Boyfriend in the middle of an argument that’s too tedious to explain, tells me
“Just because you’d do anything for me doesn’t mean I have to do anything for you”
Then goes to bed.
How should I feel about this. I feel upset I don’t even know what to think. Please don’t just say break up without thinking twice, he’s all I have, I don’t want to leave him.
it sounded like you tried to guilt trip him. we cant give you any unbiased advice unless you actuall say what happened.
I didn’t want to explain because it in itself is a completely different problem I didn’t want to get into. Our sex life is really poor, he has terrible libido mine is fairly high. I was really feeling it tonight and was asking him for just asking, we are long distance so I was asking him just to say a few dirty things over the phone to me for several minutes. Argument happened, I ended up saying that it’s annoying I do so much for him constantly but he won’t even take several minutes for something I need.
>different people are uncomfortable with different things
Fancy that!
>LDR
Dump him and get a bf in your own time zone.
You should break up since you're clearly incompatible. Besides, it's not healthy to be this attached to anyone.
I don’t know people IRL. I’m a no life neet.
I’m afraid of being alone.
Are you hot?
Not at all what I’m looking for right now.
Are you hot?
>Yes: your bf is probably just a virgin who uncomfortable with sexual behavior
>No: your bf is probably not attracted to you
I guess I’m just, average. I’m not fat, I have some how of a weird baby face but. I’ve asked him constantly if it was anything like that, to the point of crying, he’s always said it’s only him.
Some what*
I'm in a long distance relationship with somebody with a libido far lower than mine. Don't push sex on your boyfriend. You messed up here and when it hit the point of argument you fucked up further. Learn how to communicate healthily. You should be able to handle simple shit like that without arguing.
So you're a no life neet """"""dating""""""" a guy long distance. Is he also a no life neet of some description?
I'm definitely gunna lock in my answer. He's uncomfortable about sex and sexuality. You're upset by his phrasing of his response, but then you also got exactly what you were asking for by repeatedly pushing on a button he doesn't like being pushed on. If he's a virgin and has trouble with sex stuff I'd say he's also extremely insecure about it and you're making it out to be your problem instead of understanding that it's literally his problem.
w-h-o-r-e
It’s nothing like you’re saying, we do sexual stuff, and have even met in real life. We’ve been dating two years now, it’s just the frequency of it isn’t practically non-existent.
I guess. I know I should be more understanding but it’s just frustrating.
Does phone sex count as premarital sex?
He clearly stated that you ARE NOT IMPORTANT to him.
I get that you may feel stuck, but now is the time to form an exit plan.
You need to leave.
Not unless insertion of the phone is involved, but I wouldn't believe anyone if they claimed they stopped at dick pics
>insertion of the phone
So if op just sets her phone to vibrate, it's fine?
Yes, but barely
>Bf in the middle of an argument tells me
Don't take too seriously sigle sentences during an argument. You two were basically fighting, and in this kind of situation a lot of things are only said in self defense or out of rage.
Other than that, it seems like an harsh response to a "I do so much for you" talk from your part. Now i can't know who was right, but as a general rule it's no good to point out how much you do, because you make it seem like you do things expecting to get something else in return. Although this is normal and probably fair to a certain degree, the golden rule should be that you do something because you feel good about it, and not to have things in return or to make feel others guilty about it.
My ex said that to me quite a few times too. Drove me crazy cause she didn't do much for me at all. You guys need to communicate better. Especially long distance. If he is not in the mood you have to accept that. Just like he needs to make sure you are getting what you need too.