>Was meant to be getting married next week to the love of my life
>Told me this morning she cheated and she's breaking up with me
How do I deal with this? The pain is immeasurable, I haven't eaten anything today and I feel like im going to throw up. Ive spent all day looking for the tallest nearest bridge on google maps to jump off
Try to get through today. Write off doing anything productive. Just try to make it through the rest of the day. Treat it like you’ve got the flu. Stay hydrated, eat a little if you can, sleep if you can, call off work. Just try to pass the time during this immediate aftermath period.
Should I kill her?
No, you should sit around your home and wait for some time to pass, 1-2 weeks.
Phew she barely escaped marriage with a loser
Fuck you, why do I deserve this?
May I have her engagement ring? (Please ask for it back).
Holy shit you might actually be super lucky. Imagine if you found out about this a month later instead. That would be much worse.
count your blessings, opie. she told you that she cheated. think of how much worse you would have felt if you had married this bitch and found out later? you are free to do as you please but there is no need to make this feeling of dread a habit. Remember how it makes you feel and then move on. Have a smoke, take a walk. Read a fucking book and move on with your life.
It happened something similar to me once, but it is better this way, as they say imagine doscovering it a week after this, there are plenty of good women, just forget her, shell miss you, i promise it, dont call her, dont answer unless you think you can forgive her and she begs for it, if she doesnt really trys it just move, cause she will do it again, stay down, cry for 2 week till you are fed up and then you will have given the first step to getting a better life, man, dont harm her, you are better than her, and if you damage her, you will go prision and really really ruin your life, cheer up man
My boi but why do you think that guy is better than you? There must be a very good reason why she chose him over you. Would he make such a thread on 4ch if one of his bitches dumped him? Maybe he's more of a man than you are hence more valuable for a female?
Not the user you're replying to, but to answer your question: You don't. Or maybe you do. Fuck if I know, but let's assume you don't.
She's the piece of shit here, and YOU'VE just escaped marrying that. It would have been worse if this happened a few months/years down the line. Are you lucky? Obviously not, not in the true sense of the word, but you're lucky enough to have dodged that shit.
The pain will last a long time. Perhaps, dare I say it, a 'very long' time. You will get over it. It's not worth killing yourself for. You have many years left, don't let that bitch ruin that. If you off yourself, you won't be proving a point. At the worst she'll feel really bad about it and cry until your cucker rails the sadness out of her. At worst they'll bang it out on your grave. Neither of those outcomes is to your benefit.
It's best to live OP, to live. Even if it's a shit NEET life, and let's face it my guy, you're probably not in that camp, given that you were on the verge of marrying an actual living women. You're miles ahead of 99% of the cunts in this dump, myself included.
Living is better than entering the absolute void that no doubt awaits us upon death early. Delay that, and when the time comes, I'll see you there buddy.
Now go get drunk and masturbate or something. Maybe to old photos of her. Just fucking jerk it out until you've objectified her to a point where it's no longer possible to feel anything towards her visage but abject boredom.
you're the fucking looser and you know it
does answering to my post twice makes you feel any better my boi?
Im not OP, just someone who can sympathise with him.
user, honestly, tell us the truth this could be very important.
Have you at any time talked about Pepe, showed her Pepe.jpgs, uttered the words "rare pepe" or lord forbid showed her your Pepe folder. Be honest to us and yourself here.
Bro my girl left me with my 2yr old daughter about 4.5 months ago and today is the best day I’ve had in over a year. Starting to feel like the person I was before we got together and I’m so happy I didn’t get stuck with that lazy narcissistic cunt. It’s like she can sense it too because she started texting me nice shit asking how I’m doing like 4 days ago but hellz no. Other chicks can sense it too because I was in a good mood just singin on the way home and two girls in a Jeep waved and blew kisses at me. I was really considering suicide just 3 weeks ago. I got off my ass and just started doing shit that needed to be done and went out had a few drinks at the bar sat night and bam yesterday started to feel better and today I feel great! I don’t even want to make her jealous or let her know how happy I am I don’t even give a fuuuuuck, can’t wait to get my daughter this weekend we’re going to have a bomb ass time! You will make it bro! Read the alchemist or download the audiobook off piratebay. Your better off withought that cheating cunt, search your heart you know she was selfish. Now she can be some other suckers problem and you can grow, you learned a valuable lesson. Not gonna lie tho you have to withdraw from the peptides and shit so like the other poster said treat it like the flu just chill and watch some anime or something for like a week or two. Good luck scro! Jow Forums has your back!
Holy shit dude, you know what’s more pathetic than this guys post? Your post, does it make you feel good to kick a fellow user when he’s down? What’s wrong you mad because he actually had a gf and your a virgin incel faggot? Holy shit dude I would rather be this guy than you anyday, go outside and get some excercise you fat pos. Jesus Christ..
you're transforming from a bitch fucker to a real man, it will hurt for a long time, but that is reality of life, life is painful - so prepare for a number of hits like this throughout your life
So what, you had the hall rented, the invitations sent, the tuxes rented, the DJ booked, the priest hired, and you got the wedding license? And after all that she backed out?
>How do I deal with this?
Thank God that she showed her true colors before you got married.
I had to divorce after 15 years because of a cheating skank and it's much worse.
I'm sorry for you user
But life does get much better.
Man... you're lucky it was before marriage or the humilliation would have been higher with children in the middle. You will suffer a lot for some time, but this is natural selection, find another girl to like as soon as you can at least to forget her
It was her ex-boyfriend from college.
>Tfw she told me she never really got over him even during our entire relationship
Yes all of that. Everything organized, everything set up to be the best day of our lives. Even just yesterday we were talking about logistics and she was talking to her brother about arrangements for him to fly out from Australia for the wedding. It was if nothing could have gone wrong.
>Tfw I went to bed last night the happiest I've been in years and woke up with her telling me she is in love with another man
Don't know whether to kill myself out of depression or kill her out of anger
Welp better start canceling shit and trying to recover money. Hopefully you were going traditional and it was her parents paying, because there’ll be a lot of nonrefundable fees at this point.
Wew lad I don't even believe a woman when she says she's totally over a guy especially if she's still in contact with him or otherwise affected by his presence. She straight up told you she wasn't over him and you tried to marry her anyways. You live and you learn but you will be okay. Listen to this guy , it's probably the best post in the thread
No sorry I meant that she told me today that she had never gotten over him. She never mentioned him during the relationship, but throughout the whole 3 years she says she has been thinking about him and recently they got back in contact and she says she realized she still loves him
There’s no way this is your first sign of trouble, a week before the wedding.
Well, it could be worsem OP. At least this way you don't have to give her half of your shit.
>I'm sorry for you user
This is the very reason your girl cheated on you.
Since you already paid, might as well have a party...
>>I'm sorry for you user
>This is the very reason your girl cheated on you.
You're not wrong.
After we got divorced I carefully considered if I should change and decided I did not want to. So I found a hot nurturing woman 15 years younger than my ex-wife that understands me and threw my efforts into my business.
I have a group of very loyal employees that respect me, make a shit ton of money and I make sure I pin my wife to the bed. If you're alpha everywhere else, you can get away with hugging puppies when you see them.
>Making up lies anonymously on the internet
It's yourself your fooling not me
>pin my wife to the bed
Haha
>15 years younger than my wife
Nice incremental number
>My business
What's that then, architect?
>If you're alpha everywhere else, you can get away with hugging puppies when you see them.
Fucking hell just stop.
You sound like a bullshitter to me mate.
My HSSH left after 6 weeks of marriage to fuck some guy who was clearly was a red flag.
I was devastated . we made up and made love in the morning and that night it was over because she "wasn't happy" when in reality she just wanted to fuck some guy.
It was right before Christmas, she cancelled our honey moon, it was during my finals, 2 months before my birthday. I couldn't stay in the house because we got married in the back yard of the house I let her pick out. It was on the 11th anniversary of us exchanging our virginity.
She was the only girl I'd ever been with.
Almost a year later and i can't tell you how much happier I am with my life than I ever was with her. Better shape, more friends, better hobbies, finishing up school, amazing girlfriend who we completely click and i think I might actually know what falling in love feels like now.
It was hard op, i thought about tapping out but don't . lift, learn to dance, hobbies, friends, career,hit on women, see a therapist ,write a lot. It'll be way better than what you had before- promise