how do you feel when your gf says other guys are hot or how would you feel?
How do you feel when your gf says other guys are hot or how would you feel?
Well I'm bi, so I'd probably agree with her.
You don't stop being attracted to other people just because you enter a relationship. If you're worried that she's interested in being with someone else, and that suspicion is based in reality and not just paranoia, then talk to her about it.
But a healthy relationship requires trust, you shouldn't need to know what your SO is doing/thinking all the time, if you can't trust her to not cheat on you when you're not around, then that's not a good sign.
But it's perfectly normal to not like your gf calling other guys handsome, just talk to her about it, I'm sure she wouldn't like it if you called out every Phat ass you saw on the street
One time my girl did that,
I punched her vagina
I might agree. There's a lot to be admired about a well built and attractive dude. But then, I'm a well built and attractive dude.
Depends on how she says it.
If she goes. "He's pretty hot" casually then fine.
But if she says it while exhaling then starts biting her lip and closing her eyes fantasizing about him. Then I might be a little worried
maybe it's not as bad as seeing her making out with other guys after the two of you just fucked
My ex would do this about famous guys. I took it in stride and agreed with her. She was just busting my balls I think to see if I'd be a bitch about it.
she is negging you
I give her permission to hit on him if she pleases and a few times we had cuckolding sessions afterwards.
The only time it is acceptable in a relationship to comment on someone being hot is if you're watching a movie and it's a casual remark. Otherwise it's disrespectful to your partner.
Based and redpilled
I accidentally saw a photo of a beggar man who had a huge flaccid cock. I told my husband about it because I was just so shocked by it. When we had sex later that day, I felt guilty and sad.
I don't give a fuck. Because she also tells me that she's never wanted anyone more than the way she wants me, and that I fuck her better than other guy that she's been with. She's always telling me how sexy she thinks I am and that sex with me is "life changing." And I believe her, because her body has reactions to me that you can't fake. So the tl;dr version: I don't care because I know I'm better than them
Lol, what ?
It would make me feel like she’s getting it up the ass that night.
>imagine being so insecure about minor comments that it makes you want to anally rape your partner
I'm glad I'm not your gf
I wouldn’t care. As long as it’s only about looks. But if I know she’s turned on by bigger cocks, that would crush my self esteem and make me feel like I don’t deserve her.
How did you ACTUALLY feel about it? Were you turned on? Please be honest.
This
This would be the exact second I enabled my emotional firewall and reduced the relationship to an economic exchange of body fluids and casual fun until we decide to end it. There is no clearer sign of future cheating than openly lusting after other people. It's one big step of giving in to a need that is naturally there but can be controlled. Control is the essence of long-term social relationships. If that isn't given, the whole point of the relationship is moot.
>Not wanting to be anally raped
I'm glad you're not my GF either.
>If you're worried that she's interested in being with someone else, and that suspicion is based in reality and not just paranoia
>that suspicion is based in reality and not just paranoia
but how do you know?
jealous
all people find people other than their bf/gf attractive but it's rude to admit it because it will make your partner jealous
so she is either a moron or doesnt care about how you feel
I would slap her for being innapropriate
Depends how it's done, the tone etc
If she just says I saw a handsome guy at the store the other day, I would just say huh, well I saw a girl with a great ass passing by work the other day. Make a joke out of it and we playfight/have some banter.
If she's saying oh my god this guy I met the other day is so beautiful, or like, complementing someone she knows well (especially if they start hanging out alone) I'd be concerned and probably say so.
cuck
I’m glad I’m in a long lasting relationship where we don’t do this to each other. Lol
You say that like he doesn't already know. And when we get to the point where we call people cucks like it's a bad thing.