I was at the bar with some acquaintances of mine and when I put my hand on that grill's thigh she didn't mind it at all...

I was at the bar with some acquaintances of mine and when I put my hand on that grill's thigh she didn't mind it at all. I would just rub it and squish it and talk to her or some other friends and that's it. Does the fact that she let me do that freely mean she's into me? She has broken up with her boyfriend like 3 months ago btw. What do Jow Forums?

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She probably liked the attention and it was noncommittal considering you didn't try to take her to bed.
Offer to grab coffee with her sometime if you're into it

does it mean I actually have a chance? pardon me but my autism usually makes women repelled or just not interested to say the least. a-am I going to make it?

She allowed you to make physical contact in a place that is not usually handled by strangers. Ask her for coffee, if she says yes you have a good chance and a head start on progressing into more physical activities if you know what I mean

hmm I might ask her out for beers this weekend OR wait for the party next wednesday. which one is better? if it goes well at the party, I will have a solid foundation for asking her out later

No you need to get on with it. Send her a text saying something like "good seeing you last night, let's meet for coffee during the week". Don't wait too long, people are busy

god it was last saturday. also im postblocked on facebook so I can't really message her lmao

Ask her, not us, she knows, we're guessing.
I think you should just ask her and if it flops it flops, you'll live, she'll live, everyone will live

From a glance
>physical contact below the waist, above the knee
>varied levels of contact
>single for a little while

As long as that wasn't like a five year relationship mane, you should be fine to at least get a cup of cofferoo

Permitting touching is usually one of three things:

1) She is so awkward/shy she's borderline retarded and couldn't say "stop"
2) She is an attention whore and just likes the fact you molested her a little
3) She's actually normal and permitting it was the "come on bby"

>1)
definitely no, I know her well enough to know it's not true
>2)
I assume not, she's not the whore type. at least that's what I assume
>3)
hopefully and probably

Then my guy, it is time to test the theory.

Best of luck.

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hmm. I hope my autism won't ruin it.

You sound like an autist, so she might have been uncomfortable but you didn't notice, many girls are too scared to say anything.
If she was comfortable with your touch though, then that's a clear sign that she is at least somewhat attracted to you.
Ask her to go out with you to but pay attention to how she reacts.
If she shows any sign of being uncomfortable, NEVER touch her in an unsolicited fashion again.

I mean I think she was comfortable. I talked to her normally and there wasn't a trace of awkwardness in that.

Also I asked my friend about that (he knows her) and he said that she is the type of woman to tell you out loud that she's uncomfortable with what you're doing. guess it's all good then

How did you find people to go to bar with? Already 50 steps ahead of me

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despite being autist, most normies like me and actually want to socialize with me, ask out to parties or for beers etc.
no idea how that happened

Senpai

Man that's a fucking ballsy move and it worked out. Fuck coffee, ask this chick to dinner. She's into you. Fucking take charge as well. Her letting you keep your hand there and move it is a huge sign. Don't over think this.

>Fuck coffee, ask this chick to dinner

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hmm. hmm. hmm.

maybe you're not really autistic and your mom just lied to you at a young age so she can get sympathy from other parents. Like munchausen syndrome

All the other responses are normal approaches or people trying to pick this girl's reaction apart based on incomplete information. I say the hand on the thigh is worth more than a normal approach.

Go for fucking gold, OP. Either she's into you and is waiting for more balls or she's not and will shoot you down unequivocally. Bring condoms.

nobody goes for dinner dates these days you faggot.
that is something people do that only know dating from the movies.

im not actually autistic, just like uhhh... Jow Forums kind of autistic

hmm guess I should. it kinda feels awkward for me though I like her. damn

If you act aggressive without the right kind of masculine energy behind it, you will come off as a creepy beta male.
Do what is congruent to you, girls like authenticity.
Don't be a pussy though.

Completely missed the point. He should move to whatever the next step is immediately and with maximum balls.
Find out from the rest of these shut ins what that step is. Don't over think this.

Well I wouldn't take advice from some boomer who says
>Fuck coffee, ask this chick to dinner
Coffee or drinks if you can't think of anything more original.
"Movies and dinner" is a hollywood thing, nobody actually does that.
Unless you are like 50.

Said the shut in not offering advice at all.

>Don't listen to the delusional boomer
is pretty good advice.

boomers are actually good with women
zoomers can't even go in public without sperging out nowadays or getting offended

Doesn't get him laid or a girlfriend though.

Ohhhh just kind of awkward? I gotcha sorry, when I hear that word I immediately go to the clinical definition.