My girl complains that although I can make her cum multiple times, I never fuck her rough the way she wants to be fucked. I've tried stuff like choking her a bit and smacking her, but honestly the type of rough sex she wants seems to be something I'm not used to. How do I become the rough, aggressive stud she wants me to be?
To girls who love getting roughed fucked, what does your man do for you that you love?
Dude just break up. If you were into it you'd know what to do, and if you're not into it you never will be.
What kind of stuff does she wants you to do?
What's your penis size?
>How do I become the rough, aggressive stud she wants me to be?
ask her. tell her to stop being an idiot and use her words
I am a guy, who has been told that my rough style of fucking is very arousing to a lot of girls.
My advice to you would be to let your basic urges take over, go full caveman mode and fuck her like a toy.
By that I don't mean objectify her, but really get into it and do what your body has evolved to do.
Turn off logic, don't try to be technical, just be raw and enjoy yourself, she will love the animalistic energy coming off of you.
Dominate her.
When you fuck, she is there to serve your pleasure.
Any pleasure she gets out of it is incidental.
Sounds terrible?
It's what your girl wants, a lot of girls actually.
I find that it's more about attitude than actually inflicting a lot of pain.
I'll give you am example of what my boyfriend did a couple of days ago, maybe it will help. We were watching a show and he started playing with my nipples (I was laying between his legs, with my back on his chest). He did this for the whole duration of the show, about 50 minutes. At first massaging my boobs, then starting to pinch my nipples a bit, then getting more rough as it went along (slapping them, pulling them a little harder etc.). While doing this, at some point he also put a hand on my throat and kept it there, not necessarily squeezing. He put his finger in my mouth, told me to suck it. When I told him I wanted to get fucked, he said "Not yet" and kept playing with my nipples for some time. After about an hour I was pretty much braindead and soaking wet. He went down on me, then fucked me senseless while holding my throat, slapping me over the face and pinching my nipples. My orgasm was so intense that I could barely get out of the bed half an hour after we were done.
So yeah, he didn't do anything particularly hardcore (even the face slapping is more about the act, he doesn't put much force behind it; same with the choking, it's more of a light sqeeze). It's just his whole dominant attitude that turned me on. Try something like this, see how she likes it. Again, you don't need to go over the top, just work on the attitude.
7.5", she says my penis size is one of her favourite things about me physically. She just keeps reiterating that I'm great at getting her off, she just wants it "rough" and "extreme" and wishes I would use her like a whore or something.
It's so weird for me to reorient my thinking in this way. Usually when I have sex I barely even care about my own pleasure, I'm just interested in getting her off.
I see what you mean, I'll try this kind of thing. I do enjoy teasing her for a long time when we're together since she seems more eager to fuck than I am.
>I'm just interested in getting her off
By the sounds of it, your girl is someone who gets off by pleasing you.
Consider that.
Damn that's hot. Hope my hopefully soon gf is into that stuff.
keep telling yourself that
Which part?
both
At least one of them is true already. All we got to do is deal the deal.
i'm sure it is user
Yeah! Wer are all gonna make it. Can't wait to awkwardly have sex after an 8 year long dry spell again.
>8 year long dry spell
holy shit.
Where do you think you are? You don't get laid if you don't leave your room.
>inb4 OPS gril is baiting him to full on rape her so she can claim that juicy settlement monies
how much sex did you use to have and how old were you when your dry spell started?
Had one ltr when I was in my early 20s. Only time I had sex was during that relationship. Now I'm in my early 30s and got another chance.
Update: Well, I just drilled the living hell out of my girl. I just let my animal brain take over and man... I feel like I learned some new deep, aggressive fucking technique through sheer instinct. A lot of aggresive tongue kissing, choking, hair pulling, ass smacking, biting and wrestling and pinning her down while I drilled deep and hard. She must have came 4 or 5 times, the last time she hollered out loud as fuck for like 20 seconds and we could hear the upstairs neighbours complaining about the noise. She had this worn out look of complete bliss and kept panting about how amazing I was. I joked with her that I think I might have leveled up and unlocked a new ability and she laughed and said "That's how it felt!"
Well guys, thanks for the advice. I'll try to unleash the beast inside me on her more when we fuck, cause she seems to love it. You guys really helped!
Time to play SoulCal 6 while she's passed out in bed
Here is Perfect PERFECT
You understood my point perfectly.
You are the best student, I am so proud of you.
Make your girl happy and enjoy yourself.
Don't overdo it though lol
two days on nofap and reading this makes me really hard.