>Why can't I threaten my way into gf?
/pol lied to me about hypergamy
>I thought it was based upon a guy's ability to provide for the woman's offspring and protect them.
it's not that. that helps and can contribute to the cool/fun part, but if you're too weird or creepy or boring then it cancels out any benefits the money offers. remember paul allen the billionaire co-founder of microsoft? the guy was a total dork and never married. he wasn't gay, he could not talk to women.
good post. But the "alpha fucks beta bucks" line is a bit confusing. I think I figured it out though. Another user said women are hypergamous in the context of status. And these soibois certainly have more status in their relative social circles. I'm not a part of their social circles.
i will be real with you, recently i talked with a friend "why smelly nig gets poon but not me", the conclusion was i didnt want a mate, i wanted to get into a situation where a woman threats me like a beta provider so that i could SHOW HER (vengence was the main motivator nothing else), + i thought i was entieled to pussy by virtue of wanting some. I can guarantee you, either your initial reason to date a girl is off which they smell from miles or your mentality on that topic is somewhat offputting for the girls you actually desire. Test it out for once by whatever your view on the situation of girls is, try to think its the complete opposite and see how far that gets you
Western women are garbage tier. There is no point in even pursuing them. You might be one of those white surprmecist types who want only white children and blah blah blah, but you are only setting yourself up for future disappointment when Tyrone is banging your ex wife and raising your kids most of the week while you wait to see them on the weekend. If you want a real woman, who knows how to treat a husband, and hasn’t had a full football team already run through her vagina, you need to find a nice traditional, catholic girl from a place like the Philippines. Your kids will also be good looking, white and Filipino is a good mix, unlike most other Asian races where your kid will just look Asian and become the next Tenda Spencer and complain about being an incel on Jow ForumsHapas. Sure you can say “ew jungle Asian, blah blah blah” but it will only be your own demise when your feminist liberal white woman is marching the streets asking for Muslim refugees and stopping by Tyrone’s for some diversity BBC on the way home.
You have no swagger faggot, that shit you can't buy. So you have resorted to buying everything, hoping that that makes them stick around.
You're a retard that will be divorce raped. So keep it up, the roastie will take all your shit and fuck Tyrone on your dime
Fucking faggot.
>I'm not blaming anyone.
Of course you are. This entire thread is you complaining and blaming. Quite pathetic.
And yes, women are hypergamous. The error you made is assuming that every woman you see embraces a wealth-based hierarchy of men. Young women generally DGAF about money. Some want excitement. They will seek the adventurous men. Some want to be dominated. Then will seek the big, assertive bastards. As they get older, many will prioritize family and stability. That's where people like you fit in. Kind of .. 35 w/ $250k in the bank making $85k isn't great, but it isn't terrible.
Bottom line: hypergamy assumes dominance criteria that vary among women based on innate preferences as well as age, culture, etc. Stop whining, stop responding to this thread, step away from the computer, and think on it.
I'd like to personally strangle every fucking faggot who uses absolutely pointless acronyms like
>SOL = shit outta luck
There's thousands of these and they serve no real purpose but to make English less legible to anyone outside the author's bubble.
Are you funny or interesting and not a stage 5 clinger? I’ve talked to girls who’ve gone on dates with lawyers and real estate brokers and been disinterested because the conversation was stale. If you can make a girl laugh and don’t come accross as a desperate creep and can atleast afford to pay the tab on date one, you’re going to get a second date. Its not always about money. It helps, but you have to be a complete package.
>When you meet people, do you, in your mind, judge them as worse/equal/better than you by default?
I look at everyone I meet as inferior to me.
I don't smile much in public. I'm good at conversing with others but I don't like talking about how building a wall is fascist and beaners are our friends. So I don't do it much. I have no idea if I'm easily approachable or what that even entails.