21 yo femanon here im a 3rd yr in university and I recently acquired a bf He's great and we're happy together. But thing is I'm struggling to introduce him to people close to me because he isn't articulate at all. He talks like a frat guy where "bro" and "hella" appear in just about every sentence. I've already had to defend him to some of my friends who said I'm too smart to date a guy like that. Thing is he's a computer science student with scholarship on the dean's honors list. His GPA is higher than mine and I'm heavily invested in my academics. He just ... sounds like a total douchebag on first impression.
I don't have a problem with the way he talks and I'm satisfied knowing he's intelligent. But how can I introduce him to friends and family in a way he doesn't have such a douchey first impression on them???
who gives a shit. don't try to change him because you care what other people think, how stupid is that
Noah Nguyen
it's not him it's your perception of how others will perceive him.
if you truly like him forget about what your friends say.
Tyler Barnes
Whats more important. Man with whom you might spend your whole life together or opinion or some jelly bitches who dont even know him?
Chase Wilson
I'm not trynna change him I'm trying to think of a way that's easier to introduce him to people with some context that doesn't lead them to an immediate impression that he's a dumbass
Like I said before "I don't have a problem with the way he talks and I'm satisfied knowing he's intelligent."
Lucas Evans
Hahahaha jelly bitches got nothin on my kickass relationship :)
It'd just be nice to find an easier way to introduce him to my friends nd relatives that doesn't leave a bad impression that'll take time to work over.
Matthew Hall
Normie problems. Kek. What a joke. Why don't you got to the ghetto and get shot or something? Get a Crack addiction? Run over by a bus? All these seem preferable than having to live with the knowledge that you came to an anonymous imageboard to fish for imaginary social feedback. Do me a favor and die
Bentley Perez
Why are you wasting your time with a guy that sounds like a "douchebag" (white entitled frat guy)? You know deep down the real issue is he is a white entitled frat guy and white entitled frat guys are the pariahs of todays society and it will only get worse for you.
Now if you were dating a ghetto thug barely able to form complete sentences and spoke in rap rhymes socially you would be envied.
So you are at a crossroads
Lincoln Roberts
This. Op, you're outdated. Education and intellect are burdens, not benefits. The dumber a person is, the smarter you are and your kids will be. In fact, the more genetic distance between your intellect and the father's the better. This is because the absolute value of the distance is added to the higher valued individual when determining your offspring's intelligence. For example, using completely arbitrary figures here. You have an intelligence value of, say, 8. Your white, college educated, bad mouthed frat boy probably has an intelligence of 7. That means your kids will have an intelligence of 9. With me? Next, consider the pavement ape with a measurable intelligence of 4. So with yours being 8, your kids' would be expected to possess a whopping 12 intelligence value! It should be clear here that the age of mono-racial relationships, but more importantly, selecting for intelligence, is over. Come to the light, op. Go find the nearest dimwit and let him juice inside you. Hold your legs high and wide, swirling the delicious half-watt sperm inside your vagina. You won't regret it
Jaxon Sanders
Feel free to go hang out in a 3rd world country w/ no access to basic healthcare before you post somethin this stupid again
Nolan Morales
Fuckin sold I'm calling myself a luxury uber to the nearest ghetto will report back with results shortly
Hope the bf wont be mad tho :(
Mason Evans
They’ll get used to him just like you got used to him.
Justin Lewis
So you're dating a brogrammer, nice.
Dominic Gonzalez
What's the matter? Roastie getting roastie? What a joke. You unequivocally deserve to be raped, to have the rape videotapedn to have the videotape uploaded to pornhub, and to have it titled "toastie roastie getting shagged violently." But since it's a verified amateur account, and because you undoubtedly would have expressed explicit pleasure during the rape which the video recorded, no one would assume it was real rape and not just a violent shagging. The video would then peak at #1 for a day in the trending section, but eventually fall to around 5th or 6th until eventually it fades from general memory.
Logan Brown
Look part of going to the ghetto for your dick is driving your own car so he can borrow it
Hudson Hernandez
you're obviously on the wrong board
Michael Green
Keep doubling down. You literally are a running joke. It began long before you, sweety, and will end long after your acidic hole is dried up and useless, and you've been burried by the cats you have in place of real children. It's sad to think such people exist, but alas, it's 2019.
Nathaniel Davis
Roasties absolutely BTFO'd. Noice
Cooper Garcia
Who pissed in your cornflakes buddy?
Anthony Price
Grades and choice of major don't indicate intelligence. Like congrats? He's capable of declaring a major and organized enough to turn in assignments on time, that doesn't make him smart. School is a responsibility test, not an intelligence test.
If he can't communicate properly then he's gonna have a hard time going through life. You can't expect people to like someone like that, and you shouldn't need to if you actually do like him.
Next time your friends insult your choices, inform them of the fact that your bfs GPA is higher than yours and therfore definitely higher than theirs
Adam Turner
Your friends sound like judgmental douchebags. "your boyfriend isn't good enough for you because he uses slang, get a better one."
OP, don't be a sheep and follow what your friends say. He's you boyfriend, not theirs. They don't have to like each other, but you friends just sound straight up disrespectful. Don't throw away a dude you like over such petty shit.
Tyler Fisher
people like you need to get cancer and die suffering isnt a fucking competition, some people are lucky than others. most people know this.
we are all eating the same shit sandwich
Gabriel Reed
thats so specific im pretty sure thats just your fantasy porno.
go outside you fucking degenerate
Cameron Nguyen
take comfort in the fact that everyone here would drop everything to become a normal member of society and literally every single bit of this rape threat hatred roastie bullshit is just jealously
Eli Jenkins
I'll attest to that haha It may not be the easiest thing to introduce him to my friends but he's fantastic at parties
Logan Powell
you never studied computer science did ya
Oliver Jackson
you just gave me the perfect term to describe my bf from now on tysm
Cameron James
hes a retard, if it looks like a duck and acts like a duck for all intents and purposes its a duck you will regret it but whatever, keep believing your judgement is great
Carter Smith
sorry that girl you like didn't text you back hun
Jaxon Wood
true that and i mean hey if i found happiness and im a shithead who posts on here maybe they'll get their shot one day too
