If I become muscular, can I get girls to want to be with me? Will they want to hug me...

...if you're introverted and don't go out much how fucked do you think you are if you were to honestly describe yourself and your present hobbies? If you dont like that, you cant have your cake and eat it too, meeting people involves being outgoing, and being outgoing usually involves going out. Like said, a girl isnt going to want to stay inside, play videogames, remain relatively low energy all day, "do nothing today", when they're usually much more socially inclined than any dude im friends with.

If you intend to change your physique and nothing else reminder beauty is only skin deep/in the eye of the beholder.

Then just become the girl, are you cute?

Why would a girl want to approach an unfit, antisocial person? What do you have that would make anyone want to approach you? Grow up and be proactive about your life

This
I only do bodyweight and look good, but what working out did for me more was change my head around.

Sorry for three posts in one adv thread so quick but my advice when thinking about getting a partner is to imagine your ideal partner, imagine who would be beside them and enabling them to lead a mutually enriched fulfilling life, then ask yourself why you're not that man and put in the anxiety, stress, and failures necessary to become him.

More like "disgustingly effeminate". I also have glasses and really long hair.

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Unironically best post on this board
Sums up what I think perfectly.
If you want a qt gf or a chad bf, why not make yourself the other equivalent?

I just feel too dumb to make myself more outgoing. I'm extremely ashamed of myself.

>he thinks lifting for girls will do anything

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Retards have no social skills or regard for social boundaries hence why the supertsrds need be institutionalized lest they go out in the world asking to lick random cashiers' faces.

Are you too stupid to be outgoing when you're smart enough to recognize you have an internal problem, or are you depressed, demoralized, unmotivated and either lazy or unwilling to do something to change your current life which you're not happy with and express you directly want to change by becoming more appealing? Years are burning that you'll never get back and your only wall to scale is you stopping yourself from beginning to try.

Short answer, no.

Long answer: being muscular alone will not win you the war OP. Traits like confidence, charisma, social skills and being an interesting guy are vastly superior than having big biceps or a nice chest. Me personally, i look at working out as the icing on the cake. It will make you appear a bit more handsome and hot.

But if you lack the other traits i just mentioned, muscles alone will not save you. Period.

t. a guy who has been lifting for 5 years.

I don't know. I just feel like there is no point in me trying to talk to girls, it's just unreachable. I'm unable to actually process the thought of me starting a conversation with a girl.

So long as you need the contact in that desperation it will evade you.
That's basically how things work, because there's no one way to 'get' things and so it very much becomes a matter of if opportunities present themselves in life. This is why we tell you to hakuna your tatas and think about enjoying the small things and silver lining in life. All this focus on how to get hugged and you're missing out on actual opportunity and stymying your potential.

If you can't manage to sustain yourself, you'll need someone to sustain you-- and if you need sustenance but can't provide your own, you will be dealing with rejection for a while...

If you're going to be the person who says you failed at solving a basic problem before you attempt to do the math that's on you. Noone js coming to do it for you or to make it easier and it starts when you start. Be as late to the beginning as you'd like, you're your own worst enemy shooting yourself down. Life doesnt't care about how you feel producing results or becoming able to produce results, it cares about results.

I always saw myself as my own worst enemy, constantly making me fail at everything, user.

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Recognizing you have a problem is the first step to changing it. Change or rot, take care of yourself because the only person who can take care of you and work out these types of internal mental walls is you, therapy might help, counselling might help, but they're just going to help nudge you into acting upon making changes happen rather than wishing they'd magically happen.

yes its natures law

We can mope back and forth about you feeling hopeless for a few more replies, but Ive been there with friends who want their life to change but dont want to put in the work and initiative/take the leap. They're too afraid of failure to ever reach success, and still to this day theyve changed nothing and keep on keeping on in their own unhappiness even they know isnt working out for them and must be changed. Change or rot.

You can easily go up one or two points in attractiveness if you fix easily fixable stuff like hair that doesn't compliment you or ugly glasses. A nice body is always a plus. You'll notice getting more female attention as you put on some visible muscle mass.
But looking good doesn't cure autism and doesn't change the fact that most women don't take the first step. They'll approach you regulqrly if you're a 8/10 but few men are that good looking. For the rest of us it's breaking the ice that gets us women. Visit Jow Forums, lokig better for the sake of getting women is one of the main themes of that board

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Do you spend time with other men doing stuff like sports, going to the pub etc?

Yep, I play badminton. I started two weeks ago (First time I ever took up a sport with other people in my life), but I don't drink alcohol, so I never go to bars or the like.

>a girl isnt going to want to stay inside, play videogames, remain relatively low energy all day, "do nothing today"
So all girls are extroverts?

Keep going to badmington practice. Doing social stuff like that is the way out of your bubble.

>my girlfriend literally does
Stop adopting worldviews that are "all people subscribe to a single principle"
It's patently retarded and if you aren't painfully aware of how wrong it is, you don't deserve to be taken seriously or treated like an adult.