Grown man but still live at home and love your mommy? Don't be ashamed. Be loud and proud here
Grown man but still live at home and love your mommy? Don't be ashamed. Be loud and proud here
Besides being pathetic, it shows that you have an unhealthy relationship between you and your guardian/parent.
There's nothing to be proud of having chosen not to start your own life and being a defective human being, incapable of managing life on their own.
Also a thread died for your shitpost, kys
Your just jealous your mommy didn't love you
Nobody cares about your pathetic mommy complex shitposts. gtfo and get a life
Am I really the only one who loves their mother?
You need to learn to live on your own in order to grow up. You can come back later, or visit your mum all the time. But you need to learn to live on your own
Sadly I live with my mother I am 23 years old, I have noticed she has grown more dependent on me. I try to do things on my own and she is always there to do it for me, I am considering moving out in a few months once I pay off my debts, I want to grow up.
Why?
Yes now leave
No...and there's nothing wrong with living with your parents either.
There are so many factors that can legitimize this...whether it be financial or even cultural...and I'm asian who lives in a city that's ranked 3rd most expensive housing in my country...fml
I've lived on my own (with roommates) before. This egotistical badge of independence is sort of moot. It's not that hard to live on your own. Living with roommates takes some ease off. Living with family makes things easy altogether.
>To others:
Obviously, as a functioning adult, develop some sort of independence. If you're still being "taken care of" by parents into your mid 20s, then that's a developmental problem the parents have caused. I've seen it happen to a few cousins and they're completely incapable of doing their own laundry. I mean...just kys if you can't be bothered doing your own chores as a young adult. If you can't self sustain like...you find doing your own chores bothersome? How are you still alive?
You made my point perfectly. There is intelligent life on Jow Forums after all.
>move out for school
>move back home to start another program
im independent when im away but when i come home stuff like this happens
>start laundry
>fall asleep
>wake up and my mother has finished it for me
i can see myself becoming more lazy but i cant move out until i finish school and get a job
That's fine as long as you get a job once you finished school and start your own life instead of hanging on your moms tits until they sag and dry out
Well I mean one minor trick is to start doing those chores your parents would usually do on your own.
*shrug* Try to jump on it before the parents do.
If not that, your room isn't going to clean itself. Perhaps even wash the dishes. Getting used to a daily struggle is what it takes to become an independent adult. Doing your own groceries or paying your own bills. One step at a time.
Having a general interest in how "Mum" does things by asking doesn't hurt either.
But then again, you're a student. It's a natural assumption that you live with your parents. Finish school first, assess your debts, and decide whether it's a logical idea to move out or not.
I'm still paying student loans off as well. But I've already got my career established so it's just upward from here. Just finish school, user. Life is definitely brighter once you grad and you get into your field. I was a dropout and thought that was over but I came back with a vengeance. You can do it too.
Laziness however...you can only yell so much motivation at someone...I can only remember a joke that was a 'true story'...A boat tipped over, family in the water, when a brother in law shouted that he couldn't swim. The suave, slightly inebriated uncle said "What? Are you really going to let a little thing like WATER kill you?" Just add that to knowing that there are far less fortunate people than we who still go on living. Hell, we're on Jow Forums. We're more aware of what goes on than the average person, probably. I ask myself, am I really going to let life kick the shit out of me or am I going to fight back?
GL Bro
>Once I pay off my debts
Just do it now before she becomes a toxic leech.
Depends on what age you are and where you're at in life. I'm 21 y/o and i still live with my parents and i would say that's acceptable. It saves me a lot of money while i'm in college.
However, i'll definitely move out once I've graduated a year from now and i have a good income to live off of. I think there is nothing to be proud of when you're in your thirties, you have a job (or worse, you're a NEET) and you still decide to live with your mother because she can cook for you and wash your clothes. Once you have the resources to take care of yourself, you should definitely move out and take care of your own life.
I just started my 30s and never lived in my own. Not in school. Just started working part-time. My mom needs me though. She says she doesn't but we all know she does.
>My mom needs me though. She says she doesn't but we all know she does.
Why? She's a grown up adult.
And even if she does need your help, living on your own doesn't mean you discard your parents. You can still visit them as much as you like.
She can't drive so I have to. I owe her. My dad was abusive and he was going to beat me because I was being lazy and she jumped in and took the beating for me. I owe her so much.
Why do people who live on their own think if you live at home you don't cook, do laundry, make appointments, handle prescriptions, do taxes, or do basic things? I was doing many household chores indoor and outdoor like dish washing, sweeping, window washing, vacuuming, bed making, clearing tables, shoveling snow, weeding, planting grass seed, clipping bushes and hedges, putting in basement lights. I even did basic plumbing to fix issues like clogging and toilet cleaning. Was taught how the toilets, doors, and sinks worked.
I was doing many financial things in my teens. I wrote checks at 13 and helped with posting items for sale, calculate budgets and plan vacations and flights in my teens.
I knew about credit benefits, interest rates, and different financial accounts like a Roth account compared to a traditional IRA and workplace benefits. I did online bill payments for my parents and bank errands. I knew about car maintenance, leasing and insurance and was made to get the car changed for oil or windshield fluid or fill the tires or go with my parents to plan out leases.
I've made living wills and done my parents taxes, knowing about how to utilize the exemptions and write offs. I go shopping and pick up prescriptions and for food. I've dealt with insurance companies. There are also many things I haven't even mentioned.
How is this mutually exclusive to living at home? I don't follow.
Living on your own costs money. Living at home is free. Therefore living at home is superior.
Exactly
And because of that if you work and live at home, you can afford the lifestyle of people with a lot more income than you have. Such as world travel, gourmet food, designer clothes.
What if you live at home because you want a lifestyle far above your income level?
Yeah why don't I just go be a university student and also have my own 200.000€ or 400€/mo place?
Living with parents is how life is if you're poor, dipshit. I'll move out by the time I'm 27, but only maybe.
Yeah I live with my mother and dad, my mothers dad and mothers mother also live in the same house my dad's parents are dead or almost dead.
I don't understand the point of this thread there's nothing wrong with living with family, especially if you live on a farm so there's a fuckton of work to do everyday.
PS: I'm 26, I have a girlfriend who rents a room about 30ish minutes away by walking. I work, I make money, I contribute.
She won't be there forever.
It makes economical sense
You're a worthless manchild and your mom probably hates your fucking guts.
Because being an overgrown child bars you from reaching your true potential, which is bad both for you and for society.
No she doesn't! I had a gf once but my mother pointed out how ugly she was and selfish and crazy. We broke up and I wouldn't talk with her about our kid, just like my mom told me. You know she took my kid from me?! My mom and I could've raised my kid together like we tried to do until the ex bitch kept interfering. My mom is the only one ever really there for me. She's right. The bitch was just evil.
Whatever. People on the /b/ random board agree with me.
Oh, so you were trolling. 7/10 I responded twice
The difference is that if you didn't do something at some point, someone else would. It's not about specific actions, it's about having the responsibility for the space that surrounds you
Does this apply to people who live at home but are in charge of an outside person's affairs that lives outside of the home and needs you? If you don't shop for them or budget for the rent or do their laundry or get doctors appointments, banking and bill errands, medical procedures, or insurance work done then it doesn't happen.
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I love mommy 4ever
Porn and mom that's all I need. Pump n dump once a month or so. Mom approves
my mom lives with her mom and I live with them
that’s momception
the whole moving out thing is very recent.
you pump your mom once a month?
Are you a retard? No. I go out and hook up with one of my fwb or someone new. Im not sick! As long as I don't get serious mom approves
>tfw 19 and still live at home
You're still a teen tho. That's normal