Why does my gf feel like a 24/7 heartbreak?
She's great, amazing and understanding girl, and I love her yet since being with her I'm constantly anxious and depressed.
Help?
Why does my gf feel like a 24/7 heartbreak?
Easton Reyes
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Matthew Hall
Same bro, I just feel so anxious about her leaving me as well.
Ayden Scott
How long did you date? It took a year and a half for me to get my boyfriend over it
Easton Edwards
I'm honestly considering breaking up because I simply can't cope with this feeling, it's killing me inside
Dominic Thompson
How long have you two been dating? Have you spoken to her about what you're feeling? Have you considered the reasons why you feel this way?
Jaxon Myers
About 3 months, first girl I feel like this about trough, I had longer relationships but they weren't like this.
I have no idea why I feel like this, I can't have sex with her cause of it, I started self-harm cause of it, I'm trying to break out of this with more self-improvement but it's not helping.
I have absolutely no idea what's going on, I haven't cried in years before meeting her, I love her, we had no fights, she's the most understanding girl ever, but it's killing me slowly.
Xavier Powell
Sounds like theres a deeper issue at play here
Isaac Jones
This is gonna sound weird and far-fetched but I'm gonna go for it.
We live in this world, in this dimension as meat bags. There's tons of things happening that we are unaware of. That's why religion, witchcraft, nirvana, etc exist. We've made a 1% dent in our grasping of the universe. With that being said, her invisible world may have some serious darkness, and you may just have an affinity to empathize with said darkness. It happens to me, too. That's why you might be very confused, because it doesn't line up with who you are . When things feel so random and sudden, that's how I know something's wrong. Maybe think about it?
Austin Martinez
Ignore this
Look at yoursel. You're at risk of breaking up out of fear of breaking up. Just let it happen, otherwise you're just garunteeing what you want to avoid. And if she does break up with you? That was already inevitable because of your worrying so who cares?
Daniel Morales
Fuck
Well, her father died, her twin sister tried to kill herself, but she's quite a positive and lovely person outside of that.
But it kinda adds up, I don't believe in any of this but something here might be it
Aaron Richardson
I don't think it's the fear of breaking up, it's something else entirely, she's more scared I'll leave her than the other way around.
Joseph Garcia
Jesus christ mate. You're somebody worth loving, maybe not in your own eyes because you can see that you aren't all that you could be. Now don't take this to mean that her love for you indicates that there's anything actually wrong with her either, it's just that she sees you in a similar way to the way that you see her, even if you don't think you're worthy of it. Over time you'll start to notice the little blemishes but deep down we're (probably) all deeply, deeply flawed beings and it's sometimes astonishoning that someone could love a wretched creature such as us. But again this stuff goes both ways, and she likely feels the same way sometimes or has at some point in her life. Ultimately you have to build yourself into the man you know you can be, to be worthy of that love in your own eyes. With any luck you'll both grow, together, and it'll be fuckin beautiful.
Maybe one of you out grows the other overtime and things fall apart but that's life, and you know what? You'll find that you're a better man than you were 2 years ago and in 2 more years you're gonna be better still and hopefully you take everything you learned into the next relationship.
Or you can wallow in self loathing and you get the smug satisfaction of being right, whatever make your own fucking decisions it's your life but nothing worth doing is ever easy.
David Rodriguez
It’s a fear of intamacy and being hurt. I get it too. It just means you really like her. The more you like someone the worse it feels.
Daniel Jackson
>he hasn’t been anxious and depressed for an entire five year LTR
get on my level.
It ended horribly. I wish I ended it before it got that ugly. The wounds are still healing.
Charles Perry
is she hot?
Cameron Nelson
Very hot
Parker Wilson
God damn, this is exactly how I feel. I thought I was crazy
Luke Stewart
If it doesn't hurt it's not love.
Juan Gonzalez
I just got out of a two year relationship with a woman who always pushed me to be the best I could be, and myself vice versa. I got too comfortable near the end, and we didn't have much in common for the long term, but it was an amicable split, and I hope she's happy wherever she goes.
I'm heartbroken, but reading this makes me feel better. Thanks user. It really rings true.
Isaac Thompson
this is her fate. Deal with it whit*oid
Christian Wood
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I could be wrong but hey why not throw this possibility out there
I was with a girl for a year and a half (first relationship) and I had an overwhelming fear of abandonment from day 1 to the very end
Matthew Sanchez
Not American, not even sure if black people are real as I've only seen them on TV.
It's an okay bait.
Kevin Mitchell
>not even sure if black people are real
When you take somebody's bait and just up the fucken ante