Please tell me if this is normal

Please tell me if this is normal.

My girlfriend has an IUD and we just started having sex without condoms this weekend. Cumming inside of her was amazing for both of us, but I'm really taken aback by the fact that she is not cleaning up afterwards. The first time I though maybe it was a fluke and I just missed it, it seemed like she just wiped off the outside of her pussy with a towel and that was it. I thought maybe I wasn't paying close enough attention. Then last night I gave her a massive load and watched closely with peripheral vision and noticed she did the same thing, only cleaned the outside of her pussy.

I went to the bathroom to freshen up and when I came back I asked her if she needed to use it to freshen up and she said no. I was flabbergasted by this. My previous girlfriends all would be in the bathroom almost immediately after sex, maybe sometimes after cuddling for a few minutes first but they all at some point went in to freshen up.

I just keep thinking about this and it's Fucking disgusting to me. What happens to the cum, does she let it dry and wait until she showers the next day, or happen to get rid of it the next time she pees like it's an afterthought?

I'm almost to the point where I don't want to have sex with her the next time she stays over.

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It will naturally come out eventually, but sometimes it can take hours or days. It depends on the person.

Well, for starters, IUD doesn't mean 100% no babies so have fun with that. Secondarily, uh, please don't misunderstand but it's more a show of how uneducated she is about her body; maybe this is a difficult thing to broach at whatever stage you're at but it is a bridge that needs crossing.

She should absolutely be freshening up. I haven't the foggiest why she wouldn't.

Please identify yourself. Do you have a vagina?

I think it's fine. She could have a tapered shape that will keep it in for a while. Idk what you mean by freshening up? Douching is bad for your vagina and can lead to yeast infections. If she showers the next day then she can just clean it out with her fingers at that point. Whenever I orgasm I don't feel like getting out of bed until the morning because my limbs feel fatigued.

>I'm almost to the point where I don't want to have sex with her the next time she stays over.
My god what a sperg you are.

Sperm inside the vagina doesn't do anything bad unless she's allergic to sperm. It maybe causes the vagina to smell a little the next morning, but that's only reliant on if the both of you take care of yourselves. Meaning you both are healthy and have good diets and both of your stuff smells fine normally. As long as she's showering the next day, it shouldn't be a problem for her vagina. And who the fuck wants to put a towel inside their vagina? That shit will hurt. She would have to take a shower every time you both have sex and even then, there's no way she'd get all the sperm out. Your ex gfs "freshening up" after does not mean they got all the sperm out.

Find a girl that enjoys you nutting inside of her, complains about it.

You’re a fucking idiot.

If you are banging at your place ask her to clean up in the bathroom afterwards because you just put new sheets on the bed.
That said she might get funny about it if you're cumming in her then telling her to go to the bathroom and push it out.

Do you people not take a shower after sex? You're just as bad as she is.

Idiots posting in a stupid threat...

Look, her body fucking absorbs it. Sure if she goes on the toilet and pushes some will come out but if she just goes to sleep her body will just absorb it.

And here’s something else; if you’re with your spouse for a long enough time and say you’re allergic to something right, well her absorbing your fluids for long enough can pass traits like that from you to her, and her to you.

It’s goofy you believe that cum can simply be washed out. It’s not healthy to douche every time you have sex. If you don’t want there to be cum in her pussy, stop blowing loads in it.

People should take a shower once a day because for most people that’s the minimum to not stink. Too much showering isn’t good for you, I don’t think.

>How many showers should there be in a day?

Enough not to be a filthy fucking animal at least. What the fuck, is this seriously a thing? Do people actually just hang around with bodily fluids, sweat and whatnot all over themselves all day?

You’re crazy, man. It’s normal to take a shower after sex but damn.

Where is it okay to cum then?

wrong

sperm fucks up the acidity in the vagina and can both cause UTIs and bacterial infections. it's very important for women to pee after sex, especially if they get cum in there.

>he thinks you fuck her urethra

These sound like all dude replies. Has there even been a single female reply to this thread?

What the fuck are you talking about? “Freshen up” is clearly some euphemism for something, but I have no idea what. You expect her to ream out her vagoo with some kind of puss brush? Vacuum? Bleach douche?

Women are built to be fucked. She’ll be fine.

Except for the part about having sex with a retard.

This thread needs a medfag I guess:

First the most common problem for women is, that, when they sit/stand up after a creampie,a part of the cum and their own juices will drip out, thats why they catch and clean everything on the outside.

the second most common issue is getting an infection of the vagina, or UTI. This is highly differential from one woman to another, some have days like before the period where they are more at danger, but the general rule should be: a drop of cum in a wet place is rarely a problem, too much friction(lack of lube), sexual kinks and overdoing the hygene often are problems. against UTis, going on the toilet after and wiping the outside is enough.

So When is it necessary to wipe/clean the vagina? if its healthy, never. Anything that doesnt belong there should not get in there. unless necessary dont rinse it, dont soap it, dont use tampons more then necessary, especially dont leave them in for multiple days (toxic tampon syndrome can kill you)

OP, if your GF is healthy, what she does is best practice and does not need any improvement. Just dont go down on her two days after a creampie and you should be fine

Yeah because obviously pee passes through the vaginal hole?
Search for vagina diagrams before posting nonesense.

>this whole thread
Americans should be shot. Do you faggots not have anatomy/sexual health classes in school?

I don't know, personally I only do it occasionally, depending on what happens next. If this is pre-sleep sex, I prefer to just sleep and deal with it in the morning. It just gets peed out naturally.

It's not like you need to clean it ASAP. It might feel a bit weird sometimes, but I generally don't mind it, I like the feeling top much, and I like not breaking the afterglow to go to the bathroom.

What are you talking about?

First off, yeah, the acidic balance will be off of you don't wash, but even water fucks up the acidic balance, because our PH value isn't neutral. Your body gets used to it pretty fast as well, so while it'll be uncomfortable and a bit itchy the first few times, but it isn't anywhere near as bad as you claim it is, and after a few times, you don't really notice it anymore.

I think you're being a bit overdramatic OP. Yes, if you bust a big nut inside her, some of your cum will leak out of her vagina. But unless she actively tries to push out your cum (yes, women can do this by contracting their pelvic muscles), most of your nut will stay inside her vagina. I mean think about it, nature intended this to be. A woman's vagina is at least somewhat designed to retain as much sperm as possible. Especially if she lays down flat on her back after nutting inside her, most of it will stay in there.

Holy shit men are stupid as fuck.

Vaginas have a natural way of daily cleaning itself and it's called discharge. There are fluids that wipes everything out of the vag daily.

It is NOT A GOOD IDEA to clean your vag from the inside, that is dangerous. Nature has its way to keep the insides healthy and clean. Thats why there are medication you insert on your vag where some is absorbed and the rest is discharged.

Please men, stop being fucking idiots and research a little about female anatomy.

And yes you need to pee after sex But not because you pee from the vag canal. It's because some residue can stay at the entrance of the urethra and you can have a bit of a urine infection, and it will burn to pee.

Forget something i wanted to mention here.

>what happens to my cum, does she let it dry?
Your cum gets absorbed by her pussy juice. Your semen is little more than just water(ish) fluid blended with some minerals and electrolytes your body adds to it so your sperm survives longer. Once your sperm enters a vagina it gets blended up with her juices. Your swimmers can stay alive in there for days though.

It doesn't 'dry up' into some sort of toast on the inside/outside of her vagina.

She NEEDS to pee after sex, not doing is asking for a UTI.

As for the cum, who cares. It seeps out. But not peeing after sex is the leading cause of UTIs, she needs to start doing it.