How can I persuade my girlfriend to suck my dick in a subtle way?

I've had success by just holding it really close up to her face. Also do not tell her to 'give you the succ' i know it's funny but it seems to turn off.

You should never let a girl suck your dick. It gives them too much power. They have this weird urge to want to please you. Very similar to a puppy actually. If you deny them this opportunity they will feel bad, like something is wrong with them. Over time they become more eager to please. This is how you get a loyal and attentive gf.

A girl who, on her initiative, wants to suck your dick is a good sign that she considers you 'the alpha' in the relationship. Hence, her desire to please you sexually and keep you satisfied so you won't leave her.

I guess that makes you the dominant one.

tf?

$100 says this guy is a virgin

Exactly, you have to dominate. And giving in and having them suck your dick is pure weakness. It gives them way too much power

>Exactly, you have to dominate.
I consider myself quite masculine in bed, but always one can improve. Some advice on how to be more dominant?

What kind of girlfriend doesnt suck dick?
I bet that poor girl doesnt even let you eat her ass

Tell her shes missing out desu being degenerate together is the best thing on earth

literally just ask your partners about it and tell them it's really important to you. i don't understand why people want to be intimate with and date people that they can't even communicate with. literally just ask the person.

if sex is important to you, and oral is a big part of sex for you then it's a reasonable reason to break up. your needs aren't being met. that's your judgement call to make though.

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I got it by fingering her a couple of times and telling her she needed to repay me while I was doing it one time. She was so horny in the moment that she agreed and the next time we met she did it. She had never given a blowjob and was understandably horrible at it. Pic related when she finished and said "I suck at this".

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>she needed to repay me while I was doing it one time
Good that it worked for you but again like i mentioned in , this isn't the ideal way to go about it. Generally speaking you don't want to 'negotiate' getting your dick sucked because it kills any kind of natural desire. At that point it becomes an obligation and she'll lose respect and attraction for you as a result of it.

If you are gonna negotiate it like you did, you should definitely make it come across in a playful manner. Make it sound like you're just joking around having fun. But at the same time it subtly reminds her that she really should be returning the favor.

I been married 8 years to a waifu who sucked my dick exactly four times. Why the fuck four? It's obviously not so horrendous for her that she literally would rather die. She knows how important blowjobs are to me, and yet just won't do it. It's been three years since she sucked my dick. Luckily it's been less than three years since I've had my dick sucked, so it's not all bad. But still, don't think you can ignore it and don't think she'll come round- if she won't, find someone who will

I always talked dirty to her while fingering her (I'm gonna do whatever I want with you, you're my toy etc) so when I said "this ain't free, you're gonna work on me next time" she took it as part of the game but also went along with it because she was a truly selfless person and actually felt obligated since I had fingered her several times and I was the first one to do it on her.

>It's been three years since she sucked my dick. Luckily it's been less than three years since I've had my dick sucked
So you cheat her?

>actually felt obligated since I had fingered her several times
OP here, I fingered my girlfriend the other night and when finish she thanks me and fell asleep. Fuck this shit bruh...

Yup. She's godawful selfish in pretty much all areas of our lives, the lack of blowjobs should have been a warning sign but I was loved up and thought I could handle it. Turns out I cant
>inb4 just leave her
Staying for the kids

OP sorry to say but you're probably bad in bed. I find my bf hot as hell and I love sucking his dick, it's one of my favorite parts of sex and gets me really horny. He's amazing in bed and makes me cum often, it's all about give and take with us when it comes to sex. If she doesn't want to suck your dick, she probably isn't satisfied sexually and doesn't feel the "need" to do selfless sexual acts for you. Suggest doing 69, maybe she'd be up for it if she also gets something in return.

Damn dude she sounds like she's only in it for herself.

Did it feel bad when you cheated on her? I've heard the guilt is too much to handle, but you sound okay to me. My girl doesn't care that much for me either, so I though about hiring an escort, but I'm not sure.

Ok, here's what. First, unless you're tied to this girl through complex reasons you can't/don't want to break, if you don't love her and don't enjoy your time together, cut her loose. It will free you as well in the process. Guilt of cheating, I thought it would be bad, but actually it was beautiful. I'd forgotten the simple joy of sharing your body with someone else for the first time. I wouldn't use an escort, though. Get a second phone number, a second Facebook, a credit card she doesn't know about and get on Tinder. Godspeed

I remember my first bj, this just started sucking my dick on her own while we were sitting in the car. I was surprised, but it was pretty much the best thing ever. Way better than my first time having sex.

>Suggest doing 69, maybe she'd be up for it if she also gets something in return.
Thanks user, will do
>Way better than my first time having sex.
Absolutely. Blowjob it's better than sex sometimes, that's why I want it so much

Careful, alot chicks hate 69. Its too much going on for them.

You’re fuckin retarded dude

You’re even more retarded for buying his shit and asking that dumb nigger for advice

Give me some quality advice then :)

subtly whip it out and smack her face with it

Is she usually very blatant about sucking your dick?

I think that may be a fake excuse because you’re (understandably) nervous to ask for that. I guess you should take a look at why, in the heat of the moment, her giving you head is okay, but spontaneously asking for your dick sucked makes you nervous.

Have you tried foreplay, or do you just want a scenario where you effortlessly say “succ” and it happens? If you are going to ask for the latter, you might have to own it at least a little bit.

>But I feel nervous to ask for head under any circumstance!
Try talking to her about it and see if she can resolve your anxiety about it and maybe tell you how she’d prefer to be asked. It’s a pretty reasonable request if you’re both in bed petting each other and everything.

>tfw 69 is my favorite thing to do in bed

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I find it so weird how guys have to convince their girlfriends to suck their dicks. I don’t get it, as if you wouldn’t want to suck it, if you really love them.
I suck my boufriends dick as soon as he gets home from work because I love him so much and just want him in my mouth.

And we are at a point where if he wants it, he just tells me to suck it and I do.

Putting your boyfriends dick in your mouth is the best feeling ever, I don’t understand why other women hate it

I tell girls I don't like getting my dick sucked because it's not that great for me. sometimes they want to prove me wrong and sometimes they don;t. i dont care
this is one of those gay posters who tries to convince men to want to suck dick btw

this is one of those dudes who doesn't understand the subtle dom/sub/vulnerability/trust situations that dick sucking is.

>dom/sub/blah blah blah
Fucked if I know, I just like ejaculating in mouths

I just told my husband and baby daddy he gets no more BJs til he stop being a sponsor in his cult which has been enabling him to be abusive to me. The look on his face, looks like he was really enjoying being abusive. Might just file divorce papers and try to fight for custody after all.

BJs are reserved for family men who do everything right. Up until he joined this new cult and started putting more time and energy into it than bring the best partner he could be (aka doing all he could to make me happy every second of our lives), I was happy to blow him. When he joined the cult he accused me of manipulating him, made him a slave, and other stupid bullshit. Now he gets no BJs. Be her "slave," of love, OP. Then you will get what you want.

What’s this fucking cult??

nice bait, chief. Made me laugh