How do I get over it bros. Its not even that bad compared to some other girls, but she had one long term bf before me who she lost her virginity to and had a lot of sex with in general. They did every position imaginable, cause every time I ask her if she's done something before in bed the answer is yes, so yeah I should probably stop asking. She also fucked one dude between me and her ex but that was just once, so that doesnt really bother me too much, its mostly the ex bf. We both love each other but we're 4 months into the relationship and this shit is still bothering me, in fact I feel like its getting worse. I think about it every day, even when Im not with her. I want to go forward in this relationship but the thoughts of her getting plowed by another dude with a bigger dick than me (she said it hurt every time they had sex) continue to haunt me. How can I "just get over it?"
Gf's sexual history bothering me
>she said it hurt every time they had sex
that's generally a bad thing. most girls don't like it when you're pounding their cervix.
this has less to do with your gf's sexual history and more to do with your shit-tier self-esteem. remember that she's choosing to be with you despite the fact that there are bigger dicks out there for her to fuck. there's more to relationships than the size of your dick.
>tfw my dick is bigger than 99.67% of guys
>tfw still have crippling anxiety about the fact that just about any girl I date will have much more experience with relationships.
My longest relationship was with a huge dick guy, painful sex and all. My bf doesn’t know about the size but in a similar situation he knows I’ve tried a bunch of stuff within that context.
Git gud at oral and fingering, and foreplay. That alone will put you above 99% of guys. And if she has kinks or stuff she’s curious about trying, go for it
>This post again
user, why are you doing this? Don't you have nothing better to do?
This post again? OP always writes this same cuck fantasy with small variations.
there's no way you can get over this, if you try to hide it away it'll hurt you both in the long run. the best thing to do would be to talk to her about it, just focusing on a feeling like that in conversation can diffuse it's power. don't let anything be left unsaid or it'll gnaw at you.
just try not to blame her, it'll come off wrong.
literally me
Oh, I see, you’re just being insecure. Your girlfriend has been with an average amount of people, but you’re concerned about their penis size and how many positions they were in. Yeah, this sounds wildly insecure. If you want to have a good time with your girlfriend, why not be positive and just focus on that?
I can feel god laughing at us.
Yeah my mental health is pretty shit desu, and I’m particularly depressed right now so thats probably just making my obsessive thinking worse
Sometimes life is poop or a weird mental state gets the better of us, but having a girlfriend you trust and get along with is a blessing, especially one who is probably young and hot.
Because I need to prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that I am better than him in every way. I need to know that I could kill him with a glance, that his name is an antonym for dominance, that I will never lose this relationship because of him.
Is your gfs name Haley?
Lol it is isn't it. Funny. Only got back on here to see if you were still a bitch. That's fucking hilarious. I'm done here.
And that dude she slept with between us? That was before we broke up. She's a cheater dude.
Bullshit. Every girl I’ve ever fucked says they love it when it hits bottom.
Sorry op, you’re just at a significant disadvantage
read that in a theatrical voice
Maybe. But it just fucks with you doesn't it.
Bullshit. My girlfriend literally has to vomit after I hit her cervix.
Sorry user, but you're larping and reddit spacing.
Not the same user I’ve been told the same thing 100% of the time. Possible they were just gassing me up, though.
Ime they tend to like it when it's gentle, not so much when you're repeatedly smashing into it. It's not some magical thing tho, certainly not something that's gonna make or break a relationship lmao.
Ya'll paranoid af. Plus most of the time if she's really aroused her cervix will sort of "move" up and out of the way, unless you have a very long penis.
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I got a long dick. Depending the girl’s vag size it’ll be different. I’ve seen three vaginers and the clit size pretty much indicated how big their vag would be and how much physical pleasure they got from sex.
Bump.