So basically when you're looking for an attractive girl to settle a little while with...

So basically when you're looking for an attractive girl to settle a little while with, given that you are capable of snatching one, you're pretty much going to have to wait in line, am I right? Like, attractive, single girls just don't really exist.

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-- the reason for my asking being that I'm contemplating getting in line myself.

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Dating is heavily luck based. The more often you try, the higher chance you will succeed.

Look, unless you're Chad, dating is going to be hard.

Borrowing your metaphor, Chad can use his looks to skip to the front of the line, like those express passes at amusement parks.

He can get any girl, including ones that already have boyfriends, or even husbands.

You may have had to work hard to be with a girl, and have realistic expectations of what kind of girl you can get, so you might settle for a girl. But suppose a hotter girl gets you alone one day and propositions you - it'd probably be hard to refuse, since you're only with your current partner because they were the best you could get.

The difference is, you had to work hard to be with your girlfriend, so risking that for a one night stand with Stacy would be a hard sell. If the same situation happened to your girlfriend - Chad approaching her - she'd have way less cause to refuse, since she didn't work to be with you, she just settled for you because you were there, she was lonely, and you might have been the best she could do at the time.

So. Unless you're Chad, don't bother trying to date. Just accumulate money and buy hookers when you get the urge. Because women are only going to be happy when polygamy is legalized, and every Chad is mandated to marry at least ten women.

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Because you are supposed to work on your positive qualities AND a way of showing them instead of treating grills like an unsolvable riddle or whining why chads have an easier time.

You want a rough example? Working out. Women look at some ripped dude and within a microsecond they subconsciously take stock of his qualities. He is healthy, he looks good, he could protect them, he has the confidence, he has the dedication and the will to go through a regular training regimen for years and so on. And on the flipside, whey they look at some doughty, skinnyfat fuck all they see is laziness, lack of dedication, lack of health, lack off giving a shit and just mental and physical weakness.

>b-b-buh muh personality! muh good qualites!

Everything like that comes AFTER the initial appraisal. He might have all that ON TOP of the qualities he has whole you most definitely lack everything and has no way to even show it off in an acceptable way

I'm fucking sick and tired of people telling me all those supposed positive qualities they have, "I'm a good listener" "I have a lot of interests" I"m a very caring person" and give me blank stares when I ask how do they show them. How anyone is supposed to know about anything you have if you dont show it on the market? Its all WYSWYG without it.

They for sure exist. Most of them are single and lonely anyway and just "setttle" when they get married or whatever

I'm bald though. Even though I'm fit no girl cares.

So?

Girls are always looking to trade up and that's not our fault. Most quality girls will never be single.

They don't exist because they are fucking thots man. they stay single

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you are not me
yes, I know. The thing is, 'getting in line' is not something I'm willing to do lightly (out of pride, somewhat, and because it's not a comfortable situation) so I'm inquiring as to wether it's 1/ necessary to get a nice girl (in which case I'm going for it) 2/ intelligent at all.
So just find one and wait for her relationship to end and then snatch her?

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They do exist. Although, it is very difficult to tell between single and taken girls. and it’s even harder to tell if the single girls are whores or not

You seem like you know your stuff. What do you think about queuing up?

I’m not Interested. dating is too much of a pain in the ass. Trying to date using tinder destroyed my view towards dating.

Yeah I'll never use tinder, there's
much too high a risk of getting your soul sucked

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Good. I highly discourage people from using Tinder. It works for 10% of males. But I’m serious that it’s very unhealthy for the other 90%

The thing is my standards are ridiculously high and there's nothing I can do about it. I'm good looking, pretty successful so far and I'm a good talker, though.

This is all said in absolute earnest btw. but for instance the girls I'm interested in have at least a handful of guys in the waiting room.

Even then, your best chance is to keep trying to meet new people, rather than "waiting" for one of the girls you know to suddenly develop an attraction for you. It's just that you're going to have a much lower chance of finding someone. Sorry user, that's just how it is, some problems don't have great solutions.

Thank you for your time. I know that I'm in a shit situation. But for instance let's say that I know that this girl has some feelings for me, and that she is going to break up eventually. What about snatching her then? I don't want to make her my wife, just have some good time. Of course in the meantime I'm not going to sit idle, but what about keeping the option in mind? What fo you think about that?

This is all devoid of emotions, btw (or as much as can be), I'm trying to devise a strategy.

Wait, hol' up
So you just want sex? What does "a good time" mean here? Also what exactly are you standards? Is it just about the looks?

No not sex, just to have a nice girl for some time, but not get her pregnant. By standards I mean looks and the rest. I like them reasonably smart and classy

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thank you user.

>you're pretty much going to have to wait in line, am I right? Like, attractive, single girls just don't really exist.
I’m going to go out on a limb here and assume you have little to no experience with girls and the outside world

>single girls just don't really exist
Every girl has at least two guys. One may believe he's a bf or soon will be and clueless there is another guy who believes he has a good shot at removing the bf.

Its the inside guy and outside guy game girls play and its very effective. You think you are inside guy but shes fucking or soon to fuck outside guy. You think your marriage is solid but your wife is sucking a coworker off in the parking lot before she comes home since the guy remembered her birthday and bought her some jewelry.

Yes and no. I'm socially well adjusted, but I'm only 20 and I'm new to the city. Should I take it that you disagree with what I said?

No, you don't wait. You put on such a good show that she gets the urge to trade up.

Are most women that shitty of people?

Why wait in line? Just date younger women (18-24) and be the first guy there. You're more likely to get her. Why would you wait for 30+ year old hag?

the girl I have in mind is 20
well yeah but it doesn't work irl

the majority of women are grossly overweight
so yes

They exist, and some of the non singles are ready to move on.

Yes, the competetion is tough but that should motivate you to:
1. Become your most attractive self by working out and being an interesting and fun person
2. Get out there

boring advice desu

best advice ITT (unironically)

so what do you want to hear?

he's not me
you're not me
>ready to move on
really? that's what I'm interested in 2bh. do girls exist that have bfs but that you can snatch?

Yes, for sure. Why do you think breakups and divorces are so common?
Some people settle for "suboptimal" partners instead of being alone.
Some people feel like moving on when the magic disappears, unless there's other stuff keeping them together.
And some are constantly looking for something better.. quite common actually

>And some are constantly looking for something better.. quite common actually
That sounds like you can, as a guy, only love a hot girl in a romantic way once she's put on 20 lbs of fat and cannot upgrade anymore. Because otherwise you'd always have to think she might upgrade at a random time.

That's always a possibility. Especially with younger girls. But also a reason to stay on top of your game.

I have to confess what you're saying here is of paramount interest to me right now. Could other anons with life experience weigh in on this?

I am not looking to trade up. This is why you don't settle.

Yeah I disagree. There are many attractive single girls out there but you’ve become obsessed with one of them. It’s kinda pathetic that you would be willing to “wait in line” for your chance at her. The future is unknown, so maybe it could happen, but you’re wasting your time if you do choose to wait.

Well I've been rather pathetic lately, but I'm snapping out of it. The thing is I just want to know if you think these things happen or not. I need the facts. Anyway thank you for your time user.

But I'm certainly not planning on waiting and doing nothing.

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