Those who lost their virignity at a late age, can you share your experiences with old virgins here? 30yo khv here, probably going to lose it to a hooker soon. I don't want to but I don't see any other way.
Anyway, what was it like? What surprised you? What turned out to be the best and the owrst part of the experience?
Losing virginity late
>Anyway, what was it like? What surprised you? What turned out to be the best and the owrst part of the experience?
I couldn't even get hard the first time I was so nervous, but eventually I got more and could get erections no problem. What surprised my was how tight a girl's vagina is and sticking your dick in one is trickier than you might think (my gf and I did it in the dark at first so it didn't help either. We were both virgins, too) That was the worst part, the awkwardness. The best part for me is probably the intimacy and pleasure you share with a loved one (assuming you're not just fucking a hooker of course)
>but eventually got more
Meant to say more comfortable
wow, how come you still want to lose your virginity? I'm 28 khv and I can't remember the last time I wanted to have sex. Somewhere along the way masturbation became the "thing".
What that other user said.
Why do you even feel the need to do anything more than fap?
Sadpanda exists, you don't need sex.
I had a lot of errection problems, but it got better after 2-3 months of sexual training.
Truns out, i needed to quit porn. but most of all, i needed to learn to relax.
Sex was a performance for me, and that did not excite my dick very much.
It needed to learn to enjoy sex with a partner, because i was so used to masturbating alone.
One night stands did not help at all in this regard (tried one, and one hooker), i needed the time and care of an understanding partner who would not throw me i the trash just because i had some issues.
So, how did i achieve this, because we know any western woman will ultimately reject any non chads they encounter.
I imported.. or rather, i got a thai gf, got her a 3 month visa, and paid her $500 per month to stay with me (or rather, she demanded some help with her bills and sick buffalo etc)..
But im happy that i did anyway, she atleast plays very good theater of being the all caring and loving wife. She is very easy to get seduce. Probably a sociopath, or something like that, but i've gone so far now i cannot really back out. I need this lady in my life in some way.
It wasn't as great as I thought it was going to be. It did somewhat help psychologically for a brief time, but then I became sadder. Realizing that I chased something for so many years, and it didn't make me happy in the end.
I didn't pay for a hooker though, thank god.
28 here. lost it to a hooker.
it was boring but it definitely took a MASSIVE weight out of my shoulders.
no regrets.
lost it when i was 26 yo, to a girl i had no feelings with.
Sex felt overrated, i couldnt cum, i was just hard, and its something that with time you get more used to the person and the anxiety decreases.
But don't worry, sex is instinctive.
And I recommend you doing more times and with different people to really know what good sex is about
I had sex once at 21 and wasn't able to cum.
now I'm 28 and my libido is shit and my erections are weak even while masturbating.
I'm terrified that if I ever get with a girl again I'm going to have horrible sexual dysfunction.
what do I do? there is a girl I'm almost sure wants to hook up with me (we fooled around a bit a few weeks ago) but I don't want to fail to perform and I don't think she's the type that would be nurturing and forgiving about screwing that up.
Stretch out the foreplay until you are rock hard
Lost it at 30 to my gf. Couldn’t finish at first until I got used to it and stopped watching porn everyday. Takes practice to be enjoyable.
No such thing as 'losing virginity at a late age', nevermind what the LARPers ITT are trying to tell you, unless it's to a hooker, but it makes no difference.
If you haven't got a gf by 20, you never will.
Basement-dwelling incel giving advice on sex: the post.
>i-i can't refute him!
>i know, i'll call him an incel instead! that'll show him!
top normie desu
Lol i never got a gf so far and i am 28 so i guess i can just rope myself.
But hey i got sucked by 6 girls in 2 months and fucked 5 of them. I dont know man there are a lot of girls who will do stuff for money. And was a kv before that..
I paid a stupid amount of money for my first time with a high class escort just 2 months ago, taking her out to dinner and all and spending 6 hours with her in total. Essentially making it a proper date, i enjoyed it.
Sex was less pleasurable than i imagined i will be honest, it felt a bit like a chore to go through the repetitive motions. However i enjoyed being intimate with someone, snuggling and kissing them. I tried several stuff to essentially find out what i like and dont like. It teaches you a good amount of stuff about yourself, it does really.
People tell me i am more relaxed now and easier to talk to. I dont really feel that different but slow changes are harder to notice i guess. Granted i already am on a way of self improvement, loosing 30 pounds in 6 months kind; so it was smack in the middle of it. I essentially used it as a reason to continue , if you are just planning to loose your v card and change nothing else, you wont see much of an improvement in your life.
Use it as a stepping stone, to pass a hurdle you just needed some help with. But don't stop moving after that..
Good luck user
Feel free to ask any questions.
I got my first gf after 20. There, you were just 100% proven wrong. Now admit you lied and apologize.
Hookers don't count. I've fucked plenty of hookers, it's legal in my country, it made no difference in regards to receiving female attention in general or being able to ask a girl out.
Well, then you must have been good looking and rich and just sabotaging yourself.
No way a modern roastie would settle for someone inexperienced unless he is a Chad in the making.
Why are you here and not r/incels? You do not belong on this site.
I literally told you people said i act more relaxed, these were by girls. So yeah it helped with getting female attention. No gf yet, but hey fingers crossed for soon..
Losing virginity is one of those things that looms larger in advance than it turns out to be. I suspect that your second thought (after "Hey! I did it!") will be "Is that all there is?" and your life will not change much
I don't think I would have enjoyed sex as much as I did if it were with someone I didn't love.
First time is gonna suck then you get more intimate and that's when it gets fun