe
Bentley Rivera
Oooooo this guy knows whats up
Andrew Edwards
Confront the guy
Dominic Thompson
I don't know him, he's a stranger. I think he might be older like mid-30s (I'm early 20s).
okay this seems more doable but like i said the evidence is still not 100% conclusive, I only took a picture of his number, I read through their sexts and meet up times. Might have access to her phone soon again but its already killing me being with her.
Henry Scott
you sound like a whiny little bitch. no wonder she's getting rawdogged by this guy.
what would your reaction be then after being betrayed? I'm here to learn.
Jacob Evans
when i was in high school i had a gf who cheated on me, a lot. i felt very similar to how you do now.
confront her about it, and no matter what she says just dump her. if she asks why then tell her that you can't trust her anymore. after that, forget her, forget him. the best thing you can do is just let it go. being a nasty person and getting 'revenge' isn't going to make you feel better. it will make you look petty and weak. also, the situation may escalate to something really bad.
once you feel ready, try and find someone new to hit the sheets with.
don't care because she isn't your gf and probably a random whore. NEXT!
Ethan Gutierrez
This is random but what area are you in
Cameron Perez
Everything this dude said was on point
You're tryna roll dice that have no real upsides by getting back at them. That text you had in the op was savage though if you just have to take vengeance I think that's a bomb. Send it in the group text.
Nathan Thomas
You have screenshots of their sexts? That's enough proof easily.
Thomas Sullivan
You need to tell her what you found and that you need to move on. Tell her you hope she becomes a better person and ghost for yourself. Who cares if she fucks the other guy anymore, worrying about yourself is the best thing. Jealousy and anger lead to the dark side. Go to self growth and the light, be better user.
Just forget that she existed, that's the best revenge. Don't say or text her about it just ignore her. When comes to see her just ignore her. She becomes stressed and in the later stages she will know that you know that she cheated.
Benjamin Long
Don't jack it, get this off of your chest and confront her and see where it goes. Never go back to a cheater period.
Adrian Jenkins
I was you three yeara ago. The answer is to break up and start a new life.
Or you can take a rifle and murder him, but youll be locked up for a bit.
Hudson Jenkins
This woman betrayed your confidence. The only thing she deserves is to be forgotten. Let her go no matter what.
Jordan Collins
Ghost her.
Grayson Parker
This is the best advice
Jordan Moore
One girl was texting a negro while we were dating. When I found out I beat the fuck out of her. Her face had lumps on it that you wouldnt even think were possible. Black eyes, all kinds of fucked up. I made her delete her facebook, took her phone from her, and she had to stay in contact with nobody, or I was going to fuck her up again. I stayed with her until the black eyes and such were gone, and then one day during a drive, I kicked her right the fuck out of the car. Never saw her again.
Grayson Phillips
Fight that man, period.
Elijah Howard
based
James Ross
Don't be a cuck and fight that faggot and break up with that slut.
Liam Ramirez
Yeah I thought about that, but how could it escalate? Also why does she deserve to have someone to fall back on? I worked damn hard and got manipulated. Not of the sexts, of his number. I read the sexts. This is hard because we study together.
Lincoln Gonzalez
You gotto just leave. Leave any way u can. Give a reason, don’t give a reason, it’s up to u. Don’t give in to your urges and cause a shitstorm. The best revenge is doing better. She will forever be someone who has to lie to future partners about her awful past, or just be damned to dating worse people who can accept a potential cheater. U think she can say to a new partner “I cheated once in the past, but that’s not who I am now,” and that partner is going to believe her? You’ve just received a gift. She will NEVER be able to fully open up about her shit past to someone else, while u can be fully intimate with another. Another gift is u found out now, before marriage. Cut your losses.
Finally, don’t let this ruin your trust. Love like you’ve never been hurt. You will ruin other relationships if you let this affect you. Also maybe try to fuck her one last time before u go. Get her all attached and clingy from sex hormones, then hit the bricks
Isaac Barnes
>fight that faggot He might not even be aware that the girl is cheating
Robert Ross
no he isn't aware. In the texts she clearly misleads him as much as she did to me. Shitty excuses not to see him the nights she sees me, etc. I don't think he's aware of my existence. I do have a feeling though that he might be older, potentially married.
Jackson Gomez
Not sure if this is real but I hope it is
James Thompson
people like you are the reason people like OP's gf cheat in the first place
James Young
People like to talk big on Jow Forums. Let them say what they want, doesn’t change anything in real life.
Cameron Rodriguez
gender relations are at their utter worst in real life Western Society because of the internet and the average pleb's inability to read irony. We've all bought into one massively overblown narrative about relationships and each other that its become impossible to trust one another.
Jeremiah Collins
This is a potentially lethal situation. She may be fucking a married man. People have been murder suicided over this. For all you know, he may be madly in love with her, and murder you in a jealous rage when he learns of your existence. You don't know who else will get sucked into this, their motivations, or how little they may think they have to lose.
Unless you wish to open pandora's box, and set in motion a chain of events you can't possibly fathom at this point...you need to get. the fuck. away.
This is not a fucking joke.
>t. A middle school teacher of mine murdered his wifes lover, his wife's lover's WIFE, and their three year old child. He's now serving life in prison.
Seriously op, just ghost her. The only thing you ever need to say to her ever again, when she asks why you're not returning her calls, is "you know why."
Move on. Living well is the best revenge.
Liam Harris
Something tells me OP doesn't live in a third world shithole or America where guns are handed out like candy
Charles Young
new and improved >acquire phone for stealth proofs >screenshot sexts between her and him >screenshot sexts between her and you >grouptext to yourself and dude direct from her phone >gtfo
t.
Cameron Gray
The murders were comitted with a metal pipe and a kitchen knife.
Bentley Jackson
youre not even sure if she cheated you fucking retard
also, he’s just some dude that wants his dick wet, if you insist on inflicting pain do it on your girl
Angel Scott
It is 100% real. I absolutely lost my mind and wanted to kill her.
Charles Hughes
>Not of the sexts, of his number. I read the sexts. wtf, why would you need a copy of the sexts? do you think theyre just going to say "nuh uh" and you'll be obligated to stay with her for lack of sufficient evidence? seeing the sexts is proof.
Wyatt Gomez
>be 6 years old >get beaten to death with a metal pipe by a complete stranger because your daddy did a special hug with someone's mommy whelp. now i'm depressed.
Christopher Ward
>tfw it was professor plum in the kitchen with the lead pipe
Just break up with her, but don't give a reason, don't discuss it AT ALL. Remain cool as a cucumber. The uncertainty will fuck her up and may contaminate any other relationships she's engaged in. Women can't stand it when men won't confront them. You can see extreme cases of this in women with BPD or some kind of mania.
Jose Rogers
this
let them know you know so they have to emotionally deal with their shitty actions but then never look or talk to her again. move on and get good at choosing girls
William Edwards
show it to her friends/family/boss. Some people just can't be shamed though.