I'm in a mess and I still haven't realized it

I'm in a mess and I still haven't realized it.
I fucked twice a married woman, I knew since the beginning that she was married but I still pursued her, after getting to know her, keep teasing and flirting with her, we went to bed after a "friendly movie night" and fucked almost the whole night. 2 days later she wanted to come to my apartment to discuss what happened and needless to say, it happened again.
Her husband currently lives in China due to his work.
She keeps messaging me wanting to go on dates and we already went twice to cafes or taking walks. She says that she doesn't understand why she doesn't feel bad for her husband since he used to physically abuse her.

I feel like I should just let it go since this won't go anywhere but at the same time I really like her a lot.

Have you ever been the lover of someone? How did it go? I feel like I am going to start a shitstorm.

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Tell her you want her to get a divorce or you'll have to go. If she stalls she'll miss you, if she caves you've got a nice girl. Don't believe the "all cheaters" meme it's stupid. Just blend your life with hers more if she leaves him, chances are since he's working all the time he's checked out on her.
Take it slow.

the thing that concerns me the most is the fact that he tried to choke her once and apparently I am the only one to know about this. If some shit happens I don't want his hands around her neck again.

The "I've been abused" line is either true and a cry for help, or something she is making up to get attention.

Some women are melodramatic and some women, frankly, are so hysterical they need to be slapped now and again to be put in their place. Not hard to tell which is which.

There's no reason to feel bad about sleeping with a married women once or twice if it was an honest mistake. We're all human beings, we all get into fits of loneliness or feel urges to do things we really ought not to do. Everyone gets into bad states of mind in their relationships.

An affair on the other hand, you want nothing to do with. That's when you get into a relationship with a married women. It's an emotional rollercoaster for you, hell on any kids, and rough on the husband. He's invited this drama by not being there for her. He had better be paid literal boatloads of money in China to be over there for this to be worth it.

You both need to be honest about your intentions and need to be organized about them, otherwise that'll make the situation worse. The only advice I can provide you is Love is hard to come by these days.

If you want to persue her, don't sleep with her again until things with her husband are settled. Give her some guidance and support; help her bring the shitstorm to a head. She should tell him she feels like she can't continue the relationship without him being there. If his response is to beat her, let her know she should take the beating, call the police, and use that as grounds for a divorce and you will back her, make sure she, and any kids she has, have a safe place to stay as things settle out. Once that is over with, then you can date her.

Tell her to file for divorce or you're done. If she's done with him and truly wants to be with you, she'll do so. If not, then you need to move on unless you want to deal with her husband when (not if, when) he finds out about you two.

It'd be unfortunate to see you three make the headlines for a double murder/suicide. Think carefully and be cautious.

If it is not you, then it will be someone else that she cheats on him with.

I think I should move on. This looks more like lust than a possible love interest.

Show some restraint you animal. Get your own woman. Even if their marriage falls apart she isn't for you.

>He had better be paid literal boatloads of money in China to be over there for this to be worth it.
Dunno about that but I know that they rarely see each other due to this. Last time was in March.

That’s what all cheating chicks say “abuse” or “neglect”. It’s to justify their cheating so they don’t have to deal with the one thing chicks can’t stand bros, accountability for their actions. She isn’t worth shit user sorry.