>Meet 8/10 at, essentially, a club >She calls me handsome >We make out >She shit tests me >I coincidentally watched a "what are shit tests" video where the first thing that came up is exactly what she did to me >Pass the shit test >Continue making out with her periodically >Gets super raunchy to the point I was feeling a little embarrassed(Kissing my erection through my pants on the dance floor ffs) >Get her number all the same, >Find out, no joke, that she's the little sister of a guy who used to stick up for me when I got bullied as a middleschooler >Was also my oneitis(But I never had the courage to speak to her) at that same time.
Everything after "8/10," to "get her number," feels like a series of commie tier red flags.
I just feel hopeless right now. I'm 22, and that's young, but the way all this transpired has me feeling like I'll never find anyone I can have a meaningful relationship with. It feels like girls are all willing to be sluts when it's convenient, and every time I've opened up to one she's ghosted, no matter how sweet or kind they seem.
Is sluttiness just something I'll have to accept? Is openness and honesty just something I'll need to learn to live without?
Dang man, it's not that big a deal. So she grinded ya on the dance floor while you were cringing big woop.
She's only the bad kind of ho if she cheats on you or is leading you along for her sick enjoyment.
Sounds like it's wild, young, and nice
I'm Mo and you're Duff Man right now.
Nother beer?
Jose Perez
>making out with a random girl at a club
I have a question. How do you know she wasn’t making out with another guy just before you? Girls like that are very slutty...
Ayden Turner
Lol. You don’t meet nice girls at clubs, bars, or Tinder... they only attracted a certain type of girl (sluts)
Lincoln Baker
I don't
My girl friend at university, and her gay flat mate have been alluding to trying to hook me up with their Canadian friend training to be a nurse.
I don't have much confidence as, I guess, I've come to believe that the problem isn't all the girls that ghost me when I start showing appreciation/affection but me as a whole.
Her friend did say this girl was in an open relationship with a bisexual dude, but this friend did also ask me to fuck her in exchange for help getting an uber.
Andrew Hernandez
>Her friend did say this girl was in an open relationship with a bisexual dude, but this friend did also ask me to fuck her in exchange for help getting an uber.
Jeez Duff man you're a regular pimp. Yeah it's probably just cause you socialize with alocholics.
nother beer?
Gavin Johnson
yes they will. just fuck the pussy. it wants to be fucked. go fuck it
Matthew Brooks
>STDS are a myth
you guys are killing yourselves with your lack of thinking
just wear a condom for god sakes. even that won't do shit against the bad cases
Nicholas Watson
I lurked a lot of self improvement threads. They really made a difference, I have to admit.
Yeah, I'd definitely wear a condom.
Asher Miller
Really your choice man. You said She's the sister of a guy who stuck up for you though so I'd think about the bro code but when you habe a bitch who wants you it's a tough decision.
Colton Robinson
Here is a solid piece of advice-
NICE girls don’t with dudes they don’t know. NICE girls don’t sexualize themselves to strangers at clubs or dating apps
Adrian Wright
Many people forget that there are STDs condoms don’t protect against. One of my friends got Herpes on his balls from a tinder girl. He said he used a condom, but it only protects what’s covered
Gavin Hill
this
t. wanted to only have sex with his fwb (also my exgf) and she made fun of why i wanted that because "condoms are there for protection"
people are retarded. I fucking hate modern society. People are encouraged now more than ever to be “sexually liberated” but when someone gets an STD they are shocked like “omg how could this happen??”.
Random people carry diseases. They are especially dangerous because they likely don’t have your well-being at heart. In the case of my friend, the tinder girl never told him. He tried to contact her months later but she never replied. He happened to run into her in public and he confronted her and all she said was “well... sorry!”
Charles Edwards
>well .. sorry >Jesus what the fuck is his problem
Lincoln Sanders
Where do I find "nice" girls.
Benjamin Evans
she didn’t see the need to tell him she was diseased because she didn’t have any attachment or value of him. She just wanted to ride his dick for a night. This is the problem of casual sex that many people ignore. Condoms didn’t save his scrotum from her disease at uni, particularly in intellectual classes
Jack Sanchez
Well, that's reassuring.
Maybe I'll try talking to some people.
Julian Brown
girls who try to become sexual right away are not nice girls.
Nice girls actually want to get to know a guy before doing anything.
Luke Sanders
He's an idiot for not stuffing his balls in there
Matthew Price
There was one girl that made me wait like that, but I gave up. She wasn't so pretty. Really nice, really driven, would have been a great mother but just physically unattractive.
I know this will attract disgust but looks are important, especially at my age. I'm still waiting on a girl like her but better.
Lincoln Martin
Let me tell you guys something
>51% of humans are women >Vast Majority are straight and want children- just their nature
>49% of humans are male >Large portion gay >large portion sexually inactive >large portion not wanting wife and children
>The remaining are the gatekeepers to what women want most
Tell me again who has the power here.
Also this will tell you why soooo many women are total sluts now
Just another bush by the road
Logan Reyes
Attractive nice girls do exist. But you need to stop clubbing or using tinder if you want to find them, most of them don’t like man whores either.
Liam Martin
The thing that confused me is I don't get much attention at all at university. I get smiles every now and then but if I don't smile back(something my perma-angry face makes hard) in time they'll literally never even look at me again.
Yet on nights out, I get numbers like nothing and, like the night I described in the OP, sometimes even more.
I never know what to say when sober. It usually takes me a couple weeks of knowing someone before I'm my comfortable self.
Luis Fisher
You need common ground. The good thing is with being a uni student you already have common ground. It is even easier if they are in class with you, you see them everyday, so you have a reason to be around them. Ask them about class
