Girlfriend can't take it

Last night my girlfriend told me that I beat her too hard during sex and she doesn't like it because when I hit her really hard she feels like I don't love her. Just to clarify, I never hit her for real (like how I'd hit a man in a fight), I just slap or smack her with probably 1% strength but she says that it still hurts too much. I liked this girl because she was into getting choked and all that but yesterday she even told me that I choke her too hard. I don't get it.

Has someone been in this situation before? How do I fix this?

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There is nothing to fix, she already told you that you are hitting and choking her too hard
Either you stop doing that, or keep doing it until she gets tired of you

Tell her that you can't get off without getting violent and that if she can't take it you'll have to find another girl to bring into the bedroom with the both of you just so you can abuse the other woman, not so you can fuck her. In reality, keep getting a little more sexual with the "abuse puppet" until you're fucking both of them. Then your gf will either have to accept the current situation or saddle up and take it like a man.

females especially girls are way way weaker than males. They feel more pain when you have too much strength. If you do it with 1% strength already, do it with 0,5% strength then or even less.
Remember, she is much weaker then you and therefore delicate. Please keep that in mind when she trusts you

I like this idea but I'm wondering how realistic is it to find a girl that just wants to get beat up and no sex. Never met someone like that desu. I mean, eventually, she'd be getting dick too but at least for the first few nights she would get choked and slapped. I don't think I know anyone who would be up for that.

What trailor park did you growup in??

you basically told him to cheat on her, what is wrong with you

$$$ Money makes people do crazy things.

>females especially girls
I don't know if I want to ask but what is the difference between females and girls?

>If you do it with 1% strength already, do it with 0,5% strength then or even less.
Remember, she is much weaker then you and therefore delicate. Please keep that in mind when she trusts you

This is what I'll have to start doing it but I don't think it is a viable long-term solution. I like this girl for more than just sex but without being able to really do some abuse the sex is just going to get stale for me and eventually I'll like her less than I do now. It is truly sad. Would be nice if women were a bit stronger you know?

Well, now you are asking me to pay for sex which completely defeats the purpose of having a girlfriend. I'm going to say no to that but I'll be on the lookout for girls that maybe want to do it with a couple and can take a bit more abuse.

Stop being a degenerate.

How is that degenerate? How do you have sex?

Make her go to the gym. It's good for her health in general. I suggest SS+GOMAD as a start for her exercise.

Can you really bot get off without slapping her around lol?

I guess I technically could but it is just my instinct you know. Once I start really fucking her hard my testosterone and adrenaline just ramp up and without thinking I start pulling her hair, choking her and either smacking her ass (if her back is up) or slapping her face (if her back is down).

Probably something to do with high testosterone, don't know if you can relate.

Sounds like she's not comfortable during sex. You can either act rough and not care about her feelings, or listen to her and make sure she feels comfortable. It sounds like your skipping foreplay, are you opening being really rough or are you getting rough when it gets really hot and heavy.

The whole just do the same things but softer is not really a good approach. The issue isn't the pain, but that she feels like you don't care about her.

My boyfriend loves rough sex but when I told him to stop, he does.
If you can't control your instincts, you are an animal.

I'm so glad you're not my boyfriend, you sound like a sociopath.

>Sounds like she's not comfortable during sex
Yeah, that's what she told me.
>It sounds like your skipping foreplay, are you opening being really rough or are you getting rough when it gets really hot and heavy.

I always start rough and just ramp it up slowly. I typically start by commanding her to undress. After that, I grab her by the neck very firmly and look at her eyes and after a few seconds with only that hand holding on to her neck I throw her on the bed as hard as I can. After that, I tell her to do poses for me and shit like that until I get my cock out. When I'm ready to fuck I rub it on her pussy, make her lick it a little bit like a cat, and then I start fucking her hard with all the stuff I mentioned in the OP.

Is any of this bad?

Holy shit you're awful hahahaha
Just break up with her and jerk off to facial abuse

>0 foreplay
>0 consideration for getting her turned on
ye i wonder why she doesnt like it huh what a mystery

I'm going to keep an open mind, but am I being trolled?

>Holy shit you're awful hahahaha
Why? Maybe you are not into that but she is. She just asked me to hit and choke her softer. She doesn't mind any of the rest like when I pull her hair.

>Just break up with her and jerk off to facial abuse
No, she's a good girl. Also, it is beta to jerk off to shit I can just do lol.

Are you dumb? That is the foreplay. She likes getting dominated like that. From treating her like a rag doll getting thrown around because of how huge the difference in our strength is, to just happily following commands like a pet. That's what she likes, and that's what I like. If you don't that's okay but just let me tell you that you haven't had good sex.

>She likes getting dominated like that.
Bro, you just started this by saying she doesn't.

You don't know how to read well. She just complained that I beat her too hard, not that she wants me to stop. She made that pretty clear.

>she doesn't like it because when I hit her really hard she feels like I don't love her.
You can either be critical of yourself and get better or just listen to the echo chamber. I'm not telling you what to do, I'm just showing you options, you don't have to be so defensive.

>is any of this bad ?
Holy kek

Well, I just think you are misunderstanding the situation so your options are of questionable value. That quote doesn't say what you think it says.

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Why did you come here? All you want is for us to tell you she's just being sensitive and you're doing nothing wrong but
That's not true, you're doing so much wrong

Just leave and go back to abusing you're poor girlfriend. You seem to like that.

Dump hurrr

...she deserves someone more decent

>Last night my girlfriend told me that I beat her too hard during sex and she doesn't like it
>How do I fix this?
Stop beating her so hard during sex. She told you the answer, why are you even here?

Looking for alternate solutions. It may have been a mistake though. I didn't know this board was so vanilla.

>tfw seeing my boyfriend tonight
>tfw we're going to have fun touching and kissing and getting each other in the mood before he pounds me into oblivion
>tfw he still chokes me and smacks my ass sigh hard it bruises, but he shows her loves me so it feels good
>tfw he'll kiss me afterwards and tell me i'm a good girl and he loves me

Man, feels great to be in a relationship where my partner cares about me
I feel sorry for your gf. She's got a pretty bad deal with you being a psychopath and all.

She tells you what's wrong straight up, and instead of listening and responding you go here to find "alternate solutions"? What kind of a solution did you even have in mind? Did you want us to tell you to ignore her and beat you even harder? Come on, user, don't be dumb.

>I didn't know this board was so vanilla.
It's not though. You're just bad at sex.

I do all of that too. Your boyfriend must simply be weaker than me but I guess your advice will be useful. How soft does he do it? I guess I will have to listen and become a softy too.

He's not a weak dude, he is a heavy lifter and does mma on the side. He's intense and intimidating, but isn't a cold sociopath like you op.

We established a signal and a safe word, and while we're fucking, i give him the signal once it's too much. Safe word is for if something is WAY too much and I want him to stop.

I guess a safe word would do it. The problem is I don't know if she would be brave enough to use it. You see, all of the stuff she told me she was not brave enough to tell me without her confronting her. After sex, I saw her looking kind of down which is weird so I asked her if something was wrong and she said nothing, but after asking again she came clean. If I had not noticed then she would have just taken it for my pleasure so if we established a safe word I fear she would never use it.

Person you originally replied to

You're a pig, if that's how it happened
Soften up on her. You're making her feel unloved and abused.

>you're going too hard during sex
>guys how do I fix this?

what the fuck is up with people on this board. the obvious solution is to just go easier on her why do you need advice for that

sounds like you need therapy OP

Say it with me everyone,
>There's absolutely nothing wrong with getting sexual satisfaction from hurting people, and there is no way it could ever possibly lead to damaging your partner.