Be me 19

Got news for you... It's not your height.. she doesn't like you.

I realize it's *probably* a meme, but I'm not doing anything better with my time, and I'll only be able to prove it a meme by doing it.
As to the rape thing, it's true. I'm not raping anyone while the state still stands, but if it goes down, I'm losing my virginity.

What's the cure, what do I do?
No I'm pretty sure it's my height. She specifically said it's my height and that she's sorry.
I would never try nofap. fapping does more good for you than bad.

Well, I've been tapping since puberty and my life isn't "good" so I don't see how not doing it would make it any worse. The great thing is I can start fapping again at any time if by some miracle not-fapping makes my life worse.
If the only thing I have to worry about is prostrate cancer, that's fine. I have no intention of living long anyhow

Can't worry about it man. Happens to literally everyone. Sometimes I get angry/frustrated but it's a waste of time.

Just got to move on a find someone else. It's like hunting for jobs. It sucks ass, but all you need is one "yes".

This. Even if that's the reason she thinks it is, it's not. She just isn't into you, even if she likes you as a person. It's never just one thing. Even the megathots who have hard "requirements" for guys, often (always?) break these "requirements".

It's more of a feeling than any set of criteria. You can't choose who you're attracted to, it's just a natural process. Stop focusing on the "reason", girls always lie about the reason, or often don't even know what the real reason is. They (and men do this too) come up with a reason why they don't like you, after already not liking you. It's just a rationalization.

Move on. Also, don't "pick" a girl and go after her like she's gonna be special. That's not how dating works. Be who you are in the world, if you like someone / you notice someone else likes you, there's a mutual attraction, ask her out, see how it goes. Stop this bullshit where you think you can select a mate and go after her and she'll become your girlfriend and you'll live happily ever after. You can't calculate your way into a relationship lol.

Imagine coping and cucking this hard.

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I don't even know what that's supposed to mean...

I mean you do you man.
What guarantees it won't be the same with the next girl? It's not like this one was out of my reach, she's literally shorter than me.

Surprise surprise, women are shallow bitches color me shocked.

No matter what height you are, don't ask a girl out unless she's made it implicitly known that she is into you.

My dad is 160 cm and has never had trouble finding women, including women taller than him (such as my mother). I'm 175 cm and have dated a girl who is 173 cm, and height wasn't brought up during our relationship, except jokingly when she wore heels one day and was taller than me.
What did I and the many manlets in my family do right? We lived our lives as we pleased, didn't place women at the top of our priorities, and waited for them to show interest in us before making a move ("let them come to you"). You and most of the advice seekers on this board don't do that. And while I am aware that many women place a lot of value on height, is it easier for somebody, in the heat of the moment, to tell you that they simply dislike your height rather than go over everything they don't like about your personality at once.

I'll be real honest here. Because of Christianity and arranged marriages many men managed to reproduce who wouldn't have managed to do it in other circumstances. With those 2 gone, it's only natural that this period is most incel-saturated.

Find something else to do with yourself. Hobbies that you're passionate about, whatever.

Well no girl has ever implicitly let me know that she likes me, not once in my 19 years
Hobbies and stuff don't mean shit, at the end of the day you're a failure if you never experienced love.

Welcome to the club user. We're even the same height. Albeit, I've been rejected 3 times. I would say take the black pill and forget about getting women for a while. It worked for me.

Why do we have again this same bait thread? OP is obviously 190cm and a bitter virgin.

I got rejected once because i am too "sweet". Never ever take this seriously and simply try different girl.

Remember there are always desperate cat ladies and single moms.

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Do you want a fucking picture of my 167 self to prove myself to you?

She's free not to want you for any reason whatever, including your height. Go kill yourself you make so angry I want to beat you to death.

We need to start aborting boys. That's the only solution to the incel problem.

I can't just forget about it it's all that I've ever wanted.

>don't "pick" a girl and go after her like she's gonna be special.
>if you like someone / you notice someone else likes you, there's a mutual attraction, ask her out, see how it goes.
How are these two different?
You shouldn't ask a girl out you like because you think she is special, but you should ask a girl out you like if she likes you too?
How can he know what is going on unless he asks people put?

Then ask more girls out user. Maybe you'll get more luck next time or they won't say "user you're nice and all, but you're a bit short. Sorry maybe if you were taller. We can still be friends tho, right?".
Then problem solved, or they would just reject you for other reason.

As if. If she had been stupid enough to give you a one-time pity fuck, you would have started whining and bitching why she isn't giving you more, why she isn't enacting all your sexual fantasies no matter how horrible and painful and disgusting they are to her, why she isn't texting you 24/7, why hasn't responded yet how dare she have anything else on her mind, in other words all the regular obsessive abusive stalker shit that marks you as mentally ill and fucking dangerous to her life and safety. You're already whining and throwing a tantrum like an obsessed little shit now. God, your mother didn't beat you enough. Little boys should get beaten into silence at age 3 for fuck's sake, spare the rod end up with the incel. We need gas chambers back for your kind.

You seem angery buddy
I will try to user but this just demoralized me. I thought she was perfect for me.

Do it. Then we will tell you what is actually wrong with you. Remember that at your height women find you statistically more attractive than any 180+ cm male. You probably are hideous or a spergy incel.

The distinction I was trying to make was between two different "strategies" for dating.

1.) What most guys do early on. They put one girl on a pedestal and go after exclusively this girl. They try to find a way to make her fall for them. They over invest in her.

2.) The (ime) more successful way, go about your life, don't invest too much in any girl at all unless she proves she's down for you (by having sex with you and spending quality time with you over a period of time). Don't focus on any one particular girl to obsess over.

As for asking girls out, I'm a pussy who often won't ask a girl out until she's displayed some signs of attraction. Like, they make eye contact, they talk to me more than other people at the party / function, they initiate conversation sometimes. Then I'll usually get their number or Facebook and ask 'em out. It's worked well.

That being said, it's a bad strategy. I'm missing out on all the girls who are afraid to make it clear they like me or would go out with me but aren't keen enough to initiate or show signs of attraction. So yeah, if I was more used to rejection, I'd have more opportunities. I'd get rejected more but hey, it's probably worth it.

>Remember that at your height women find you statistically more attractive than any 180+ cm male
Ohhh you're one of those retards. Yeah there's no point in proving myself to you.
Literal average for male height is 182 here.

How can I find them? I'm not interested in marrying either of those, but I'm not above a month long fling with either. Tinder et al yielded no results even after setting the age range to 26+.

I have personally done the second part and it is what made me single for over a decade. It is not a good strategy ime.

You don't believe facts when they would point out you are wrong. The only thing you have proven is that you chose to be an incel.

>I thought she was perfect for me
Did you even talk to her, no, I don't mean shit "Hey user how was your day" meaningless talk that people just to be polite while they really aren't listening and don't give a fuck about you. I mean about her, what she likes/what she doesn't like, what she thinks about men, what are her preferences. Did you? I bet you didn't you little faggot, you just made up a fantasy in your mind and now you're mad the real world doesn't give a shit. You have the mind of a toddler. Grow the fuck up before you ever speak to another woman or you'll always be rejected you retard.

Yeah I mean you still have to ask girls out, there's no getting around that.

Dude leave her alone. It's her choice.

How is it a fact?
If the average height is 182 of fucking course 167 is going to be laughable, you're making no sense. You're maybe talking from a spic country perspective where the average is like 175

If you think your own height is "laughable" you should probably get therapy.

I'm living her alone I don't care about her anymore, I said okay and walked away.
I mean we talked a couple of times at various parties, we've a few mutual friends but didn't know each other. Started talking at one party, then another, another... I'd say I knew her fairly well and that if I took it any longer I'd have goten friend zoned.

When it's 15 centimeters below the average male height yes. Female average is my height.

My brother is like 5'5 or so and his gf is like 8/10 on anyone's scale. She's a bit crazy but hey, he knocked her up and they're gonna get married. There are midgets with attractive normal girls.

Stop being a faggot. If you don't even like your own body you're not going to be confident enough to attract any self-respecting women.

>talking at parties
So you've never gone out with her alone, the two of you alone, with the specific purpose of talking to get to know each other better, without sex involved?
You're pretty much a stranger to her. And you're a retard not to realize this.

she a dumb bitch thats all

The country matters you dumb retard. It's better to be 167 in fucking Congo where the average is like 170 than in a Nordic country where it's 180+
I'd rather be 165 in America than 170 here.

Hence why I asked her out in the OP. What are you talking about even? I asked the girl out to get to know each other I didn't ask her to be my gf.
I hope you're trolling.

I have seen shop in city literally called baby caffee. It was full of moms and babies. I bet my meme folder that few of them were single moms :-)

More details
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Also tinder is shit. Try facebook and badoo.

It happens, OP. Don't worry about it too much and try to move ASAP. I once had a girl tell me she didn't want to see me again because I had a cat and she was a dog person.

Your problem is not being 15cm below average, it's being 15 IQ below average.

Okay thank you for the IQ test.

I'm moving on from this particular girl, I don't care about her anymore but it still hurts.
I already cut my loses and accepted I can't be with half the girls because they are taller and now that I've asked someone shorter than me and they said I'm still too short it's really tragic.

I don't think you're going to make any progress in this thread, so I'm gonna stop responding, but you're not giving yourself any options or ways forward. Things aren't going to change for you because you have this inferiority complex and you're holding onto it, tight.

Until you hit a wall and genuinely decide to change your outlook, you're fucked m8.

>Hence why I asked her out
People can tell when you have hidden intentions you know.
>I asked the girl out to get to know each other I didn't ask her to be my gf
>waaaaaaah why doesn't want to be my gf why isn't she having sex with me
>But I want a girlfriend now not inn 10 years
If you had a shred of dignity you'd just admit you fucked up and move on. You can't even admit you had other intentions than merely getting to know her as a person, you just expected sex, she knew it, and now you're mad she saw through your pathetic facade. Pathetic.

>it's your personality, not your height!
>OP is 167 cm and the girl said she likes taller guys

Jesus, normies are fucking retarded.

By their own admission, women often give a bullshit excuse when they reject a guy because they can't trust most guys to be mentally stable and not to chimp out when they hear the truth.

I know I won't make any progress I mostly came here to vent and to cope with it.
>you never talked to her alone
>don't ask her out to talk one on one alone
I just don't understand you guys at all.

I didn't tell her she's a whore or to kill herself I simply said "OK tell me if you change your mind", smiled and walked away. I was fully collected and calm in this scenario. I'm not a "nice guy"

But I didn't chimp out I stayed nice and calm, I came here to vent I didn't call her a bitch or anything.
In her eyes I calmly accepted the rejection and walked away.

is your mom amazonian?

Telling a 167 cm guy that he's too short seems like the truth to me.

Thnx m8

Ask her out but don't lie and say it's not because you want her to be your gf when it is. That shit marks you untrustworthy and undesirable and rightfully turns people away from you. What else were you going to hide from her, you little hypocrite?

And for fuck's sake remember she is a person with her own thoughts and whatever bullshit fantasies about her you had constructed in your mind are entirely your problem, if you really loved her you would have been ready to modify them to better reflect the reality of her at any time.

Can we not have a manlet thread everyday?
Thanks

>But I didn't chimp out I stayed nice and calm
Good, that's what you should do. She couldn't have known that beforehand however. She's not a fortune teller.

Sure, once women start going for shorter guys.

OP is not telling the truth you retard. You incels are so dumb.

Apparently not, too many bitter lanklet virgins out there

I literally just said "Hey do you want to go over the weekend and grab a coffee"
It's literally the most basic way to ask someone out. I didn't say "... It's not because I like you or anything.. .baka" I literally just asked her out normally.
Yes if I really loved her I'd modify my height.

Well what is one supposed to do then? I never had a negative interaction with her. Ever. I never gave her a reason to dislike me, I did everything by the book.

I'm telling it exactly as it was, what do I get from lying on an anonymous 4channel board?
Yeah just call me a lanklet, cover your ears and sing so you don't hear what I say.

It's not said you'd have one in 10 years. It may even be never.
Listen, you're trying to reach Mars with the equivalent of an african space program. It may happen in 10 years or 50. But if never happens it shouldn't be a surprise

>But if never happens it shouldn't be a surprise
I can't accept that mentally.

>we'll stop making daily threads on every board complaining that water is wet, when water will be dry
It's exactly like this. Just move on ffs! It will not happen

Imagine having an incurable cancer, like my grampa, and being said it will never see your grandchildren.
You just can't do anything. It doesn't depend on you. In your case, you can't change the mentaly of the very vast majority of girls. Why bother?

You sound like a spergy turboautist. No wonder girls don't like you.

You're never going to get a girlfriend until you stop being so desperate.

Typo
I meant: " you" will never see your grandchildren

>I literally just said "Hey do you want to go over the weekend and grab a coffee"
That's what your mouth said. Your body language gave away the rest.
>inb4 no it didn't
She saw through your ruse OP, it quite clearly did. You're not conscious of it.

>if I really loved her I'd modify my height
No, you'd correct your absurd expectations of her and you wouldn't call her a shallow bitch for rejecting you.

>I never had a negative interaction with her
Did you even bother to ask her or are you just presuming that because of your ego?

so what are you going to do?
beat any woman who refuses you until they start liking you?
I already know what you can/will do about this issue. nothing

how edgy

Okay so these threads have been done to death but listen OP, I've been in your shoes. I'm 5'7" which I believe is close to 167cm.

You will never be preferred due to your height. This is true and unfortunate. You are going to have to simply work harder than tall guys. Work out and develop a nice physique, dress well, read and be intelligent about things. Find humor in things. Enroll in University with a goal to make something of yourself. Still, you won't be able to nab a 5'8" gym thot. Oh well. Get over it.

There are plenty of 5'3" girls who would love to have a guy described as above. You simply are going to have to be better.

Mate I wasn't jumping around like a monkey is that hard too believe? Why are you projecting yourself on me?
I asked her out completely normal.
What fucking ruse? I just asked her out, that's what you're supposed to do.

>yes sorry did we ever have a negative interaction

You clearly have no fucking clue how any of this works or you're just trolling.

>I'm 5'7" which I believe is close to 167cm
Yeah it's 170.

I'm trying my hardest to self improve and I thought I was ready for this but I clearly was not.

Maybe in 5 to 15 years, a depressed single mother would think about accepting to go out with him.
manlets, when will they learn?

cold approaches won't work, you need to read her body language to see if she would be receptive to your advances

Why are you lying to OP?

I would defend OP on this. I mean, jeez why would you assume he acted like a turbosperg in public? Sounds like he did nothing wrong and got rejected just because he's a manlet. Which is VERY likely and ought not surprise anyone to say it was because he's autistic

You're making this about you and it's getting you down needlessly user.

She's either "holding out for someone better" (a process that can potentially go on forever until she's undesirable and old) , or has a "list" of requirements (picky, usually a red flag and indicates high maintenance.
Another possible option is that she's just not attracted to you, but was shitty and tactless, or even vindictive about it.

Forget her and move on user.
Also, don't bother getting into a relationship with someone unless you know them and what kind of person she is first.
That's the one piece if advice that I can give you that'll save a whole lot of heartbreak in the long run.

See

The point isn't that it's impossible she rejected him because of his height. It's entirely plausible. The point is he's generalizing this to all future advances he'll ever make on women. Which is nonsense.

I'm 5'7 and do fine with women. Taller, shorter, doesn't matter. I actually tend to do a little better with taller girls for whatever reason, lately. Focusing on the reason is not helpful advice, and getting dragged into this retarded "manlet / lanklet" thing is a tremendous waste of time and likely to create more issues than it resolves.

It'll be alright dude. Judging from the replies to just my post you gotta remember Jow Forums will fuck with your mind over time. I kinda stopped browsing Jow Forums because of all the manlet threads.

I wish I could help you more user. Being rejected sucks. Being short sucks. But you'll make it bro. Keep working on yourself. Don't become one of those r9k losers who hates women and unironically trolls the Jow Forums boards

Have you not read OP's posts? He is more than obviously a turboautistic sperg. Any girl would reject him no matter what his height were.

>99% of girls are shallow.
This one girl is not 99% of girls, you absolute idiot.

Yeah, let's do a reverse China

Yes you are a failure but I doubt you have the guts to kill yourself so might as well do something that you find pleasant

R29 and R30

Short girls always want super tall boyfriends. It is rare to find otherwise. Someone average height would be more into you.