User's who text their bf/gf or SO every single day... what the hell do you fuckers talk about?

Idek why I'm asking because I'm not optimistic about ever getting a gf. But in case I do:
Am I supposed to text her every day? Or would that turn it into a boring relationship?

quantity =/= quality
my ex boyfriend can find someone better than me, but I can't find someone better than him

The fact that the new boyfriend will be with you as opposed to not being with you automatically makes him better than your ex. You can't compare a current boyfriend to an ex because having the ex is not an option (unless it were in which case you'd just be with your ex again).

you could say "good morning" everyday to start a conversation...
and I don't get why you would date someone you don't even feel comfortable talking to. You're supposed to just say whatever comes into your mind.

I wouldn't feel comfortable talking to someone just for the sake of talking. I'm worried it might be one of those things people do or expect others to do, against their own good, just because they fear it's a social requirement.

We only text stuff like "good morning babe!" and "miss you" some times a day with some emojis. We also do stuff like inviting the other to do something (like a friend's b-day) or banter. Nothing that feels artificial, don't worry, you will know the exact amount of text you and your future gf will need in a day.

Honestly I wish I had more meaningful conversations with my gf, nothing super deep, just talking about some anime or game we are watching/playing, something more than just banter. But I like it as it is right now.

It's not a social requirement, you just need to find someone who wouldn't be offended/sad because of that

Banter can be used in the sense that someone has it. Meaning that this person is charismatic and funny.
It can also be used in the sense that something that the person said was funny or amusing.
Its been just a standard work where im from for as long as i can remember, but im from Scotland so idk

I dated someone over the summer and we were so awful at texting, we'd only text to agree to meet up. We still text sometimes (I study abroad hence why it wasn't too serious) but nothing too long.

It doesn't bother me because I had people text me constantly in the past and I find it annoying fast. In my opinion, as long as you and your gf/bf live close to each other and can meet often, there's no point in texting all the time. Save the conversation when you're face-to-face with each other

Mostly sent memes back and forth.
Our days, random stories, future plans, jokes, politics, sending music back and forth.

I can give my opinion on this: me and my gf have been through some serious problems because of this, because she is clinfy/needy of social (and meaningful) interaction ,while when I'm alone I want to be alone most of the time.
We don't have much to discuss seriously, and I give her good mornings and nights, but since these problems arose I've been paranoid about
the quantity of the messages and if they are satisfactory for her. the feeling of "having to" write something is constantly in the back of my mind and sometimes it just frustrates me more than it should.
It's getting a bit better because I've made clear of what I am and she is beginning to accepting it, but my feeling of duty regarding this issue didn't entirely disappear.

We talk about the day and the things that are going on. Sometimes I text her stuff about how I can't concentrate at work because all I think about is her naked body and perfect tits

Stuff like that, it's not difficult

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just things that remind me of them or wholesome memes like pic related

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You right tho Not OP

depends how clingy they are. I am very very needy and it pisses me off when we don't talk, as my bf is basically the only person I talk to and after having one i became addicted to human contact

Mostly just random shit, old jokes, whatever. I'm of the same school of thought as OP, but gf wants to constantly talk from morning till night

my gf is always texting about some guy flirting with her

My BF and I talk all day long barring when working or at some other event; we don't live together so it's just general minutiae of every day life.
He tends to be the one that likes to text more while I'd rather meet up in person as often as possible tho.

JUST

Kids these days can't handle the bantz for they know not what they are.

Kek. This

My gf does the same thing, every once in a while. I'm beginning to believe that she's just feeling a bit insecure (she has anxiety) and wants to feel desired. So, my default approach is to say something along the lines of "Well, he's got a good eye, but can you blame me if I want you all to myself?"

You're an absolute state of a human

Sometimes we just say lovey dovey stuff about how we love each other, sometimes we just talk about his new shoes he's about to buy, or the thing he drew in his notebook, or sometimes we send each other nudes and get off to them. So, anything, basically

t.femanon

>the news
>common interests
>random jokes + insite jokes
>our day
>plans
>sweet bullshit
>lewd stuff
I literally could talk to this guy 20 hours a day tho.

Yeah same here. It's weird cause we are pretty much always together, we live together and also work at the same company.

We've been in a relationship for 1.5 years now and we aren't sick of being constantly with eachother. Feels like I'm more and more in love with him, I wonder if it's normal. I know most couples cannot stand to be always together, but it works for us.

Having to text someone every day and check in all the time would be suffocating as fuck. Why do people do this and why do so many people make this like a fucking requirement?

British expression that either means riffing (making jokes or tongue-in-cheek comments and observations back and forth on the same topic, building off of each other), or if it's with friends, it can also mean relentlessly insulting and giving them shit in a humorous way back and forth (in an lowkey loving way).

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Usually when it's done it's not in a suffocating, obligatory way. If two people are texting each other every day, it's usually because they want to and genuinely care about each other enough that they want to know what they're up to and stuff.

We're just at the 1 year mark now. We talk literally all day, either in person or through text, or on the phone.
We're even pretty introverted in general and we're the only people we enjoy talking to this amount.

I enjoy it. I wake up in the morning and before even drinking coffee, pissing or washing my teeth I think "I want to text my boyfriend goodmorning". Something fun happens to me? Want to tell my boyfriend. Something bad happens to him? He's going to rant about it with me.

I don't know, we just like each other.

Any random crap really. We have amazing chemistry and tons of shared interests though. I feel for people who don’t have much in common with their SO.

>text
we text constantly and talk AT THE VERY LEAST for 1 whole hour a day.
Fuck off lovelet.

>I feel for people who don’t have much in common with their SO.

>tfw spent 4 hours commenting on autistic people we stalk online with my boyfriend

What if nothing is worth bringing up

Snazy.

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>I've made clear of what I am
And she's made clear what she is, now you'll find a middle way

At this point it's mostly memes, finances and the Jews

That's great and all but God forbid you miss a day or don't text back immediately. Shits ridiculous. I've seen too many friends be slaves to their phones or have to "check in with the Mrs" before they can go do anything. It's depressing to watch.

And the days where you don't feel like saying good morning or texting him about your day? Does he flip out about not hearing from you? Do you flip out because you don't hear from him?

>that's great and all but God forbid you miss a day or don't text back immediately
Hahahaha enjoy being in a shit relationship

What Ive been doing, what theyve been doing, funny things I thought of or read, random thoughts that popped into my head which turn into convos about a topic, what we're going to do later, etc

I wake up and he's a work, so I text
"Good morning, hows it going?"
If something noteworthy happens I text that when it happens, if I think of something noteworthy, etc.
If he texts back he will tell me what he's doing, which might lead into a convo about some particular thing.
If it's later in the day I might be thinking about him wishing he was home and text "Miss you, love you."
He will sometimes text that he misses me, or text because some random thing happened he wants to tell me.

Heard that one before, thanks.

marryfag here

>>lunchinggg
>how are you
>how is work
>>not bad blah blah
>> i love you
>i love you too
>did you mean to do xyz household thing
>>omg sorry
>it's ok im not mad you're awesome
>>thing happened at work
>lol wtf
>>w/e anyway OMG GEOTUS LOL
>ikr mah nigga
>>[memes]
>[cat pictures]
>>fuck my lunch is done
>>did you eat your san
>not yet but it's delicious thank you i love you
>hello??
>did you go back already
>come on
>what the fuck is your problem

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That sounds like it becomes an emotionless copy and paste response after a while, making it pointless.

You make it sound like it's a fucking chore. If you're a relationship with someone you truly care about, you never want to miss a day talking to them. Texting becomes something you want to, not something you have to do. It sounds like you're not all that invested in your relationship

Mostly send dick pics, shit's cash

How the fuck can you be a functioning adult and not know what banter is? It's playful conversation, lots of wit and jokes and some teasing.

And before you ask me what the point is of doing this with your bf/gf over text every day, the point is that you enjoy each other. Even when you're not physically together you can be having fun conversation, and having fun is its own reward. In a lot of cases, sharing positive (fun) memories with someone serves to significantly deepen the strength of feelings between two people.

I've been with her for 7 years. We've run out of things to talk about.

Now it's just repetitive stuff like "good morning", "I love you", "I miss you", "how you doing". Pretty mundane everyday stuff. I'm a boring person.

Bro you're alive. How do you run out of things to talk about? There's literally endless possibilities

Me and my bf talk shit to each other, but in a teasing way, exchange pics, memes, talk about building a life together/future plans, funny shit that happened to us (I ended up getting shitfaced drunk, straddled him in the back of van, and told him my feelings which was what made us a thing. And there's a lot of other sit-com like shit that happened), and say "I love you's", "good morning", "goodnight", etc.

We're both very open-minded and chill, so we can talk about anything for hours on end.

So basically banter.

The social norm here is to keep contact almost all the time but it really depends on how clingy the girl is.
I mainly talked about bantz, good/bad things about her day or shit we liked (series, books, manga, movies).

I'm a girl and would absolutely hate it if a guy texted my good morning every day. A guy I went to school with texted me for a while (he was into me, I wasn't into him but was too shy to say that) and would do that kinda thing and it's just horrible. Talking just to talk is pointless.
If a girl expected you to text her everyday but didn't communicate that or text you everyday herself then it's not your fault. You are too worried about it, just do what's natural.

I don't do anything with my life besides work, gym, and Jow Forums. Work is boring. Gym is monotonous. Jow Forums is weird.

Yeah, a lot of that. haha. We also link each other articles about prosthetics/interesting shit, have ylyl games, tease with pics to get each other horny (since we're long distance at the moment), and cam whenever we have free time from uni. There's a lot of things to do. Just need to be with someone who's really open

Because it is a fucking chore. I'm not sure if you've ever made it past the honey moon phase but Christ on a cracker I don't want to constantly check in with her and validate my love for her. It's insufferable.

Not that user, but me and bf are well past the honeymoon phase. But, we can still talk about fun shit, and enjoy each other's company. We talk every day, but the thing is, there is no obligations to do so. We both want to.

Texting and talking on the phone is not for everyone, but I think if you find the right person, you'd want to do the same, and have a lot of cool things to talk to them about.

You sound awful to be in a relationship with. I feel bad for your gf. You sound pretty selfish too. I bet you don't even go down on her

Talk about your day
Make fun of people
Plans for the future
Make silly business ideas
Talking through problems each other are facing
Get each others perspective on things
Tell them you miss them or whatever we

That's basically my life too. You gotta learn how to make the boring interesting. Because 90% of life is pretty boring if you want to look at it that way. But it's fun to find the humor or interesting stuff in it.