Tinder?

how do you guys feel about tinder. i've been considering it, looking for something serious.

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Sadly, if your are looking for something serious tinder is not your place. Too many people of both

>gender

Trying to white themselves on tinder.

I would try maybe going to a place with people with similar interests instead.

Don’t use tinder for something serious, as someone who started using it to look the same I realized some girls might say they want something serious on the bios but if the opportunity appears and you are the right dude they will gladly just have a one night stand, as an averagely looking dude I can say I love it, i also live in a very touristic place so that adds up with the match, I can’t go out with every single one of my matches for time and money issues but I do recommend it to have fun, always use protection tho, you don’t want any stds or tinder surprises ( forgive my iPad screenshot lol)

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Also try bumble, better looking girls there, it also might be because of where I live tho, but I think is for better looking people (gotta admit not that popular there tho)

Bumble would be better for something serious. Tinder is okay but what it gets used for varies depending on your geographic location. In the US it's very hook up centric. Outside the US it's less hook up centric but still not great for serious relationships.

bumble is much better quality, plus my success rate was higher than tinder.

also... women you match with have 24 hours to message you first, or it disappears. its awesome

however, hinge is specifically designed to try and get people into relationships. but, i mean i still used it as a hookup app anyway lol

Come on, it’s for hookups it’s like saying Snapchat was created to aid with school... it was for nudes and have a way to delete the evidence, later used for different things but still is used for its original purpose

i know that. i will say hinge had better quality females. like, ones with actual personalities and thoughts of their own.

Literally zero matches. Remember to be attractive.

I went on a tinder date with a girl at my uni and it was the most unpleasant social interaction of my life

Should've tried getting wasted.

>average guy
>98 matches
I don't believe it

I don’t know bruv.. a lot of generalizations and assumptions going on around.

After I broke up with my ex in spring 2017, I tried Tinder. Had some hookups, some bad dates but found the one there. We’ve been together for over a year now and it’s pretty serious. I wouldn’t dismiss it just because the general consensus is one way.
Just be clear about your intentions if you click with somebody, I say.

No, just no.

Meet people irl, socialize and exchange body language.

Tinder is good for finding a date and it works well, you should at least try it.

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Are you female or male?

This is why you are still a kissless virgin.

>Meet people irl
How?
At work? While shopping? At hobbies?
There are so many bad places to meet people I don't think there are any good ones. Hobbies tend to be gender segregated or not that popular to meet that many people, meaning you have one, maybe two options which makes it unlikely.
Even if you have women in your professional field, it isn't good to flirt with those as you risk getting fired along your rejection.
And nobody wants to be bothered while shopping, so that part is only good for learning to handle rejection.

What's that supposed to mean?

By building a report with her and her co workers. Never ever cold approach a woman.

Im not though. Just another average guy that has no success with those apps

Ignore people who say You can’t find something serious on Tinder. I matched with my current gf after two days on there. And now we’re planning on moving in together and getting married in the future. And we aren’t the only couple in her friend group that met on Tinder. It’s changed from how it used to be

doesn't work for me at all

Did you ask tech support for help? What error message did you get?

The '0 matches' one.

Hey must be a common bug then. I got that too!

Look, I am average looking, I’ve lived in Cancun for 2 years now because of work, sales, real state and vocational ownerships (as I said, it helps with the quantity of girls I get to see, some live here and others are tourists, I can’t manage time or even sometimes I don’t have all the money I would love to see every singe one) not that in shape not fat or even chubby tho, I don’t like to use old photos, I think what I enjoyed when I got here, I have dogs which girls love, in reality is having confidence and realizing you are not picking the girls, they are the ones who are liking you, after that is all a give and take just like in sales, I enjoy it at least, going back to OP, I wouldn’t use it to find a girlfriend, but why not using it while you find the right girl

ITT: as in every Tinder thread, Americans will insist that nobody uses Tinder for serious relationships, some random people will argue against that without stating their location, and in general it'll be a complete fucking mess because OP didn't even state their location in the first place.

the way people use Tinder is HEAVILY dependent on the country you're in.

The point was that average dudes don't get that many matches.

Don't bother. Hypergamy will fuck your shit up, if male.

I don't use tinder for something "serious" (serious for me is dating till marriage or something similar as I'd rather go with the flow idk), but would like to get a relationship. I also do not like hook ups. It's pretty much my only option since I cannot pick up on social cues nor have the courage to ask someone out irl. Plus I have more confidence to speak to people online.

Agreed. Also what part of the country. You'll get a hell of a lot more options (people who are all in for hook ups and people who want a relationship) in the cities compare to the boonies where people want to hook up (in my area hometown look subpar at best).

We do, anyways, this is me, just woke up, even if you wanna call me below average it’s fine by me, apparently women seem to like confident people who can joke about themselves

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I remember her, Marina, I saw her while I was showing a condo, she was talking with a coworker, and later we find her on Tinder my friends and I, arrange a meet up, nothing crazy going for a couple beers, mybe to “suggest” places she could go, oh but she and her friend are all alone, everything would be better with friends right? Well me and my friend can help with that, and the rest is history

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you're above avg stfu

you can find anythin on tinder. but be upfront on what you want. but dont think the girl you are interested in. will be loyal even if she agrees to date you. one bad argument and shes back on tinder.

Met my gf of 4 years on tinder lol. I think that is quite rare though, people are mostly looking for hook ups on there.

Lad stop pretending you are average